2006-11-01 09:17:31 · 14 answers · asked by greygirl06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Something very small, lacy and red should do the trick....Get your move on him girl! No man in their right mind can ignore that for very long!
2006-11-01 09:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do I never see guys asking this question - why is it that it's always women that have to run after there husbands to notice them!!
Not having a go - but I'm in the same position - and I've decided that I'm gonna stop caring
Most of the time now I do what I want when and as I want it and don't go running to my husband looking for attention - and if I am honest it has made a difference - not a huge one - but definitely a noticeable one - worked for me - you may want to try it -
I wish that things were different as I love NOTHING more than spending time with my husband and doing things with him but I think with guys the more you show you need them the less they wanna be around as they start to feel tied down
2006-11-01 17:40:03 · answer #2 · answered by misscynic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some changes in your appearences.
Get a new stylish hair cut. Color it perhaps. or brighten up the color you have.
Increase your exercise. Walk daily. If you do 5 minutes of exercise on the floor it will make changes in your shape.
Make sure the bra you are wearing is fit well.
Then change your style a bit. Nothing obvious or trashy looking. But wear things that flatter your figure.
Before he gets home from work or just before you get home from work, freshen up your make up . If you don't wear make up..try to do so. Just a little bit of a natural blush, some subtle lipstick, and some mascara will enhance your face. Brush your hair and your teeth.
When he is around if you are always talking to him about what is wrong with life then why would he want to be happy to come home.
That doesn't mean that you can't talk to him about negative things, it just means there is a time and a place for those conversations.
Couples need to never stop seducing each other. Never stop making each other feel special.
Every man needs a soft place to fall. Be his.
And he needs to be your soft place to where you feel safe and loved. Let this start with you.
There is nothing wrong with telling what you need from him. But, choose your words well.
and choose the place and time well. What man wants to be hit over the head over and over again when he walks in the door.
2006-11-01 17:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is going on that would make him ignore you......... How old is he, could there be some issues with his plumbing. Time for some old fashion communication.
Ya know, the Hey dear can we talk. Is everything ok, you seem off/distracted etc. Is there anything that I can do or anything that you want to talk about.
If that doesn't work, then it is time to pull out the big guns:)
As others have mentioned. Look for intimate contact, flirting, invite him to do things. Go for walk, change your hair, get some new perfume. Simple changes.
I think that attractiveness/power comes from within. You build yourself up just like business guys have a "Power Suit" You start with underware/bra that you feel makes you hot. Then go to the clothes, hair etc. When your done, you feel hot and you are. Why? Because you put out to all others a sence of confidence...... that is what will catch his eye.
Maybe look up Laura Corn, she has some really good books that you can use.
2006-11-01 17:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by SRC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has what you've BEEN doing been working for you? Change YOU. You are the only person you can really change!!! Maybe if you start doing things you enjoy, going places YOU like (invite him along, but go even if he says no), and being happier with yourself, he will want to tag along! Do not make him the "source" of your happiness. Only you can control your happiness. So get out there, get your own life and interests, and I bet he raises up his head and starts noticing that you are happier and enjoying life with or without him... and there is nothing like a confident, happy woman to attract a man!!
2006-11-01 17:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres what someone told me once?...shower and use a soft silky body wash ...wear something revealing go next to him, lick his lips. kiss his neck or sit on his lap ...shove his face in your cleavage (wear some nice perfume) or if thats doesnt make him excited you can touch him in his sensitive spot (lol) most men might drool by that point....bend over and show him your rump...tell him come get it daddy...then go back to him and service him orally ...if that doesnt work then smack him with a bat lol....good luck Husbands have selective hearing and pay attn to things other than the wife..you just gonna have to drag him out of himself sometimes lol
2006-11-01 17:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spice things up! Give him every guys fantasy: When he comes home from work - be waiting for him in sexy langerie, then take off his jacket, give him a beer - get him comfortable on the couch and satisfy him with your mouth. He will perk right up and notice you!! Trust me!!!!!!
2006-11-01 17:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by fffrrreeeddd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not a romantic getaway for just the two of you if its financially not feasable do a little B&B at home set up tons of candles order in dinner sleep in late the next day.. enjoy! all else fails lingerie should do the trick!
2006-11-01 17:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by So Happy!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be sweet and kind. Be playful and flirt with him. Touch him alot and laugh. Don't complain about stuff as soon as you see him. Men HATE complaining. Act like someone you would want to be married to or come home to.
2006-11-01 17:23:24 · answer #9 · answered by redbeansandrice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make home the best place to come back to after work and i'm sure you do know how to do that, coz if not then you must be really worried...
2006-11-01 17:36:35 · answer #10 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋