I love my boyfriend a lot, we live together but theirs something missing inbetween us, maybe were not ment for each other, were always trying to see whos better or who has or had more, i want it to stop already what should i do please give me suggestions
2006-11-01 10:40:23 · 11 answers · asked by girlygirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You live together and are familiar with each other but something's missing...unconditional love...good communication...working on goals together...etc. Sounds from your details that its not love. If you want it to stop. Move on. If you want it to work...work on those things that matter. Good luck. Peace~
2006-11-01 10:44:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you two should try to talk things out and work things out. But, if it wasn't meant to be then it wasn't meant to be. Its better you find that out now before you two get married or have children then it would be harder to split up, but, not impossible. As for who has had more or whatever, that's not good to build a good relationship on. If you two try to see who's better that won't build a strong relationship either. Its not healthy to be in a bad relationship and chances are it could get worse. I hope this help! Good luck!
2006-11-01 18:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If "something" isn't right.....it's a pretty sure bet something isn't right. The best advice I heard is you can really love someone to death and not be able to make a long term relationship work. The essential elements aren't there and you can't make them be there. Sounds like you already know the truth. Follow your instincts....they were given for a reason.
2006-11-01 19:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a toxic relationship. Two people need to be one with each other, not one that is better than the other. Seek some counseling if you want to saber this, and if that doesn't work, then at least you know you tried.
2006-11-01 19:07:02 · answer #4 · answered by smplyme132 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every relationship will be "right". If it doesn't "feel" right - it probably isn't. There's no real "recipe" for what's "right" and what isn't, but a gut feeling is something to pay attention to. If I were you, I would keep searching for a person you can feel comfortable with.
2006-11-01 18:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to stop, then stop. i know it's hard, but when you know it's not right, end it before someone gets bitter. If it's not there, it's just not. Best of luck.
2006-11-01 19:31:30 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and let him know how you feel. If he still continues to do this then, it's time to move on and start seeing other people.
2006-11-01 19:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by cee cee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stop the competion between the two of you. if he is just that type of person , end it before things get more serious between the two of you.
2006-11-01 18:46:23 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you have already made a good decision. Leave him. Find someone else who you "click" with.
2006-11-01 18:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sadly enough its break up time....if u feel that way its not gonna get better over time,in fact it will get worse so get out now while its easy pls
2006-11-01 19:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋