if i live until i am 85. actually, the shorter lifespan seems easier. i am married with kids and want them provided for but in the big picture it really isnt too important to me to be on this earth a long time. is this a strange outlook on life? how do other people think about this outlook or what is their outlook on it?
2006-11-01 02:22:49 · 16 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is an odd aspect. Do you not wish to see your grandchildren?
2006-11-01 02:25:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think its a strange outlook but even more so because you have children. Maybe you dont care if your here only 5 more years but I'm sure your kids will have something different to say about that. Dont you ever want to see them get married and have their own kids ? Dont you want to see and hold those kids ?? Dont you want to grow old with your wife ?? Dying in 5 yrs or when your 85 is a huge difference.
2006-11-01 02:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, that is a strange out look to have. You could either be depressed, for which you should talk to your doctor, or you may be a deeply spiritual person whose ready to move onto the next thing. Even if you don't care about your time on this earth you should care about your children and the impact your untimely death would have on them. Maybe you aren't utilizing the time you have to the best of your abilities. If you aren't living your life to the fullest then you need to change what it is you're doing. Don't let boredom kill your spirit.
2006-11-01 02:27:53 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I use to have this problem, but this was when life wasnt so great. Is your life bad? Now that my life is good I want to live forever. I think you need to get a new outlook on life. Cheer up, be happy and most of all have fun. Buy yourself a new pair of sunglasses to give yourself a new outlook and keep your head up.
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2006-11-01 02:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think you have such a sunny disposition on life. And, since you have kids, you should want to be around as long as possible so that you can see them graduate, get married, have children, and see your grandchildren! I am not afraid to die but I am hoping I live a long and joyful life. I know there'll be struggles... sometimes I will be depressed but I don't mind living long because it proves that I am a strong person that overcame the obstacles that were handed to me in life.
2006-11-01 02:30:31 · answer #5 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in my 50's and I don't think about it at all. If I live my life as best as I can, then that is what is important along with treating others with love, and kindness. When it is my time to go "home", I will not have any choice in the matter.
2006-11-01 02:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i know very few people who relatively enjoyed their intense college days. they're so uncomfortable. all of us sense judged and out interior the open, no longer secure. Its no longer you - its all and sundry in intense college. i think of, once you get on your senior year you would be extra well-off and function extra relaxing...then its over. you won't have close friends...yet few do. it could appear as if different females have close friends...yet that they had in basic terms as quickly stab one yet another interior the lower back as inspect them. Its an extremely attempting time in each childrens life. have you ever talked on your mom and dad approximately it? perchance they are in a position that might assist you already know those thoughts? in case you could no longer and you sense undesirable approximately it ask your mom and dad in case you could seek advice from a therapist. Its no longer saying your undesirable or sick in spite of the undeniable fact that it is going to assist you to to comprehend your self and different extra desirable. specific, you could circulate on. There' s a great great destiny available for you...and you will by no skill see it, meet the affection of your life or meet your babies in case you do no longer. God would not provide us a undertaking with out additionally giving us the skill to beat that undertaking - and grow to be extra ideal for it.
2016-11-26 21:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never felt that way until I lost my husband, and then my mother. Now, I don't WANT to die, but if my time has come, I'll go willingly. I do, however, try to have a good heart and believe in God, so that I can one day be rejoined with my loved ones!! I live each day to it's fullest!
2006-11-01 02:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have the means to support yourself or your children can support you financially, then it is fine to live a long life. If you are old, sick and immobile and have difficulties with paying for healthcare, then it's best to die to avoid the sufferings. You need money to support your long life.
2006-11-01 03:15:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dont you want to see your kids grow up and them turn into parents themselves??
dont you want to be with your wife and spend as much time with her as possible???
i think its a little strange that you feel that way, but we all live our own lives,
live it how you want :o) xXx
2006-11-01 02:26:11 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't matter to me except for my children. If I didn't have children then I wouldn't care. I lost my dad at a young age so I don't want my children to be like I was.
2006-11-01 02:25:09 · answer #11 · answered by Green Machine 00 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋