And there was some messages sent to some women from his acct. One of the messages was sent to his ex girlfriend and the others were sent just to random women saying that they were hot and stuff. I asked him if he did these things and he said no, that someone must of set up an account in his name. But for some reason i just dont belive that.Do you think i sould be concerned or do you think he is telling the truth?
2006-11-01 06:16:31 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have been married for a little over a year
2006-11-01 06:19:29 · update #1
it doesnt have his picture. and he said his cousion probably did it
2006-11-01 06:27:24 · update #2
I would mind f**k him bad. I would make up an account, and be added as one of his friends(get a pic of a hot chick for your profile pic). Then I would get to "know" him for a while, and ask him personal things that nobody else would really know, but don't make it too obvious. If you have enough evidence, I would burn his ****...and reveal that it was you. And be sure to hide all evidence on the comp(i.e. history, saved pics, recycle bin). That is personally what I would do, but it is up to you. You can either believe him or tell him that you are taking the comp to get it fixed and tell him they will give you the entire history of the computer. Good luck! :)
2006-11-01 06:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he has a Myspace account and has pictures of himself and his page goes into detail about his likes and dislikes, I would lean towards the conclusion that he himself set up the page. It is a lie if he's telling you that 'somebody made it up.' Who else would have pictures of your husband and post them up on a Myspace account? And why would they? I don't know if it is a coincidence that there are messages sent to his ex-girlfriend too. I would question his loyalty and look into how the relationship is going. Are you two constantly fighting? Are you in a distant relationship. Is the spark from the honeymoon burned out? I would take time and look @ the whole situation, because getting on-line and searching for companionship when you are married is the 1st step to infidelity.
2006-11-01 06:23:06 · answer #2 · answered by graffix72003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is obviously a Liar, with a capital L. Someone set up an account in his name? He's not even a good liar at that! I would definitely be concerned. My advice would be to tell him that you're pretty certain that he's lying and make him feel comfortable with being able to tell you the truth like, "honey, if you've been doing these things, please let me know so we can work on this" then when he fesses up, dump him. He's bound to cheat eventually if he's already showing interest in other people, so save yourself the heartache that will inevitably happen later. If there are children involved and you'd like to work on saving your marriage, maybe you can suggest counseling so he can figure out what exactly it is that's making him want to stray
2006-11-01 06:20:48 · answer #3 · answered by superstar_81882 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say that it could be that someone else has the same name on myspace...my daughter ran her name thru and came back with 6 people with the exact same name - first middle and last - but if his ex-girlfriend is one of the sent messages he is probably lying to you - leave him or give him a dose of his own medicine - open a myspace in your name and show him how it feels....i would suggest having him delete his and promise to never do again or you will be history...
2006-11-01 06:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set up your own myspace account, put in a random pic of some hot woman, then look him up.See if he responds and where his conversation leads to. After some time passes and you are convinced that he has cheating ways then agree to meet him somewhere for a drink, show up looking hot as **** with divorce papers in hand! that will teach him. GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-01 06:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by imjustguessing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is full of bul*****! You definitely should be concerned, he is totally not telling the truth. Tell him to delete the account immediately. And if he says he cant because his cousin did it, then tell him to all his cousin right away to have it removed with in 2 days, or there are going to be serious problems! What a dog!
2006-11-01 06:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says that he did not set up the account, that is easy enough to check. So you and he call and have it checked. Now lets see how he explains this. Ask him why is he doing this? Ask him if he wants to work on his marriage? Tell him if he wants other woman, just tell you, and leave, because you are not going to be second best for any one!
2006-11-01 06:31:51 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, you already are concerned...and you already know it's for good reason. It's a horrible cover-up for a horrible situation. Good luck. Your gonna need it to find out the truth about this whole situation and what you should do about this lying, possibly cheating husband of yours. I'm sorry, deception sucks.
2006-11-01 06:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo! Answers Chic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How did you find out?
My husband did something similar to this and accused me of invading his privacy! Same goes for not opening their mail, looking thru wallets, etc.
Sounds like he's going thru a mid-life crisis. If the marriage is worth saving, he should come clean.
2006-11-01 06:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by CAT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Wll if I had a My Space account and put down that I was single and I wasn't..then i guess the reason I would do that is probably that deep down I am still keeping my options open. I actually say he's lying when he told you that someone else set up an account. Why would anyone else but him want to use his name on there.He can't be too happy with you.I'd either set him straight or ditch his $orry @ss.
2006-11-01 06:18:17 · answer #10 · answered by Clay 2 · 2⤊ 2⤋