.I am now settled away from the place we used to stay. Is it safe to let her back again into my life after such a humiliation?(She has never come to me and openly tell her opinion)
2006-11-01 00:37:15 · 21 answers · asked by Bernard S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never ever let her back in to your life. What part of for better or for worse don't you understand. She bailed when times got tough. She is a LOSER.
2006-11-01 00:40:20 · answer #1 · answered by WyoHunter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is blind n if u did love her, then u would, even after such an incident, accept her.
on the other hand, she proved herself otherwise, and any stable minded person wouldn't risk it again.
but then, balance the scale of reasons as to why u want to take her back against why you shouldn't.
hey whatever paradox or doubt u may be stuck in, ask urself one question after ever point of realisation that strikes ur mind...
would it be WORTH it?
ur heart might say yeah, ur head no... i think i might say "NEVER" n go for someone else more worth it. but ur in the fix, n know the real side of the lady as well, so u have to make the decision... n this time just take care. second time it repeats and u won't forgive urself nor be back here asking for advice. gud luck.
2006-11-01 09:02:32 · answer #2 · answered by abh_gup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were married to someone who was that shallow you should divorce her. You are in a better place now and should be able to find someone worth your while. She should have stayed with you and helped you out. She sounds like a loser. Just let her go. Hope there aren't any children involved.
2006-11-01 08:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her! She has no staying power. I will help you on this one. Take whatever money you have and get a plane ticket to Asia. Hang out and travel around. Maybe get some work there on a development project or help a charity. You will find a much better woman.
2006-11-01 10:04:46 · answer #4 · answered by Bob M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my point of view, why would you let her back in your life when she run away from you when you needed her the most? if she did love you as her husband she should have been there for better or for worse! why would you waste a lifetime to someone not going to support you and love you no matter what happen, how about if you get sick and cant earn money and she run away again. i think you have to think all this. good luck
2006-11-01 08:47:47 · answer #5 · answered by whitetiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your personal choice to do so but you must ask yourself first do you honestly believe in all of your heart she is true to you if she ran away when things got tough?? Love is unconditional and running away at lack of finances is perhaps worse than running away if you got ill etc... thiknk about it? it is your choice but i'd say dont do it,, you would be selling yourself short,, find someone true to your heart and you will know when yo have found that!!! life is too short to hold onto false love when the real thing could be just around the corner.
best of luck in whatever you decide.
2006-11-01 08:44:37 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife stuck it out with me while I was sick and we were hardly able to pay rent. If she'd walked out on me not only would I not letting back into my life i'd have absolutely no contact with her. That is about as low as a person can get.
2006-11-01 08:47:09 · answer #7 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, let her go! You got back on your feet now go find a lady who would stick & work with you not against you! Good luck
2006-11-01 08:54:34 · answer #8 · answered by crisjul v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Trust your gut instincts. Take some time out alone to work on yourself and who you are. Once you are happy and confident in yourself you will attract people that value you for who you are and whom you can trust in return.
2006-11-01 08:42:51 · answer #9 · answered by PickleBunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is good to let her back into your life. Did she miss the "richer or poorer" part of her vows? Let her go and keep it movin!
2006-11-01 08:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by PRL8268 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋