Im finding that my husband is connected to myspace and friendster.com and putting "not married" in his profiles. and he just now got a message from some girl in his email about wanting to talk. what is it that he is doing? should i be concerned? i try to talk to him but he flips out and gets mad and doesnt want to talk.... about anything. thanks for your opinions/answers.
2006-11-01 03:01:32 · 16 answers · asked by jessnclh 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes there are children involved. we have 2 and 1 more on the way
2006-11-01 03:17:59 · update #1
It doesn’t matter anymore.
I used to sit and wonder to myself,
what it was, I did so wrong.
Could I have treated you different?
or wrote you, a beautiful song.
I loved you with all of my heart,
and I believed, you truly loved me.
You used to say, I was your true love,
and there was no place, you’d rather be.
How could a love so wonderful and pure,
change, from the day we first met.
Was it I, who did you wrong,
or a friend, I will never forget.
But now, it truly doesn’t matter anymore,
why, you hurt and cheated on me.
Because I know, deep in my heart,
It wasn’t I, who cheated on thee.
So I just want you to know,
that if you ever, think of us two.
My life was truly changed, my dear,
and I deserve, a lot better than you.
By: Kenny P aka- Cobra
2006-11-01 03:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to get too worried. Maybe he doesn't know how to change it and is still learning how? Or maybe you can sit him down w/o arguing or anything and say... I just noticed that on myspace's relationship status on your page that you put not married. Is there a reason behind that or do you need to be showed how to change it? and if he doesn't respond to that then theres a reason why he didnt put it. don't take it serious just yet. catch him in act again if it does happen again and if it does give hima warning or make him a choice. It's not healthy for you to go through a negative relationship so try to work it out or figure a different plan.. hope this works out!
2006-11-01 11:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by Amy M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is keeping something from you. The fact that he gets onto these websites and registers as single would make the red flag in my head go up! If he was happy in the marriage I would assume he wouldn't be doing this. With him getting pissed when you confront him, its normal. Hes been caught and he is going to make up every excuse in the book to make it your fault somehow or make it so its no big deal. It IS a big deal. You need to talk to him and try to find out why he is doing these things. I wouldn't settle for anything but what you feel is the truth. He might not have cheated yet but he will if it doesn't stop!
2006-11-01 11:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...well let's put it to you this way...if he is doing this...you have a lot to be concerned about. He has probably moved on and is trolling the waters for someone of interest. And it isn't friendship. What is even worse is that you have confronted him about something that you have every right to be upset and concerned about and he "flips out and gets mad." I think your next move should be to shut off the internet period. And if he gets mad...kick him out. You deserve better than that!
2006-11-01 11:05:31 · answer #4 · answered by mshellrosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That could be bad. Even if it is "Innocent fun"...it could lead to more. He most likely has not done anything physical yet...but obviously is liking the attention that being "single" is bringing. I would be concerned. Talk to him about it. Find out why he is seeking attention else where. Good luck.
2006-11-01 11:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by TripleTattoo™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he said he was not married and gets mad when you ask he is a cheater.People get mad when they are trying to hide something. Get the program Pandora you find what you need to know
2006-11-02 09:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by dettie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to know, then create your own myspace, but do not make it appear that it is you and start talking to him and see what he says. You will get all your answers and then you will know.
2006-11-01 11:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got problems, honey. It may be too early for a lawyer, but it isn't too early for a family therapist. Internet cheating is STILL cheating and there is some case law to back that up.
2006-11-01 11:06:43 · answer #8 · answered by Buffy Summers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip out, get mad, and fight back. He is married and he should be acting like it. If you let him walk on you, he will.
2006-11-01 11:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's on the move, and you not invited for the ride!
put your profile online also and see what kind of reaction you get...hopefully there are no children involved.
2006-11-01 11:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋