Why am i like this any ideas please help me out. Thanks So Much..
2006-11-01 02:19:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay he said that i get mad allot sometimes and i cannot control my anger yeah that is very true but i dont now why he said that
2006-11-01 02:25:29 · update #1
Sweet Coco, I can only come up with a few conclusions:
1) Are you pregnant? if yes, your hormones a little out of wack, that happens. My suggestion if you are, I would consult my Dr. and I would read some literature on pregnancy and symptoms.
2) Do you PMS? If so, they have a vitamin at the GNC (Generation Nutrition Center) or any pharmacy that is especially for PMS syndrome.
3) Are you depressed? See a Dr.
4) Have you been very busy lately, not enough rest? that may do it, relax a little no need to burn yourself out, it affects those closes to you. Lots of luck sweetie, hope I could help, remember, sometimes with depression we are not always aware that that is what it is. If you are aware of your feelings and it may be leaning towards depression, seek pro help. Take care.
2006-11-01 03:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by Lissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you bitter? About what? Why? Who?
The best way to overcome bitterness is through comforting yourself, forgiving yourself, and others who have harmed you.
Being more comfortable in your own skin, and with the realities of disappointment, and heartache that we all have.
Why did he say that? What do you do? How do you show your bitterness? These questions you can ask him. Don't argue or defend yourself, let him tell you how you are affecting him.
Bitterness is usually anger, at the world, at gods, fate, pain, unfairness, something you think you are getting buried in and don't deserve.
You might need to talk to a counsellor, to give you some tools to help you out. It doesn't mean you are crazy. it means your anger and lashing out are interfering with your life.
Fix it. Life is tooo short to spend one day miserable, and making other people miserable.
Good luck, hon. Hope I helped. Give us more details, and we can help better.
2006-11-01 02:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you would know. The term bitter means to be sour.
Has your attitude changed about anything? Are you seeing everything from a negative stand-point? Are you resentful of a recent event that took place and you are dwelling on it?
I would look back at the conversations that took place right before he made that comment and see it brings forth any clues.
LASTLY why not ask him why he made that comment.
Hope that helps.
2006-11-01 02:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by Medical Teacher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult to answer, as we do not know if you are truly becoming bitter. It could be that you are reflecting in your behavior some other problems that you have; or it could be that he is having some problems, and his temper has shortened because of it.
The best thing I can say is for both of you to talk in a calm way about what is going on.
2006-11-01 02:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by jasonheavilin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People usually become bitter when they feel their needs aren't being met. Maybe you feel he's always taking and never giving. Maybe he doesn't do enough for you as a women or as his partner, but only you know that.
2006-11-01 02:25:53 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's trying to discuss your relationship issues but he doesn't know how to do it in a tactful way. You guys should go to counseling so that you can learn to communicate and get to the bottom of your marital problems. It really can work if you're both open to it.
2006-11-01 02:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been submissive to my wife for about a year and now have the best sex we ever had. I get up ech day hoping she will let me touch and lick her and she do the same to me. I can only *** when she allows it, so as far as I am concerned it is the best thing that has happened to our marriage
2016-05-23 02:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you been complaining a lot? have you been nagging him? have you been telling him that your life is a mess and you really hate it? have you forgotten how to smile and scowl the whole day? if yes, then you are becoming bitter?
2006-11-01 02:25:12 · answer #8 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your eating too many lemons, try adding some sugar to your diet.
2006-11-01 02:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jeffrey S 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he's trying to blame you for his own shortcomings? Don't let him crush your self confidence.
2006-11-01 02:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋