as well?
2006-11-01 03:44:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my experience, the ones I were with that I loved the most always hurt me worst. Atleast if you are with the one that loves you the most, you know they will do everything in their power to make you happy and make you feel loved!!!
2006-11-01 03:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither would be a very good option. If you have someone that you love but treats you badly, then you will endure a great deal of unneeded pain for the sake of someone who clearly does not deserve it all the while making you feel negative about yourself, vulnerable to the pain of not getting treated as you would like which will also cause you to feel incomplete and wanting something more. In the same respect, if you are with someone who loves you more then you are also going to feel incomplete bc you are not getting anything out of love beyond the whole fact that you get attention and good treatment but is that really worthy of marriage? Marriage is about two people who both love each other MUTUALLY and who want to spend the rest of their lives together bc they love each other for who they are not how they treated. The good treatment comes just by the fact that they both love and respect each other as individuals not bc it is more convienent or nice to have nice treatment or good things done for you. So neither is a good option and if these are two options that you are actually considering, treat and love yourself and hold out for what is best for you and that is being in a relationship or marriage where every thing you offer and bring to the table is reciprocated and returned. Good luck:)
2006-11-01 12:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by serenity113001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooh thats a good question. Got me thinking. I guess i would want to be with a person who loved me most as everyone wants to be loved.
Thing is, even though he may not treat you as well, the one you love the most may treat you well enough to make the marriage work very well. It may even be better than being with the person who loves you the most because if your hearts not in it, you may not want it to work!!!
2006-11-01 11:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Little miss naughty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better to marry the one who loves you the most and treats you well, because no matter how much you love someone, if you marry them and end up in a relationship where you are treated badly you will be miserable for the rest of your life, no matter how much you love the person. Incidentally, why would you love someone who treats you badly?
2006-11-01 11:48:49 · answer #4 · answered by Eileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry who loves you. Take my advice, all too often we think the person we love will treat us better once they realize how much we love them, or that they will grow to love us more, they won't. Go with who loves you most!
2006-11-01 13:19:12 · answer #5 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From this question, I would say the one who loves me the most. Life would be better.
2006-11-01 13:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that loves you and treats you well would be your best bet. If your with someone who doesn't treat you well, stop it. I don't understand why women think its their job in life to be abused. A person who truly loves you will also love your children and your family. That person will give you a happy life. Its your choice.
2006-11-01 11:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by papaz71 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person who loves you the most will do anything for you, as he loves you. Go for him, as the latter will turn his back on you at the moment as you need him most. You may love him, but he may not love you, so your love is incomplete. The person who loves you needs your love. If you give that to him, both you and him will be happy. Go for the fist person.
2006-11-01 11:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry the one that loves u the most bc if they love u the most and treat you well u will, in return be happy
2006-11-01 11:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by CrystalRose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, if you want piece of mind and a happy life, pick the one that adores you. The one you adore will probably treat you just as bad if not worse as time goes by. Do yourself a favor and pick the one that love you more.
2006-11-01 11:49:09 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋