i have nothing to hide. he recently told me that he opens my mail also. i've asked him not to open my mail before but he keeps doing this. also, i confessed to him that i have a crush at work for about 3 weeks now. what do i need to say for him to understand that i need a personal space.
2006-11-01 05:33:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Duh. Change your passwords, and don't give them out. Your husband sounds controlling and insecure. My husband doesn't know any of my passwords, and it would never occur to him to even ask.
Also, you don't need to inform him of every "crush" you have. Some things should be kept "personal".
2006-11-01 05:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel you have to hide things from him, you really don't have a marriage. Hiding things or keeping things from a significant other will make a hole in your relationship between you guys.
On the other hand, you did be honest that you have a crush at work...honesty is good.
A husband has every right to go through your things just like you have the right to go through his things.
If I told my husband that I had a crush at work, it would hurt him and I would expect him to look into eveything of mine.
Why do you have a crush on this person at work?
2006-11-01 05:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That got here approximately to me...partly. My password stopped working (yet my records replaced into the comparable) and whilst i ultimately have been given lower back in a majority of those e-mails have been there to somebody named Paige or something and that i dont comprehend absolutely everyone by utilising that call. My password saved changing nevertheless, like a week. you ought to only decide directly to get a sparkling e mail. in any different case touch yahoo, i could think of in case you could decide a thank you to telephone them it may be greater ordinary.
2016-12-16 17:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by gambrell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a trust issue. Anytime someone needs "private personal secret space" when they're married, is because they're doing something they hope they don't get "caught" at. After your "sharing" about a crush....I'd be snooping too.
2006-11-01 06:20:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's the problem if you have nothing to hide ? if my wife told me she had a crush on someone i'd be angry and at the very least snoop more .
2006-11-01 05:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by jsjmlj 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is that what ya call it these days? personal space? huh , sence i am married my husband would be even more upset if i ask for my personal space , because he would then think i have something to hide.
2006-11-01 06:00:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He shouldn't be snooping but it sounds to me like there are some trust issues here .You need some counseling.
2006-11-01 05:41:44 · answer #7 · answered by mary3127 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him why..and what he is worried about. Ask him if you can start opening his email and reg mail and go through his drawers. and wallet.. some times snoopers are looking cause they are guilty
2006-11-01 05:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by texlatina1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you 2 are married and sorry honey but personal space is very little in a marriage,, talk to him and see what he says
2006-11-01 05:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A crush is a bit much don't you think?
I can understand finding someone attractive, but not a crush.
2006-11-01 05:44:44 · answer #10 · answered by Ant O 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋