Help plz...?
Ok, Ppl i really need help on this, i hate this, ok, i been with a guy 6 years he cheated on me and ive cheated on him. he hit on me, been like that for awhile, but the last 3 months he has changed, but there another guy i think i love, he loves me and would do anything, im trying to work things out with my boyfriend i been with 6yrs for my lil boy sake, because i want things to work. but then agian i find myself thinkin about this other guy alot, what do i need to do.i really want things to work out i dont wont 6 years down the drain
2006-11-01 03:04:57 · 9 answers · asked by pennyluvchris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Better to have 6 bad years down the drain than 7.
He has been nice for 3 months out of 6 years...you do the math.
2006-11-01 03:07:18 · answer #1 · answered by Bev 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some think the grass is greener on the other side til they walk there...After 6 yrs, you KNOW this man, the father of your son, Why get in a situation you may regret or yet be worse then before, YOU said yourself, your boyfriend is changing. If you (as U say) really want things to work, you'll let the "other" guy know that you have a commitment to yourself and your child to make an effort and repair a situation. MAYBE you can go to Church, A Christian church where the pastor can help you both through the word of God. Life's too short to bounce from one person to another thinking you'll find something better. And when you can't change someone, perhaps it's then you need to change yourself. DROP the other guy cause you can't fix your problem with him lingering. And ONE MORE thing....You need to finish ONE chapter before you start another. YOU are playing with fire and you're bound to get burned. You don't need help, you need God in your life. Repent of your sin's and make changes in your life to accept that this man is CHANGING for you and move forward with HIM.
2006-11-01 03:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by DayLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very good chance indeed. Though you don't get symptoms this early the best thing you could do is wait for a missed period. If your periods are irregular wait for a month now after sex and then take a blood hcg test to conform. This test is 97% effective. I would wish you all the bestt! :)
2016-05-23 02:39:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
things are obviously not working with you 2.You said you are staying with him for your lil boys sake. Don't you think it would be better for your lil boy to see his mom and dad happy instead of fighting. People so often make the mistake of staying in relationships because they think it is better for the kids, in reality it is better to NOT keep kids in a house where they do not see love between parents.
2006-11-01 03:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by corinne_29_ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey-it's already down the drain! Don't waste anymore time on it-RUN FROM THIS! Really, if you have learned from this & have a child it wasn't a total waste, but he won't really change. Get on with your new relationship!
You are worth much more!!
2006-11-01 03:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by life coach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that i would go for the new guy. My guess is that the old guy is just been pretending to change because he is afraid of losing you. I fell for that trick twice. Good luck.
2006-11-01 03:28:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you asked the same question three times? I change my original post...I think the issue may be with you and not your boyfriend.
2006-11-01 03:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by TripleTattoo™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he cheated on you once he can do it again so it up to you and follow your heart be with someone who love you
2006-11-01 03:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AGREE WITH JUDY M. GET OUT OF IT!!!!!!!!!!! FOR YOU AND YOUR SONS SAKE, ESPECIALLY IF HE HAS A HISTORY OF BEING ABUSIVE, YOU AND YOUR SON WILL BE BETTER OFF AWAY FROM HIM.
2006-11-01 05:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by It's MIRANDA!!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋