2006-11-01 03:24:15 · 26 answers · asked by NENA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Get help before you go down that path and destroy not only your marriage, but the relationship between brothers and family. Wrong choice...either that or get a divorce. Your yellow brick road is full of a lot of pot holes and your going to get hurt!
2006-11-01 03:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're IN LUST with him...Maybe he is expressing something your husband doesnt and you find that to be a turn on. YOU know it will NEVER work. I suggest you PRAY. DO NOT try to throw yourself at him cause you WILL regret it. You may think it's love but I'm sure it's just cause YOU'RE dismissing your husband right now and rather then see that YOU have a problem, you see your husband as the problem and turn to the closest thing to and like him...his brother. I suggest you take all that energy you have towards the brother and put to use on your HUSBAND....You may be very happy with the results.
2006-11-01 11:35:04 · answer #2 · answered by DayLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are in love whit yur husbands brother...you should definetly tell your husband He'll take care of the matter for you. And if he has half a brain he'll leave your sorry #ss!
2006-11-01 11:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you need to stay away from your husband's brother and keep your marriage vows. You do realize that even if you got divorce you couldn't marry your husband's brother. The family would never accept you doing that. Spend that "in love" energy on working to save your marriage. Stay away from the brother. He shouldn't even be flirting with you. What a scum to flirt with his brother's wife!!
2006-11-01 11:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you marry a man that you didn't love in the first place . You are about to ruin a brothers relationship . You need to just forget about both of them for their on good .Think about them instead of your self.
2006-11-01 11:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda h 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can keep those feelings to yourself. There is no way you should persue and feeling for your husbands brother. You should have took an intrest in the brother first if you wanted him more.
2006-11-01 11:31:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya gotta trust me on this one... I am very open minded and not a prude. I have done swinging and all so as I said I am very openminded. But on family, don't go there! It is sooo bad. My sister in law has come on to me and I so wanted to do it. But I know that if he found out, then it would destroy him, or he would destroy me. There are way too many fish in the sea for that honey.
2006-11-01 11:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing!!!!! Don't do anything, you are married to your husband...You will only come between two brothers and you have no right to do that. If you are unhappy in the marriage, get out of it.
2006-11-01 11:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to come clean and let your husband know how you feel. It would not be fair to continue lying to him and yourself. Does his brother love you back? If he does then you most certainly have to tell him. If you don't then it will come out eventually and it will be even more messy.
2006-11-01 11:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop right now and get over your self . You shouldnt be married in the first place talking like that your acting like a child. what you should do is nothing
2006-11-01 11:37:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋