Do you guys feel insecure about your wife all the time...do you check her purses and mobile. How many of you do it ?
2006-11-01 03:30:51 · 23 answers · asked by 28March2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely not! I'm completely confident that she is trustworthy and would not cheat on me. In all the time we have been together, she has never given me a reason to believe otherwise and I am not the jealous type.
But having said that, doesn't mean that I necessarily trust a lot of the men that are out there or what they might say or do around my wife. She is a very attractive petite blonde with blue eyes and a beautiful smile. Often men will hit on her and flirt with her. It doesn't bother me most of the time because most will stop when they realize that she is married and I am right there with her.
But it's those that do not stop when they find out she is married or that continue to flirt/hit on her when I am present and they know we are married that piss me off. I take offense to that because in essence, I consider that extremely disrespectful to both she and I. It doesn't happen very often, but when it does, I typically just want to kick the living **** out of them. But that's just me.
2006-11-01 03:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by Colonel Angus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm not insecure about my wife. We've been married almost 10 years. Yet she still goes to stay with her elderly parents every day while I work. Her family doesn't care too much for me, my church and family, so I'm insecure over her spending so much time with her parents and sister, who still lives at home, after her separation from her husband. Kinda weird.
2006-11-01 04:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...I think that is more of a woman thing as they seem to be more insecure about all of that. Unfortunately, I did have an ex who was a Ho and I wish I had checked her phone, lol. Now I'm just happy to be rid of her.
My current wife is Great!
2006-11-01 03:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not search my wife's purses, nor anything else. Trust is very important in my marriage. It has never even occurred to me to worry about her activities when we are away. I do not think I would enjoy marriage if I was insecure about it.
2006-11-01 03:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by Bill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most do or should.
Men are trusting of women by nature and women take more advantage of that than men do the other way.
Besides how often do you hear that men do not pay enough attention.
It is so much easier for a woman to have an affair than it is for a man we should always be on gaurd.
2006-11-01 03:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok I knew you said only guys, but here goes. My husband does it all the time. He doesn't know that I know he does it. I just overlook it, and I realy could care less. I have nothing to hide from him, so he is welcome to look at anything I have. He might have a little insecurity, but mostly he digs through my purse for gum, or grabs my cell on accident, they both look just alike. Who cares if their is nothing to hide. I look through his wallet all the time, but out of curiosity, or getting something. I don't think he cares either.
2006-11-01 03:37:09 · answer #6 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what made u ask this question buddy? m feel sorry for u.
believe me, i m a Male 30, and m married for 4 years now. and never in my mind i ever thought of doing that.
i have full trust and confidence in my wife, and i dont even need to think on the security directions,
listen, how did i gain all the confedence in her?
she respects me, respects my feelings, tries to do what i wish, without me telling her, she is very true to herself and to me,, believe me, she made me feel confident about her,, it wasnt my quaility.
so help urself incase if its happening with u, only the man isnt responsible,, try and refine the relation before it worsens.
take care,,
good luck
hey one imp advice, understand the process of thinking of a male and female,, dotn think he thinks the way u think,, coz hez a male,, read the book
men are from mars and women are from venus
to undrstand. i belive it will make significant difference,
i have a soft copy, write to me if u need it,
take care and wish u good luck, for a very happy and healthy relationship
2006-11-01 03:47:34 · answer #7 · answered by Friends Forever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't need to do that. There's one big thing my wife and I share and that is trust. We talked about all this before we got married and both agreed that cheating is definitley breaking our contract together. We are too close and too happy to mess it up that way.
2006-11-01 03:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never do. Not once on your relationship, not even when we were dating. It is a little thing I like to call Trust. I trust her completely. I have no reason to think otherwise. If your guy is doing this, you need to find out why. Is he jealous or just a controlling jerk?
2006-11-01 03:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by TripleTattoo™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do this, if you love her and if she loves you, you should trust each other and live a happy life, the way you chosen is going straight to nowhere ... so, keep that in your mind: If she really loves you and you really love her, you won't cheat each other, take your time and think twice and give yourselves some space ...
2006-11-01 03:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by OMID T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋