my frend is plump. is this a hurdle for her marriage. she thinks no one is mister right for her as she is rejected bcoz she is plump.
2006-11-01 03:29:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well tell her that it has nothing to do with that. every one of us perceptions and we are attracted to another individual on the basis of that. There are lot of men attracted to plum women, even i would be. that is as far the physical aspect goes. but marraige is never on that one ground, remember there is a mind, which also looks for a person who is compatable in all other aspects and i am sure she has not found the person who sees her from that complete point of view.
Tell her to be confident with her body and she will be mentally more confident and she will find her match
2006-11-02 19:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by abbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the cover of a person is what draws in other people, but the personality and great attributes is what keeps them there. She can be plump and get mister right, it just takes time. She should go out and buy a new outfit, try a new hairstyle, she needs to appear that she takes care of herself- thats all people really want, is someone that keeps themself up.
2006-11-01 03:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by Fran Y 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well figure is alittle important. Boys like to marry hot sexy tall girls and do not look at plump girls even fat males want to marry these girls which are called sexy and hold affairs.
But that does not mean we can forget the qualities they are also important. Just because ur friend is plump does not mean she will not be married. She has no other things than sexy girls they have.....and ...she has them too.She may also stasify in ... and give pleasure of heaven.
No need to worry.
Best of luck.
2006-11-01 03:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is probably because she sends out signals that she feels inadequate. Some men are definitely mean to fat women because they are caught up in their own sophomoric fantasies of boy shaped girls with big breasts which is unrealistic and childish. Fewer than 1% of the female population have the Victoria Secret/Playboy type bodies and most of them have been augmented, airbrushed and have eating disorders. Part of sensuality is eating and drinking. I don't say become obese, but my 18 extra pounds plumps-up my breasts and buttocks...and my bf loves to grab onto both. Tell her to tone-up and the weight won't bother her so much...and assure her some men like curvy women...blow the A-holes off.
2006-11-01 03:44:54 · answer #4 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend not to melancholic. Men nowadays are not that dumb. Being plump is not a disadvantage. Good books are not judged by their covers. Someday, a man will come along and will be able to read what is inside and see what a wonderful person she is .
2006-11-01 04:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She rejected one who is not fit enough to have sex or what?Sex is not at all related with fitness of body.
Yes, One can have sex in many position if he/she has got good physique but this will not effect the feeling you have during intercourse.Either that girl never had intercourse before or she don't no man who have good physique doesn't give certificate to Quality man possesses.
Yes Qualities are more important then what u call figure.
2006-11-01 03:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by pankaj s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to exercise and eat healthy its not always about the way you look but it always about the way that you feel. If you feel great you act great and thats attractive. Some people dig plump girls and she may find her mr. right but she isnt going to do it being insecure about herself thats the biggest turn off. You'd be surprised what a little exercise and healthy eating will do for you.
2006-11-01 03:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets not lie. Looks are important. BUT they are hardly the number one thing. Looks fade. People gain and loose weight. Personality and the connection is what matters. The looks of a person is the initial attraction, but what happens from there is up to who the person is. Tell your friend to hang in there, a smart guy will come along.
2006-11-01 03:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by TripleTattoo™ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi , first tell me u r age, it has a lot to do with u r body. Plump in sense how much if u cannot tell its ok. Anyways do not worry cause someday u will find u r match it is destined.
2006-11-01 03:49:03 · answer #9 · answered by sanzee with p.q. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has other good qualities, plumpness shouldn't hinder her in finding Mr. Right!
2006-11-01 03:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by Gerry 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋