I have found a man that i fell in love with but after 2 years of chating and building a relationship ,he get in to trouble with the law and has been in jail for a year . i'm hoping it won't mess up our plans
2006-11-01 06:58:22 · 23 answers · asked by sherianne_29 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't wait. You could be missing out on some of the best years of your life.
2006-11-01 07:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by g m 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I was that man in prison at one time in my life. I loved this woman to no end, and she didn't wait on me. I was hurt to no end by this same woman. I didn't expect her to wait for me to get out, but the hurt was something I can't even describe. I know she loved me, but I guess she just didn't love me that much at all. Now she is sorry she didn't wait on me, but I could never go back with her after knowing the real person she was. I haven't been into any trouble since then, and have done really well for myself. I own a record label, a recording studio, a publishing company, and a graphics art company. I am also a singer/songwriter/musician. I finished school while I was in prison. I took college courses, and got a degree when I got out. So now you tell me, is he worth waiting for? Everybody makes mistakes, and if he isn't an habitual type criminal, you may wish you had waited for him. On the other hand; if he is always in trouble and lives a criminal life, then you need to go the other way. I hope this has been some help. Good Luck!!!
2006-11-01 07:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question, what did he go to jail for? He went to jail after you were in the picture, if he was looking out for your best interest wouldn't he stay away from trouble, especially something serious enough to throw him in jail? You need to find yourself a good man, not overseas, not in jail - I have no idea your religious preference but maybe start at your church singles group, or try a website - there are a ton of singles (not just to hook up) sites for people who are looking for what you are, and in your geographical area. Hang in there!
2006-11-01 07:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hell no! Are you crazy?? You don't even know this person and you've just been chatting with him! What in the world did he get in trouble for? Look anyone can tell you anything on the Internet and he could be some crazy killer or something! And to top it off he's overseas! Find yourself someone else is my advice!
2006-11-01 07:12:21 · answer #4 · answered by fairyjin1971 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stop and read you own email, If you were not yourself, What would you do? Get a life and move on. Seems to me you need to find self love. First problem, is in the introduction of your sentence, you have found a man. A man finds a woman.
2006-11-01 07:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by The Mrs. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being that you never met him I would say no. The jail thing has nothing to do with it.. I married a man who was always back and forth in jail, and finally after a long time (b4 we got married) he realized what was more important to him, and he is doing soooooo GOOD for himself. people do change for the better, so I dont knock the jail birds.
If you knew him personally and physically and he is someone u really wanted to be a part of you, i would say u can wait for him,
but being that u never met him face to face.. thats crazy..
I wouldnt wait, i couldnt even fall inlove with anybody i never met face to face...
2006-11-01 07:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sicilian Princess 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I would move on (run) and not look back. You don't even know this man, if you only have chatted with him. Your plans are already messed up, and most likely it is for your own good. You don't realize what kind of problems this man could bring into your life.
2006-11-01 07:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by maxine 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No way. Time's a waisting. Your bills won't wait for you. Life goes on. When he's released from prison and you feel the same, then go ahead and get your man. Just as long as you know without a doubt, he feels the same as you.
2006-11-01 07:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What? Are you kidding me? I wouldnt be involved in a long-distance relationship ANYWAYS...but the moment he got in trouble with the law I would be G O N E!
2006-11-01 07:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't wait especially for a criminal. Sorry to be that short and mean with my answer, but you should find a good upstanding guy who is here that you can physical see and build a relationship with.
2006-11-01 07:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋