I promise I won't tell. To what degree are you fooling around? How far is "cheating"?
2006-11-01 03:08:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I havent fooled around on him yet, but been thinking about it constantly. Unless you call cybersex cheating i have engaged in that once. I am soooo, well i dont have to tell you but he very rarely wants to so i am pretty sure that he has someone on the side but i really dont care. The thing that is holding me back is not wanting to feel dirty.
2006-11-01 03:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not. I am not that kind of person. I keep my promises.
If I felt I had to cheat, I would tell my spouse, and we would talk about it. He is my best friend. I would never do anything behind his back.
Do unto others. It is a good rule, which will keep you out of all sorts of problems.
Being horney is not a good reason to justify being a liar and a cheat. Fix it at home. If your problems aren't fixable at home, sit down with the person and talk. Then leave. Be honorable.
2006-11-01 03:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am not but I think cheating could be defined as a number of things. Kissing, touching, flirting, sexual contact. It all depends on what you think of cheating. Personally I think that flirting is ok to an extent. But kissing is for sure cheating.
2006-11-01 03:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think Becky Thatcher is fooling around on you, Tom Sawyer. You'd better pay attention to what's going on in your corner of the cave (wink).
2006-11-01 03:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by wrtrchk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what your definition of "cheating" is. Ours is along the lines of "Sex without the partner's knowledge or consent." Yes, I realize that the "consent" portion leaves quite a bit of open room. However, we swing & still don't consider it "cheating."
2006-11-01 03:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by Jason G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me cheating is anything you wouldnt do in front of your significant other. Or would not want them to find out about. That is cheating in my book.
2006-11-01 03:39:02 · answer #6 · answered by ashashbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not cheating - i'm not even married anymore, but would not sleep with a married guy - i know a divorced guy that sleeps with married women - he wanted to sleep with me when i was still married, but i turned him down - i think he likes the idea of sleeping with other men's women - no committment involved - in fact when he was married him & his wife both cheated on each other - guess you could define him as a guy with low character!
2006-11-01 03:32:24 · answer #7 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me- I gave a vow before God, witnesses, my family andmyself and husband- its a VOW. and I'm not a liar. (20 years by the way, and I don't have a need)---I saw a bumpersticker on a car awhile ago-"I get mine at home and love it" Good Sticker
2006-11-01 03:11:57 · answer #8 · answered by ARTmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just to have thoughts about someone else is cheating.
2006-11-01 03:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Skuya!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not.
Cheating starts with flirting.
2006-11-01 03:12:56 · answer #10 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋