You both probably don't feel secure with each other. Or something from both of your pasts don't make you want to trust the other. To me their seems to be a very big gap in the communication network that you and your husband have. I think it's time for both of you to call a timeout and get a mediator(marriage counselor) to help with your issues. If not your jealousy issues will only intensify. Good luck to you both.
2006-11-01 03:13:14
·
answer #1
·
answered by mshellrosie 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Jelousy is a dangerous field to play in....and normally jelousy comes from low self confidence or lack of trust. How did you get married if there is jelousy? or for that matter why? Yes there is always love, but if there is alot of jelousy, a relationship can crash really harshly.
Maybe talking to a counselor to find out WHY you are jelous....has he been cheated on before maybe? Have you been cheated on? You need to look into yourself and find out why you cant trust him.
get some help before something happens that you will both regret.
2006-11-01 03:19:54
·
answer #2
·
answered by shortandcutetoboot 2
·
0⤊
0⤋
we're both jealous too, but we keep trying to think of positive things instead of accusing each other. It will push you guys away from each other if you don't try and trust each other. I will never cheat either and I wish he's see that. Just start trusting in him and he'll do the same with you.
2006-11-01 03:11:13
·
answer #3
·
answered by inlovewow 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
You messed up big time, but that doesn't mean you need to accept this crap from your husband. If he wants to work things out with you then he has to forgive you and move on. He might need you to be more accountable to him about where you are and what you're doing and whatnot for awhile, but sleeping with another woman?? that is just ridiculous! Don't let him do this if you don't feel 100% comfortable with it. You do NOT owe him this, a lot of apologies and making it up to him yes, but not this!
2016-05-23 02:40:07
·
answer #4
·
answered by Anonymous
·
0⤊
0⤋
People who don't trust their spouse, have cheated themselves in the past, or are currently cheating themselves. That's a fact. Maybe you both need counseling because a marriage won't survive long without trust.
2006-11-01 03:16:31
·
answer #5
·
answered by Wiser1 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
Well if alot of guys are hittin on you,or even eyeing you up,the same with your husband except it would be gals,its only human nature to be jelous.You need to dress down and see if that helps,or go to some place where there isn't a bunch of ogglers
2006-11-01 03:18:02
·
answer #6
·
answered by Ricky Lee 6
·
0⤊
0⤋
You both need to stop the worrying and accusations. They are gonna make you miserable. Theres no explanation as to why some people are jealous and some arent. You just need to do something about it.
2006-11-01 03:10:51
·
answer #7
·
answered by JC 7
·
0⤊
0⤋
Because both of you have probably be cheated on in the past and refuse to trust one another, one of you needs to grow up.
2006-11-01 03:10:22
·
answer #8
·
answered by Fuzzy 3
·
0⤊
0⤋
Maybe because you are both insecure. If you are down on yourself, you start thinking that a person can't possibly be happy with you...so you make stuff up in your head. Get good with yourselves, and your relationship will be the better for it.
2006-11-01 03:14:31
·
answer #9
·
answered by TripleTattoo™ 4
·
0⤊
0⤋
Insecurity....you need to share more time together and be more mature, jealousy only carries pain and separation.
2006-11-01 03:18:17
·
answer #10
·
answered by haki 5
·
0⤊
0⤋