When I am alone and am being "intimate" with myself I fantasize about being gangbanged, forced to have sex with someone, being dominated, and this is really gross, but I even fantasize about a group of guys masturbating on me while one is having sex with me.
Of course I would never want this in real life. So why does this happen when I am fantasizing?
2006-11-01 03:58:11 · 37 answers · asked by little mama kat 23 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its because you have this need of feeling wanted. There isnt anything wrong with you. This is like the ultimate feeling of being wanted like men cannot resist you so they have to just man handle you I suppose. Its just about feeling utimately sexy I suppose. Its perfectly normal I do the same thing.
2006-11-01 04:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Consider that a part of this fantasy perhaps derives from a longing to surrender. A surrender to pleasure. If you are "forced" and "being dominated" then you have no longer have to concern yourself with choice or guilt or anything thing at all. The only concern left is pleasure. When you no longer have the power to resist then only the power of pleasure remains. And with so many men wanting you, you can feel even more desirable. You can be the focal point of so much sensual energy. That is power in itself.
Remember, it's only a fantasy. You can explore this with your mate (or several if you can trust them) but even so, it's still only a fantasy. Check out the wikipedia link below as a primer for further exploration.
2006-11-01 05:02:38 · answer #2 · answered by Dark Prince of Pomp 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes the things we fantasize about can be the most unbelievable things. But that's just it. We can fantasize about almost anything it doesn't mean we are a bad person it's just something we know we will never do in life, but it's kinky when we can at least get away with thinking about it.
2006-11-01 04:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fantasy allows the mind to go where your conscience self knows that is shouldn't.
In domination games it is the submissive one that has the true power because they are the one with the "safe word" that will stop everything.
Being desired by multiple men places you in another power positions because they all desire you. You are the "Star" of the situation. Without you they are just group of horney naked guys that would have nothing to do. Your character is what brings out the sexual beast in these men.
You have a normal sexual self esteem, everyone show be the "start" of their fantasies. Just accept that your fantasies let you play where you yourself are not comfortable to go.
P.S.
Lets say the fantasy bald guy with the goatie is me - Okay?
2006-11-01 05:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the best thing about fantasizing. You can fantasize about any thing you want to. I fantasize about having sex with a group of ladies.
2006-11-01 08:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As others have said...this is just a fantasy. Your morals and scruples prevent you from acting them out so when you are alone with just yourself and your imagination you set your inhibitions free and receive the pleasure in which these taboo acts represent. There is nothing wrong with fantasyt and you may find you may want to act on some of them or in part with your partner. Have him dominate you a bit, tug your hair talk forceful. who knows this may open an entirely new door for you.
2006-11-01 04:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by tom4texas 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I can not tell you why you fantasize about such things.But I can reassure you that they are normal....Many women fantasize about these same things (weather they admit it or not) It is normal and perfectly fine. And I don't think any of us would want it to happen for real. That would be horrible.
2006-11-01 04:22:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because it's your own secret fetish. Everyone has something that they enjoy that they either keep to themselves or they act it out. It's normal to have fantasies, but it's your choice whether you want to make them a reality or not. And don't let anyone tell you that you are dirty or gross or crude. These are your fantasies and they are meant for you...not for anybody else to judge you on them.
2006-11-01 04:05:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a healthy women who has fantasies. You don't have to act on it just keep the visualizations alive in your mind. You'd be surprised what one can dream about!!
Enjoy your thoughts and who knows maybe one day when you are ready maybe you will want to cross over?!?!
It is all up to you.
2006-11-01 04:23:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been abused by someone, you may develop these fantasies. They are based upon the emotional effects of abuse.
They are very common in abuse victims. Essentially the victim is reliving the abuse in a sexual way, which is under the victim's control.
Take care,
Troy
2006-11-01 04:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by tiuliucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋