you thought you already found the greatest love of your life and get married,but oneday you went to a place where you did not expected to met someone and found a new love,wich is more intense and really got inlove, what will you do?
2006-11-01 23:21:11 · 12 answers · asked by AmandaNikolah 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You make a choice, to persue it or not, you decide which is more important to you, and you prepare to bear the consequences.
What person A would do is different to person B - it depends on your moral standards, religious upbringing and value on commitment. Yes, it does sometimes happen that we miss our true love in life, only to find it later, and we wonder how far we would go to be with that one true love, but each person that makes a choice must consider ALL the ramifications thereof.
Intensity can be bred from infatuation. Only you will know. The fact that sometimes people marry for the wrong reasons, or marry the wrong people does not make the vows any less compelling, nor is it an excuse to take the road out. Only do that if you are 150% sure that the grass is not only greener on the other side, but will bear the kind of winters you and your spouse have held out together. The true test of love is not how it holds in passion, it's how it holds in adversity.
Good luck. Choose life. Choose wisely. Either way, you must know this is going to hurt.
2006-11-01 23:33:34 · answer #1 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honor my wedding vows. When you 1st get married, everything is new and exciting. But later comes bills, home, children and responsibility. The love is still there, but there are other things claiming both your attention and your spouse's attention. Then you go somewhere and meet someone and there are no bills, home, children and responsibility, everything is exciting, therefore, it must be love. You destroy what you have for this "love" then realize that you made a very big mistake,
2006-11-02 07:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by bettyswestbrook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to quit thinking with your hormones and think about the commitment you have already made. Love is not who is the hottest or more intense---that part doesn't last. Love is sharing your life with the person you are committed to, growing and learning together, building a life.
2006-11-02 07:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by golden oldy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would realize that I do not know what commitment is and get out of all relationships until I can understand the value, the need and the TRUE meaning of the word.
2006-11-02 07:43:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay committed to man that I married. You chose him for a reason and now you are thinking the grass might be greener somewhere else. Remember why you got married and stick to your wows!
2006-11-02 07:29:41 · answer #5 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets be serious....you met someone and in one meeting decide this is your new love. You need to do some serious maturing before you have children.
You have commitments to honor to your husband. Honor them, your hormones and daydreams shouldn't control the rest of your life.
2006-11-02 07:23:56 · answer #6 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The grass on the other side of the fence often ends up being riddled with weeds, weigh up the what you have to gain and lose - ultimately you will be the one to decide!
2006-11-02 07:29:21 · answer #7 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time and don't be hasty. It's not unusual to be attracted to someone when you're already married. Be sure it's really love, and not attraction. You need to decide whether you want your marriage, or your new love.
2006-11-02 07:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are able to truely love more than one person in your life time. But you have to be honest with yourself and the other parties involved. I think that I would have to decide for myself who I could see myself with in my future, who would make me happier.
2006-11-02 07:23:42 · answer #9 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the "New broom sweeps clean syndrome".
You should avoid temptations and stay with your own spouse. Do the right thing.
2006-11-03 04:24:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋