ok here's the deal. i'm bi and my man knows that but he is so insecure. i'm a very sexual person, and he works nights and goes to bed then gets up in time to go to work the next day. we have sex maybe once a week and it is only when HE wants it. granted it is great but i need more. i have even thought of going and getting it elsewhere but i don't want to do that to him!! i have tried to talk to him about it but i'm getting no where what can i do!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-01 01:40:22 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to decide whether cheating on him is going to make you feel better in the end or if you just want out of the relationship. Weigh your options. If doesn't work out, give me a call. ;) Wink.
Oh and my boyf too is very insecure over me being bi. At first it turned him on but now I think he thinks I will run off with the first hot girl I see.
2006-11-01 01:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this exact same problem, but I got some good advice from someone...If u want him to do it with you more, you have to stroke his ego and make him feel manly. he is insecure so u can help him get over that. You can give him compliments, tell him he is hot, but dont be fake about it! And honestly if I were u I would try my best NOT to talk about the lack of sex, it will only make him feel worse...alot of guys have this prob with their girlfriends and its usually bc of the same reasoning - the girl doesnt feel sexy - therefore doesnt like sex too much! GOOD LUCK
2006-11-01 10:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by plenymo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You want to be unfaithful to your man, but you don't want to take responsibility for it. You want to blame him for your unfaithfulness. It's all his fault because he doesn't pay enough attention to you. Uh huh.
Grow up. If you don't want to sexual exclusivity that comes with a committed relationship, then get out of the relationship. Then you are free to whore around all you want.
If you DO want to maintain the relationship, then take responsibility for creating a sex life for you and your man instead of complaining about HE isn't doing HIS part. If your idea of creating a great sex life is simply making your body available to him, no wonder he isn't very interested.
2006-11-01 09:49:44 · answer #3 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's more to life and relationships than sex. Get a vibrator.
2006-11-01 09:42:43 · answer #4 · answered by Amilucky0707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you don't have much choice. You probably need a new man.
2006-11-01 09:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lynda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a vibrator
2006-11-01 09:45:26 · answer #6 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋