Why not meet a mate at church - they will be a better life partner?

Answer 1

It doesnt matter there are bad seeds everywhere you just have to be careful. I think someone in the church could be great only because infidelity is such a sin but just because they are in the church it doesnt mean that they will follow the rules. People are just people church or no church. Good Luck in your search.

Answer 2

I met my first wife at church. We dated for 5 years went through the recommended counseling and everything was great. After the I do's at the wedding she changed so completely I didnt even know her. I came home one day after 13 months of marriage and she said I want a divorce. I said fine and we got a divorce. My life immediately became better I wasnt b**ched at constantly and I became a better person. My second wife I knew for 6 months married her and 13 years later couldnt be happier. No meeting someone at a church is not the best place. If you want a good man and they all are married or gay look in the divorce section of your paper. In the cases were the man is divorcing the woman chances are she was cheating and thats the reason. Look him up he is probably a good man who is now single.

Answer 3

A life partner is not the best out there but the most suitable for you whom you are willing to spend your whole live with. Church will be a good place, focus on God first then God will take care of that for u.

Answer 4

I met my ex husband of (20 years) at church thinking a Singles Dept. would be a good husband-hunting ground. After 20 years with the bible-thumping, extremely conservative, narrow minded, passive aggressive, and "God didn't tell me to do that" (like going to work!), I had enough! I left. I met my present husband on a Thursday Karaoke night in a local bar. I wasn't looking and neither was he. But we both loved to dance and sing. Anniversary of 7 years next week and never a dull moment with him....I'm so lucky! I'd advise you to go to church to meet a man if you are of the extreme bible-loving persuasion. Otherwise, go to meet someone who has the same interests as you have now and in the future. Godloveya.

Answer 5

Where is the question here? Obviously meeting a mate in church would be a good thing. You already have one huge thing in common.

Answer 6

Not necessarily honey!!! I know plenty of couples that are pivotal people in churches and they have so mnay problems its hard to know where to start. I also have friends that never go to church and they are the best lifetime partners...don't be blinded by the idea that if they go to church they know God's intentions for marriage and therefore will always carry them out, remember God gave each and eveyr one of us a free will!!!

Answer 7

Maybe, maybe not. I do think it's important to have similar beliefs and values, but that's only one factor out of many... you have to have some other common interests, attraction, personality has to click, some similar goals in life, etc.

Besides, just because you go to the same church, doesn't necessarily mean you have the same beliefs or practice them in the same way!

Answer 8

some times meeting a partner at church isnt the best way to go.There are alot of people that goes to church that isnt fully into God.

Answer 9

sad to say.... that might not be correct..... it may have be a better place to find a partner.... i hope that is not the only reason U are going to church..... because if it is U are not the better life partner....

Answer 10

just be sure that their heart is in the right place. Attending Church doesn't automatically mean you are a "good person". You don't have to even attend church to have your heart in the right place.