It all started when my fiance broke up with me last year. I begged for him to stay with me and he said no he wasnt 100% commited. So I moved out, I was heartbroken, and I was mad and hated him because I felt that he betrayed me. After a month he is already sleeping with a couple of girls.I hear through the grapevine. So I decided I better get back in the dating scence because we are never going to get back together anyway.I happened to get back in touch with a "friend of a friend" of his.We started dating and eventually have sex.
a few months later me and my fiance get back together.I told him what I did and even though he was the one who didnt want to be with me and he was sleeping with multiple other people he calls me a whore and says he will never forgive me
It wouldnt have happened if we didnt break up.I feel so horrible and guilty for what I have done.How can I forgive myself?
we are still together but I feel our relationship will never be the same. what do I do, who is wrong?
2006-11-01 05:50:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Find another dude, maybe he's not the one for you. Decide to "cool off" about 2 months and not let any boy trouble you and focus yourself on work or something
2006-11-01 05:53:19 · answer #1 · answered by flamingblue21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting how he feels comfortable to judge you and call you a name like that. It is a double standard which isn't valid. You've got nothing to regret or feel guilty about. More importantly, if I were you, I'd be asking if this guy is truly the right guy for you. Anyone who would call you a whore, yet remain with you, may not be worthy of your love. My crystal ball tells me that this relationship is just going to keep bringing you more distress. There are a lot of fish in the sea. No one deserves to be treated like trash. Move on and find true happiness with a genuine, good guy. Enjoy life.
2006-11-01 06:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a matter of who is wrong. First of all, you was not with him. you could go out with who ever you wanted to, he did, I think you made a bad choice of going back to him. Now that you have told him, he is never going to forgive you, and he is going to keep throwing it up in your face. How could you let him call you a whore, and not say nothing back to him, I would have said, you too! Get out of this, I am not even going to call it a relationship, Because you are going to just be wasting your life, and time, and you owe it to yourself, to want more out of life, to make you happy!
2006-11-01 06:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you expect to marry this jerk, then get ready to take the blame for everything he does! Who cares who did what you weren't together at the time. You both need to let it go and move on. You can't have a future worrying about what each did during that time, all you need to know is that you worked your way back together, but you will take the blame always. He sounds like a jerk to me. I would go back to your other friend.
2006-11-01 05:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by Premo Mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't face the fact that you were able to move to a new relationship while he slept around during your break up, then you should consider if you two should be back together. I sure wouldn't allow this to be held over my head for the rest of your relationship, especially if your not holding the same true for his actions during the break up.
2006-11-01 05:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the one who is wrong. guys are so retarded! he after u guys broke up u still lked him but he went and hit it with other girls and u thought u should start dating instead of waiting for him am i right well he was the one who was wrong because he had sex with multiple girls u he had no reason to call u a whore u were just doing what u thought was right. U should so drope him!!!!!!!!!!! -lol-
2006-11-01 05:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel guilty and dont let him manipulate the situation. He is sad because you had your fun without him its a control thing. Why is it ok for him but your the whore? I dont get that and never will I dont think that you should have to beg anyone to be with you. They either want you or they dont he is stringing you along dont allow him to do so.
2006-11-01 07:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey hes a loser and a hypocrite! so he can sleep wid other people when youve broken up but you cant! it is just pathetic of him to call you a hoe! do not feel guilty about sleeping wid someone e;else because he did it too! newyz you shouldnt care what he thinks because he ditched you once who says he wont again. but i dont know your relationship as well as you do so maybe im wrong maybe, so maybe you can make the judgment of if you two can work it out yourself right?
2006-11-01 05:59:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 07:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by predmore 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither one of you are wrong. You were separated, had your little flings, and he needs to get over it. You shouldnt be with a man who calls you a whore though....It may turn to abuse later. Good luck girl.
2006-11-01 05:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋