2006-11-01 21:23:08 · 18 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
After marriage it is good if you are living in a joint family. The expenditures are less and you can make & maintain a good account. If you want to go anywhere either party, marriage, get together etc. with your betterhalf without locking your locker and other things, you easily go.
Otherwise if your betterhalf is not interest to live with your other family members than you are help less. You life is "Dhobi ka kuta ghar ka na ghat ka". If you are living in a joint family you have better experience than me.
2006-11-01 21:32:19 · answer #1 · answered by inder r 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If U live in a joint Family U will get better support and U will learn everything on how to manage a family slowly and steadiy. If U go for the seperate family U have to face all the problem U doesnt have any support U have to face all the wrath by U and only U. If in case of a seperate family after the marriage U can have lot of Romance and then the privacy.
2006-11-03 15:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ramasubramanian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a fun 2 live in a joint family.But if d wife really wants 2 live single family then husband should move 2 d single family orelse huge problem will create.But I personally prefer joint family.
2006-11-01 21:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends:
If you want privacy & room for a lot of romance, stay separately. You will have to manage everything by yourself. And there shall be nobody to take care of you two at the hours of need. No guidance, no support, no caring, no body to look up to and so on so forth...
If you want people to care about you a little sacrifice of freedom has big benefits.
In fact, after the romance & passionate early days of the marriage the relity of life is - LIFE. You would have a number of situations where you would require the help from the other family members. And if you want to raise a family, god help you if you decide to go for it alone.
2006-11-01 21:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest for a joint family, because initially u feel to be happy being seperately but later on u feel difficult in ur day to day life, u need elders to give u suggestions, so that u do not take any bad step, at that instance u feel bad but as it is said elders words are golden words u should try to adjust within a joint family. There may be merits & de merits.
2006-11-01 23:21:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage with a good woman who compliments your personality is worth it. You have companionship and love, someone who you can share your hopes and dreams and to build a future with. Does marriage have it's ups and downs yes absoutly. There's time we fall in and out of love with each other. Sometimes shes more into me, sometimes I'm more into her. It's work to keep renewing the relationship and the passion. I suppose the novelity of a new lover could be exciting. And yes marriage gets hard sometimes, and it's like climbing a mountain sometimes where you think in the momement "What the hell was I thinking". But just like having a challenging expereince like climbing a mountain you look back and the memories are fond and the shared experience together is worth it. And as for a nagging wife. Not all wives nag. But all wives do test you to see if you are still a fit mate. When you find your wife nagging or making unreasonable demands know that it is a test to see if you are still a strong man. If you fight back and hold your ground, she may be angry in the moment but in the long run she'll be more attracted to you and you'll get less nagging and her challening you if you are consistant and strong. A lot of men fail when they start to give in to unreasonable demands or put up with nagging to keep the peace. Doing so only begets more nagging and her losing respect for you. Sure there are other women out there in the world, and I do like flirting with other women and like the attention but I don't want any of those and can't imagine seeing myself with anyone besides my wife.
2016-03-19 02:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your husband have enough money on your own you should definately do it seperately . Family is the number one reason for divorce in most countries.
If you don't have much income right now then let your husband know you don't want to live with his family for long. Make him agree that it will be only a year and then move out.
2006-11-01 21:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once we are good communicator or relationship and understable joint family is best for ever or else keep away your family within 100 mts. Because we have to take care of our parents and our life partnet too. If we are not good enough decision maker we loose our life.
In joint family we are happy even we are in problem, sad, angry, etc... But in the separete family we are in mechanical life runner.
Every movement is in our hand to be happy or sorrow, all the best.
2006-11-02 06:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by Babu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to stay separately for 1 or 2 years if u are intrested in joint family coz u need to understand the habits and attitudes among u selves so that there will be no problems later if at all any thing go wrong your better half will be at ur support.
2006-11-05 17:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by deepu_munuganti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the true sense joint family has broken but if anybody reside in a joint family it is very much safe in the question of security and he may deserve a social status of his family
2006-11-01 21:38:08 · answer #10 · answered by Debiprosad C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋