indulging in meaningless relationships is not my style simply because I would get emotionally attached and I can't distinguish between love & sexuality
I find various forms of self-help pathetic 'cause it's not the real thing.
2006-11-01 03:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why are some people being disrespectful when I post a question like that in a dignified manner - I value intimacy; that's why I only share it with someone special but unfortunately he's not in my life
2006-11-01 03:36:26 · update #1
Go to see a psychiatrist if you need professional help to curb your desires! You definitely need a professional to advice and guide you along. We're not the best person to provide you any advices or tips on how to control your desires. I just know you must know how to differentiate Love & Sex, they're totally different. You can go to the library and borrow some related books to help you seek for your answers. Hope that helps alittle for you. Whenever you feel your desires is coming, you can try to go for some simpe excercises too. That can waste off your energy so you don't have to keep thinking of sex. Lastly, take my advice, pls go see a doctor or psychiatrist, if not I'm afraid you're going to be sick or rather a sex pervert.
2006-11-01 03:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I find it admirable that you seem to control your desires pretty well. You know your faults and where your difficult patches lie...ie your not into meaningless relatioships and you get emotionally attatched and can't distinguish between love and sexuality.
I think masturbation would probably be the best thing. Sorry you can't fall in love with that. And it's pretty basic desire. There isn't anything wrong with masturbation and many people do it.
Just do with what is comfortable for you. Maybe focusing on your interests and just not involving yourself with any relationship that may be intimate will help control desire. Good luck to you~!
2006-11-01 11:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you're asking. I take it you're not actively involved with anyone but still have sexual feelings. That is a totally normal part of your biology, and there is nothing wrong with some self-release. If you find pleasuring yourself pathetic, you must not understand that the better aware of your own body, and what makes it tick, the better lover you'll make when the time arrives. In the meanwhile, devote some evergy to finding a properly suited mate so you can share this NORMAL and HEALTHY experience together.
2006-11-01 11:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortunately I am married and don't have to control my desire. But If I were in your shoes...I would take care of it myself. If you get my point. There is no risk in self gratification. Then when you get with someone you love...enjoy. (and be guilt free)
2006-11-01 11:26:42 · answer #4 · answered by TripleTattoo™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Self discipline.
2006-11-01 11:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eat sensibly good nourishing food and not junk food. Take regular exercises and do not sit idle.
2006-11-01 11:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Starts with a M and ends with an E...it has master and bate in the word as well...
2006-11-01 11:26:39 · answer #7 · answered by elpackage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try thinking about the consequences of your actions. I hope this helps. I know it is hard sometimes.
2006-11-01 11:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by ashashbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a person is truly mature, desire can be controlled. Always.
2006-11-01 11:30:23 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and i are the same hun, problem is my attachment has been miserable for 13 years now and counting!
2006-11-01 11:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋