My b/f and I have lived together almost two years and still do it every day....sometimes twice and even on weekends more than that....do you think if we get married that would stop? Do you think that we are normal? (either way I'm gonna keep on doin it! LOL)
2006-11-01 22:36:17 · 30 answers · asked by Shae 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Of course it's normal. I wish I could be doing it that often. My fiance and I were like that when we were first dating. It's wonderful isn't it? We have been living together now for 7 years. We still have sex about 3 or 4 times a week. Not as much as he would prob like! Lol. I don't think that it would stop completely if you's got married. Look it's still going on and you's have lived together for over two years. To be honest with you it would probably slow down but it won't stop all together. Who cares anyway. Enjoy it while you can. I would be!
2006-11-01 22:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me ask you this: If it were to suddenly stop, would you still be with him?
Having a physical aspect to your relationship is healthy, as long as there are other feelings there as well.
Your marriage should not be based on sex alone. For a marriage to be successful, you both must love the other for who THEY are, as a person. Do they treat you good? Could you spend the rest of your life with this person even if there were no sex? If the answer is 'yes', then you have a greater than most average for it to succeed. The sex would then make a nice added bonus. It should never be expected, but always appreciated.
2006-11-02 07:06:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,we don't have sex THAT often.But whether you're normal or not is not really a question in the first place.WHAT is normal? Personally ,I believe that as long as you and your partner enjoy it and neither one of you is "forced" to satisfy the other on a daily basis,you are normal.It's not SEX that counts,it's the meaning behind it.If you do it to show each other how much you care,how much you love each other than that's GREAT.But when it comes down to a physical NEED than yes you DO have a problem.
2006-11-02 08:48:52 · answer #3 · answered by natashabrenda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is very lucky because a lot of women use sex to trap their man, then when they get married the sex seems to dry up. If is very common actually. I think it stems back to biblical times where women were to be seen and not heard and it was a mindset that sex was to please your man, not the woman. If you enjoy sex then I cant see it stopping after you are married. I look at it like this, if you enjoy eating ice cream, would you stop eating it just because you want to prove a point. I like ice cream, so I wouldnt use sex to make a man "pay"...that would be cutting off my nose to spite my face. Just be happy you enjoy sex so much....a lot of women dont,. They see it as a chore to keep their partner happy. I think the more men you talk to about this, the more you will believe what I am saying is the truth.
Your partner will never stray if he is with a sexy woman like yourself who enjoys sex/intimacy just as much as he does.
2006-11-02 06:57:52 · answer #4 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it will stop when you get married, but when the pressures associated with marriage will slow it down. When you get married, you make long-term plans together; buying a house, children, cars, insurance, retirement, etc. When you are single, all you have to think about is the sex.
If the pressures don't slow you down, when you have children, you will definitely change the way, frequency, and places you have sex.
2006-11-02 11:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by M K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iv been with my guy for nearly 6 yrs and we are still very in to each other and i think as long as you have a good connection with your partner it should stay the same if you feel like you want to get married then go for it , it should not change that much after all its only a bit of paper. keep having fun !!!
2006-11-02 06:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being married won't slow it down.......Having kids might, though! Honestly if you both have a sex drive like that it probably won't change. It may have it's up and downs when life gets extremely busy, but as long as you both want it there shouldn't be a problem. Most problems start when one person doesn't want it when there is time to have it.
2006-11-02 06:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by nickivalle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sex drive will decrease with age, and many people say after a few years of marriage it can slow if you let it. Got to keep it interesting and fun or it will get old if the love isn't fully up to support it. If he is like most guys he is getting it whenever his hand is free as well, so keep on keeping on!
-NmD!
2006-11-02 06:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your lucky my b/f and i have been living together for 1 1/2 years and have been together for 2 i'm lucky if i get it once over a 2 wek period i have tried all sorts of things but he can't be arsed says he is too tired e.t.c he does smoke the green though so maybe that has something to do with it, It really annoys me though!!
Im so jealous of you!!!!
2006-11-02 07:11:27 · answer #9 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married!!! Are u out of ur mind...
Girl you must break up with this guy at once..
he..you...what u do... are not normal.
you should find yourself another man..whos normal ...just like me ...
a man who is capable to do minimum 12 times a day .. that’s what you deserve to spend the rest of ur life with.
2006-11-02 06:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by loody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋