i am, very, why? because the person i am with is just a very negative miserable person who does nothing for me except take care of the kids, 13 years now. only with her for the kids.
2006-11-01 05:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am married and although I hate to admit it I am miserable as hell. I think I a, afraid of being alone and having to deal with the "I told you so" comments I will get from my friends and family.
Joining yahoo answers has opened my eyes to the fact that they are many people in not so perfect relationships who stay for different reasons. But are we really helping the kids/ Don't we think that as they grow older they will realize their parents don't love each other? I really don't have the answer, just part of being an adult and making difficult decisions.
2006-11-01 07:59:07 · answer #1 · answered by DownAndOut 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes because he left me to be with someone else and I didn't realize this until we had reconciled a year later and when i was pregnant with 2nd baby i found e-mails and now i feel stuck and on top of it he puts his mommy and family before me and lets them treat me like **** and when i talk to him about it all he says is that he can't control what they do.....ok thats fine, but he makes me go to their house and if i don't go he won't go and take the kids and then i feel like it is my fault and i am depriving my kids from their grandparents but when i get their they are cold and just ignore me........ have ne reason to put up with this crap and treated like this but i will stay until i finish school and am financially secure and my kids are older........when he left me my 1st born was 2 months old and i had to go on welfare and recieve WIC and I was worried that I wouldn't find a job and I would end up in the projects when I lived in a gated community before...........I will not allow that kind of life for my children if it means i have to be miserable for the next 20yrs,
2006-11-01 14:02:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, same situation. She is a great mom but no longer a great lover. Lost her drive and thinks I should just understand this.
I have a great job so she can be a stay at home mom in our dream house. What a shame..............
When kids are out of the house I will leave her.
2006-11-01 13:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I understand....
Why? been lied to for 10+ years, he's overly jealous for no reason, doesn't help out at all with household duties, expects me to take care of everything, online gaming adiction, friends usually come first, doesn't take care of himself, isn't responsible as an adult a lot of the time, etc
2006-11-01 13:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah!!! hubby cheated on me but says it was harmless flirting. he doesnt do any of the housework or cook. i have lost that "loving feeling" and i do not trust him. we moved to a different state just to try to work out our problems and it is not working. sometimes i can look at him and he makes me sick.. this is when you know it is so over.
2006-11-01 14:02:57 · answer #5 · answered by djsweet31 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes because he works third shift seven days a week
2006-11-01 13:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You people are sad!Why don't you actually TRY to make your marriage better instead of just complaining about it!Maybe if your wife felt sexy,she would want to have sex!And to the ladies that say they are only with their husbands because of the nice things,that makes you a whore!
2006-11-01 13:46:19 · answer #7 · answered by Pardon Moi? 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋
well i won't win best answer here...because i am very happy in my marriage and won't go into all the reasons of why...but good luck , hope things change for you.
2006-11-01 14:16:58 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes very unhappy married 10yrs only with him cause he works and pay for all the finer things in life...............
2006-11-01 13:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by allison b 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I am very happily married.
2006-11-01 13:42:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋