I have been married for 21 years. we were high school sweethearts.Now this man is drving me nuts.How do you deal with irratating men?
2006-11-01 08:19:28 · 13 answers · asked by WITCHY WOMAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
THe things he does are not bad,just getting on my nerves..and he knows it gets on my nerves so he continues to do things until i blow up.then we usually have a big fight because i got mad.. i think i need a long vacation
2006-11-01 09:16:19 · update #1
were guys.......so were kinda dumb....we do and say stupid stuff all the time.......but when we get on your nerves.....think about what it was we did to make u love us....and what we are still doing to keep your love.....im sure you do things to get on his nerves......things could be alot worse.......you have a gift..........21 years of love.....nothing in this world is better than that. you have what so many of us are looking for.........a soul mate.
2006-11-01 08:33:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know what would change after 21 years of marriage, but maybe you are having a mid-life crisis. You might feel like things are getting old and need to have something new and spontanios in your life, getting rid of your husband might be one way to go, or you could ride it out till everthing is okay. I would say after 21 years, i would work things out, or you just wasted alot of years in your life to end up alone, or with something you might regret later.
2006-11-01 08:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by angela s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really wish someone would tell me how to deal with a irritating man. I have been married for 4 years,and my husband plays too much,and aggravates me to death. I have 3 kids already so it annoys me when he plays too much,and when I ask him to stop playing so much he thinks its funny that he is getting on my nerves. I'm 29 years old,and I love to play as much as the next person but he just plays too much. And what really kills me about my husband is that he doesn't even play with the kids he just wants to play with me,and piss me off. I don't know what your dilemma is with your husband but he can not be as annoying as mine,because when mine gets me mad enough to fight him he finds it attractive,and then forces me to have sex with him no matter how mad I am with him.It's sick but I think he gets off on it... So,just be grateful that it isn't you...
2006-11-01 09:03:24 · answer #3 · answered by Bone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him! It's obviously worked for 21 years...
2006-11-01 08:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, we've been married 1 year so we've got a ways to go. So far so good :)
When he irritates you, try to refocus on all the reasons why you love him.
2006-11-01 08:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has started to ever since i got pragnet he has got worse at first i thought the things he use to do was cutie and know he drives me nuts with them
2006-11-01 09:02:14 · answer #6 · answered by ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your girlfriends and have some drinks. If you have kids let them stay with him. Do this every Friday......I do!
2006-11-01 08:23:47 · answer #7 · answered by Amber J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife might say that I drive her nuts, but I can also say that she drives me nuts as well.
2006-11-01 12:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them!
2006-11-01 08:53:54 · answer #9 · answered by jillybean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women have many faults ...Men only 2...Everything they say ...And everthing they do!
2006-11-01 08:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by suzi m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋