Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

My boyfriend is not that sure about an April Fool's Day marriage. I am a prankster and enjoy laughter and fun. Some of my friends agree with him and some agree it fits with my personality. We are still working on this date issue. He is deciding on it.

2006-11-01 01:50:28 · 15 answers · asked by kitty cat 3

Does stress affect your sex drive? If you are having problems at work or elsewhere, but the relationship is good, does it affect you?I've heard that it does, and it seems to be happening in my relationship, just curious if stress really does affect a man's libido.

2006-11-01 01:48:45 · 26 answers · asked by Lotus 6

We are both married to other people. We were best friends. Stay at home parents. I am happily married (or so I thaught). Very lucky to be a stay at home dad and raise my kids. My friend, a stay at home mom, fell in love with me. I loved her as a friend but easily felt more when she told me this. This was the most powerful time in my life. Never believed in soulmates. Now I do. We only kissed once. We did not want to cheat on our spouses. I know kissing is cheating. I have choosen to stay with my wife and family (I told my wife what happened with us. She was/is very hurt. I was wrong I know. In our 13 years of marriage I have never cheated. We have a good/great marriage and I am going to be the best dad and husband i can possibly be. Problem is... HOW DO I FORGET ABOUT MY FRIEND? HOW DO I STOP THINKING ABOUT HER? Time?? We are not allowed contact and we are not contacting each other but our kids are friends and there are many school functions in this small town.

2006-11-01 01:46:50 · 15 answers · asked by Samplepic 2

I need help. I dont know what to do?
hey guys

OK here goes. I come over to the USA on a HB2 working visa only valid for about 3 months I jumped the visa . I only got it to get into the country Cos i have a boyfriend here in the states We were suppose to get married asap but the lawyer said to wait cos it will be suspicious, My visa expired 8 months ago and still not married. I am getting worried. I hate being illegal and worry all the time. I miss my family and my friends back home. I talk to him about it and still nothing i do love him but i guess i have to take matters into my own hands. So i cant wait for him to marry me to get legal i think he is satisfied about the living arraingments and the fact that i am here now and feel no need for him to get married i think his selfish not to see my point of view in this..
How do i go about a backup plan? how do i get legal myself ? Any advise will be so much appreciated.

2006-11-01 01:42:28 · 6 answers · asked by bcb 1

ok here's the deal. i'm bi and my man knows that but he is so insecure. i'm a very sexual person, and he works nights and goes to bed then gets up in time to go to work the next day. we have sex maybe once a week and it is only when HE wants it. granted it is great but i need more. i have even thought of going and getting it elsewhere but i don't want to do that to him!! i have tried to talk to him about it but i'm getting no where what can i do!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-01 01:40:22 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa M 2

english national married to Tunisian national . ceremony took place in Tunisia. Married for 5 years,(4 years in England). living apart in england for 18 months.

2006-11-01 01:36:22 · 3 answers · asked by Sou sou R 2

do you think it is right for you fiance/hubby/bf to watch porn and get off on it when you are in a happy, sex filled relationship? is this a form of cheating and are all men the same? what kicks do they get? does it mean they are not actually happy with the person they are with? any help would be greatful.

2006-11-01 01:35:15 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is 29 I am 35 and we've been married for 4 yrs and I have two kids from other marriages,15yr old girl and 10 yr old boy. We have a 3yr old boy with defiant issues. It been a hard 4yrs. Went to counseling and this helped for a while.
Now back to the old ways.He doesnt feel FIRST in my life and he gets his feeling hurt so easily cries when we argue. I know I am not the easiest to live with but, for the most part I am more laid back and labeled "catalyst" (free and trying to please) my hubby is a "organizer" (wants things to be in place and right) We are total oppossites.
I feel like I walk on egg shells all the time because I never know what has hurt his feelings this time. it may be the age difference and that I've been through two marriages before him and this is his first. I know he is insecure but and I try to put him first but when you have a job, 3 kids, 2 dogs other family and friends its really hard. Any suggestions? He's a good man-but there is no fun left

2006-11-01 01:27:30 · 10 answers · asked by ROOTER 2

MY HUSBAND JUST CAME BY MY WORK AND "HOOKED" ME UP, SO TO SPEAK. WAS ANYBODY ELSE AS FORTUNATE THIS MORNING?

2006-11-01 01:22:29 · 26 answers · asked by LIPPS 3

there's no one else? I've seen a lot of people who already have children (some about 9 and 12 years old) and then they marry each other in their late 30's-40's for example. Do they marry because they know that it's unlikely that they'll be anyone else out there that's better?

2006-11-01 01:13:50 · 18 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4

Thus, I’m conducting an informal survey on what on people set their temperature at? Do other couples have issues with household temp?

Thanks

2006-11-01 01:13:01 · 26 answers · asked by eciabattari 1

is 6 years old too young for a child to be when you want a divorce

2006-11-01 01:03:29 · 21 answers · asked by Linda P 1

Okay. So....my husband...who never wants much to do with sex, I caught on the computer looking at pornographic photos of other women on myspace......also he was in 20 something and 30 something Sex chat rooms, and....he was also in yahoo personals, looking at local women. He says he has never cheated, and wasn't looking to cheat.....but was just curious what was out there what single people his age look like because he has low self esteem. What hurts the most is the deception of it, and the fact that I can't help but feel like he was looking for someone or something else, but he is so closed off to me in general. I have never turned him down sexually or otherwise........and feel as though I am a good wife who is completly devoted to his needs! So why!? I don't understand! Am I in denial? Am I missing something here?! I this something all guys do?!

2006-11-01 01:01:20 · 21 answers · asked by LoveBiologist 3

My wife and I have been getting in an arguement lately and I would like some outside input on it. I know this may seem stupid to the outsiders, but it keeps causing arguements with my wife and I. My parents are taking us to Hawaii next year for a vacation, which we cannot wait to do. However, we are argueing about what we wil be doing when we are there. Her idea of a vacation is relaxing on the beach, while mine is going out and exploring and seeing new things. The last 2 vacations we have gone on, we did do some exploring, but did a lot of laying around and relaxing. Now on this trip, she keeps saying how she cant wait to lay around on the beach, when i want to go and explore and see new things. She says she just wants a couple of days there, we will be there for 10, to lay around and get sun, and we can do stuff the rest of the days. But all she talks about is laying around, and it kinda bugs me. Am I being stupid?

2006-11-01 01:00:52 · 3 answers · asked by tmess9 2

My husband is extremely emotionally abusive and has on occassion been physically abusive. He also has a drug problem. Do you know if women's shelters help with these situations and what assistance do they offer. I have a very good job and can provide for me and my children on my own but I do not have the funds necessary to move. Do they help with moving cost?

2006-11-01 00:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by bamagrits84 3

My wife say she would like to be able to "spend without thinking", she wants to be able to go to the mall and buy what she wants when she wants because "she works hard". But the reality is that I also work hard and that her out of controll spending has put us into debt. When ever I try to ask her stick to the buget or talk to me before making large purchases she says I am controlling. This doesn't seem controlling to me, is it?

2006-11-01 00:57:14 · 25 answers · asked by BossHogg R 2

2006-11-01 00:56:45 · 26 answers · asked by samanthalancaster394 1

My best friend's husband is trying to get her to swap and she isn't into it in anyway shape or form. What should she do?

2006-11-01 00:38:58 · 43 answers · asked by ? 6

.I am now settled away from the place we used to stay. Is it safe to let her back again into my life after such a humiliation?(She has never come to me and openly tell her opinion)

2006-11-01 00:37:15 · 21 answers · asked by Bernard S 1

were broken apart in the past but still love each other? Do you believe that NOTHING is impossible when we truly believe in God and in TRUE LOVE? Do you believe that there are some people who are really meant to be together, no matter what life put them thru?

2006-11-01 00:35:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 00:34:11 · 22 answers · asked by Laurie D 3

My husband very rarely spends time with me or our son who's 13 months. My son looks forward to seeing daddy after work, but my husband maybe pays attention to my son maybe 45 seconds the eintire night, and most of the time i have to make him, and this is not an exageration.

We haven't slept together in over a week, he hardly talks to me all night. I know he works, but so do i. I take care of a toddler all day, How is a marriage goona work if we don't talk or be intimate, and did I mention when he's not working, he always finds something to do, lke fishing, Trying to talk to him about it doesn't work.

2006-11-01 00:26:45 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-11-01 00:23:52 · 13 answers · asked by No 3

2006-11-01 00:18:38 · 18 answers · asked by texlatina1 1

2006-11-01 00:18:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think about the womanjesting with the man next door but quarrels with her legal husband. Is it a morally good behavior?

2006-11-01 00:01:22 · 4 answers · asked by bahramsaleh 2