someone who is sensitive then find one but turn around and say they are boring and too sensitive even though they treat them with more respect than anyone they have known?
2006-11-01 06:20:27 · 40 answers · asked by lifescircle 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I love a man that is sensitive. Some women out there just likes to play the field like some of the guys do. I love a man that cares about me, not the ones that their mouth hits the ground or they just about twist their head off at their neck when a female goes walking by strutting her stuff. That woman should not interest a man in the least bit IF he cares anything about the woman he is with. I not only would want my man to care about only me, but also be affectionate with me, to be honest, faithful. But most guys that I have ever talked to in my life think that that is asking to much of a guy. Guess that is true, as I have yet found a man that fits that description. So see I know what I want, they are just not out there.
2006-11-01 06:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can be sensitive without being boring. I do know what you are saying it does seem that women like the more dangerous rebel kind of man and then whine about not getting respect from them... The only thing I can say is the right woman for you will love you just the way you are. The secret is to find a more mature woman who has already learned that the rebel isn't quite as sexy as she thought. Good luck
2006-11-01 06:36:39 · answer #2 · answered by momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what one means by "sensitive". For example, a guy who cries often - would he be considered "sensitive"? I suppose, you can apply this term to him, but I personally would find such person disgusting. This is not at all the kind of "sensitivity" I'm after. However, I feel it is "sensitive" of my husband to follow me to bed for a few minutes every night, even though he stays up later than I do - to say goodnight. But then, it isn't so much being "sensitive" as it is smiply exhibiting a desire to spend some time with me - which is a good thing to have in a relationship.
In short - I think, this term is too vague, and basically does not describe anything at all. And, a person CAN be "sensitive" and boring at the same time, as well as "sensitive" and exciting.
2006-11-01 06:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When we say "sensitive" we mean someone who understands our emotions not necessarily someone who has the same ones. We want you to acknowledge them, be strong for us but keep yours under control so we don't have to comfort you every time we need comforting.
Being a jerk just little of the time helps us to feel that we are lucky to have you and keeps trying to impress you. Not that you should go overboard with it, just enough to keep us on our toes.
None of this is fair but a woman's emotions are very complex. Figure us out and we're yours for life!!!
2006-11-01 06:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by Heather S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women don't know what they want to tell you the truth, and unfortunately some have it all planned out in their favor. Most women find it more challenging to find the bad boy and turn him good and mold him to what they want...which is ultimately the sweet sensitive guy they always wanted. Not all women are like this though, so don't attack me ladies, for my opinion. Good luck in trying to figure out women, if you break up with one, then you will have to turn around and figure out the others...neverending battle. ;)
2006-11-01 06:35:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are assuming that women KNOW what they want. Just because they say it doesn't mean its true.
The thing is always be yourself. If they like it they like you for you. Complying to everything a woman/man wants is the quickest way to have them not care about you. They will think they settled because you love them more than they love you. Next thing you know you are living a life you don't want because they wanted it OR they start seeing someone else because you are the backup guy and you will always forgive them. Be happy live your own life. If they stay they stay if they go they go. I'm doing that now and driving my wife crazy, but she's staying and she even tells me she loves me more now.
Women want a whole man, not someone to push around.
2006-11-01 06:57:47 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we want sensitive not cry baby! someone who cares but not too much someone who will listen just listen unless otherwise asked(but watch how you word thngs and the tone you use) and most of all someone to be strong but like above not too strong. me and my man are dealing with this now and his balls are geting to big for his pants i'm gonna have to cut himdown a knotch. but at times he is more woman than most women i know talking about his feelings and ****. so then i have to put him in his place again by tellin him what a b**** he is.
2006-11-01 06:29:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if a women hasn't experienced tenderness then they will confuse sensitivity with weakness. The answer is find a way to be sensitive without seeming feminine.
2006-11-01 06:23:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
I will take a sensitive guy ANY day - over a dense butthead that sits on the couch all weekend and all night mezmerized by a boob-tube.Most women have been burned so to speak, so we're always skeptical. Once you get over the trust hurdle and you are treating her right you are golden :)
2006-11-01 06:22:44 · answer #9 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
When they say sensitive they dont mean that he should cry at every little thing. Ive found that most guys are either too sensitive or too nasty. Just like men we want something in the middle.
2006-11-01 06:28:43 · answer #10 · answered by JustMe 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋