Marriage & Divorce - 1 November 2006

2006-11-01 04:01:55 · 40 answers · asked by courious 1

When I am alone and am being "intimate" with myself I fantasize about being gangbanged, forced to have sex with someone, being dominated, and this is really gross, but I even fantasize about a group of guys masturbating on me while one is having sex with me.
Of course I would never want this in real life. So why does this happen when I am fantasizing?

2006-11-01 03:58:11 · 37 answers · asked by little mama kat 23 3

2006-11-01 03:55:34 · 30 answers · asked by Robin 2

My husband and I are great parents and live well together but the love is dry and empty. He treats me like a daughter. I fell in love with my first love. I was not looking for love or was I. Now I am enjoying a relationship that brings the best out of ME. Is this fair to my kids to follow my dreams. One is in college the other 9th grade.

2006-11-01 03:55:05 · 43 answers · asked by ocean 1

2006-11-01 03:54:26 · 19 answers · asked by Kookie 4

His family has a long tradition of ignoring problems with the hopes of them just disappearing. We have managed to make it several years now without ever having an uncomfortable discussion mainly because we are very compatible and he is a loving good man, but now we have a baby and frankly there are just things that NEED to be talked about. I feel like it is affecting our relationship, but he absolutely shuts down if I try to talk to him about anything that is controversial to us. What can I do??? I need him to discuss family issues with me!

2006-11-01 03:54:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother-in-law feels she HAS to call my husband every single day. It is very annoying. If she doesn't hear from him every day she'll call me at work to ask "why isn't her son calling her?". If he has a doctor's appointment she wants to know everything. He recently had medical tests done and she felt the need to have the results faxed to her because she "had to know what's going on with her son" . Most fights we have are over her behavior. He sees nothing wrong with her but I do. Who is right?

2006-11-01 03:49:30 · 42 answers · asked by Kimmy 4

We have been married a year and we are not close like we used to be he doesn't kiss me or hug me, and looks at a bunch of porn ? which is very unike him....so that makes me confused. He says he doesnt know whats wrong...and doesnt want to end things.

2006-11-01 03:48:56 · 16 answers · asked by Tiffany J 1

2006-11-01 03:48:09 · 6 answers · asked by hl 2

2006-11-01 03:45:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 30 years old and I just can't seem to get it together
I am married and my husband is a very good provider however, i mess up alot of the money I really don't know where it goes I don't drink,smoke,or do drugs, I don't buy jewelry or go clothes shopping alot but it seems like there never any money left even when all the bills aren't paid. I've asked him to start handling the money but he refused to do so.
We are always in the red can anyone help, my life other wise is alright but this financial situation is really taking a toll on me.
If anyone one wants to asked additional questions you can e-mail at depressedinsc2431@yahoo.com

2006-11-01 03:44:31 · 16 answers · asked by depressedinsc2341 1

I am getting back into the dating scene. but alot of guys dont want nothing to do with amom of 3. or they are selfish and dont want a commitesd relationship. so where can I find Mr. right.?

2006-11-01 03:44:16 · 19 answers · asked by c.schreiber 3

as well?

2006-11-01 03:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you could choose between having someone who is your best friend...or someone who you were very passionate with?

2006-11-01 03:43:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok...I'm married (i'm 22 and husband is 31) I have a very high sex drive.. and so does my husband. I have a probelm with him masterbating...it seems like he always wants to do it even the same night that we have sex and he wants to hide it from me too.. we can have sex at say 5pm then at midnight or so he would wait till I go to bed and masterbate then erase the internet history...OR he will tell me that he's tired or too full from eating to have sex but then he would jack off.. How can I stop feeling this way or what can I do?

2006-11-01 03:41:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:41:44 · 7 answers · asked by human 1

My husband is in the military. He works 3pm-12am. Really the only time I get to see him is when he wakes up and is getting ready for work, but he sleeps as late as possible and then gets up plays on the computer and then goes to the gym before work. (He doesn't try to spend time with me).
I work at home (home daycare), I want to be a stay at home mom, but he says I "have" to work. This is the only way I get the best of both worlds. I take care of everything around the house.. cooking, cleaning, laundry, finances, etc. All my husband does is work and come home and repeats this everyday.
I feel like I'm getting screwed here. I take care of everything.. I mean everything, and I'm not happy. I tell him I want to be just a stay at home mom, but he wants the extra spending money.
I can't even go anywhere with the kids I babysit, because my car is too small. So basically I'm trapped at the house 5 days a week. I don't have any time to myself b/c we don't have a sitter.

2006-11-01 03:39:39 · 12 answers · asked by little mama kat 23 3

How do people deal with selfish mother inlaws. My husband loves his mother more than life. She wasn't a very good mother to him when he was growing up. I think he is still trying to get the love that she never gave him when he was growing up. My husband is an only child. My mother in law expects my husband to take time off work to be with her for anything. Might I add that my husbands has used all his leave for the past 4 years on his supposedly sick mother. (she has a drinkning problem) She is also a diabetic and on oxygen. She smokes. She drinks and doesn't take her medicine and my husband runs 200 miles away to take her to the doctor. What should I do. My husband has taken lots of leave without pay. This is hurting our family.

2006-11-01 03:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by ebonieboo68 2

My daughter had recently went to my ex husband of 3 months place of employment and ran into him, he was telling her his side of the story which is not totaly true. This is her step father which she likes alot and she now is upset with me and also told him she was sorry for her mothers mistakes. My daughter seems to forget the hurt he has caused me. My ex and I have not spoken since the divorce. I moved out of his house, and cut all ties with him . He also told her that I should not of broken the communications with him but thats the only way for me to deal with this and she is upset with me for this. How can I make her understand he was at fault for this breakup not just me!!!!

2006-11-01 03:38:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:38:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:36:01 · 37 answers · asked by elvis 1

I'm only 5'2 and weigh 130 and have a nice figure for having 5 kids.
and no i don't think that im perfect no one is i just need some advice outside family and my own views.

2006-11-01 03:34:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you guys feel insecure about your wife all the time...do you check her purses and mobile. How many of you do it ?

2006-11-01 03:30:51 · 23 answers · asked by 28March2007 1

my frend is plump. is this a hurdle for her marriage. she thinks no one is mister right for her as she is rejected bcoz she is plump.

2006-11-01 03:29:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:24:15 · 26 answers · asked by NENA 1

indulging in meaningless relationships is not my style simply because I would get emotionally attached and I can't distinguish between love & sexuality

I find various forms of self-help pathetic 'cause it's not the real thing.

2006-11-01 03:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

wanted you to be skinny, cause he likes skinny girls, ask you to change your attitude in some ways, but he himself doesn't think theres anything wrong with him or his way's... mind you we've been 2gether 4,14 years and i handle all the responsiblities, all he does is work . yes i use to work till last month(no Babbysitter)

2006-11-01 03:20:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-01 03:20:28 · 7 answers · asked by she_wah_dee 1

Do you tell the one that your cheating with right up front that you are married? Or only tell them your married if its going to be an ongoing booty call? Or let them figure it out on their own?

2006-11-01 03:19:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are renting a home. He works and I stay home am take care of our child. Do I leave or does he?

2006-11-01 03:16:43 · 12 answers · asked by ? 6