before my husband married me, he was talking to another girl at the same time he was talking to me but unfortunately, i found this out too late...after i got married. he simply married me for a better future and he said he rejected her for me .. I wonder why he rejected her because he couldn't get a better future from her as she was living in his own country, asian country like him and how she benefit him like me as i come from a western country, usa. i think he married me to get to usa and he probably wanted to divorce once he got his green card and then marry her back home because he still kept talking to her after our marriage.. he never accepted it but i knew he was talking to her. he always said she was prettier than me and when i felt bad, he said he was simply joking. sometimes he says he feels regretful why he married me because his life has ended up into more problems after marrying me. and i know why he says it because he could not get his green card. i'm not bad looking eith
2006-11-01 20:16:00 · 18 answers · asked by mind 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i come from an asian country and to be honest, many (not all) asians find that there are better opportunities in western countries than in their own. i know of many men who marry american citizens to get a green card. i really can't blame them because we all have a right to make our lives better. but i feel that the marriage should be done with a mutual knowledge of the reason why they are entering into the relationship. there's a very very big chance that your husband married you for the green card and may end up divorcing you after he gets it. if i were you, if he treated me with respect and made the most of our relationship while we were together, i would probably still give him the green card and see where it takes our relationship from there. but the way your husband is treating you, as much as i can understand where he is coming from, i don't think he deserves your help. it is one thing to try to attain your goals but it is another thing if you trample on another person just to attain that goal. i know it hurts because you probably love this man but he doesn't deserve your love, the life you're giving him, and the green card that he's desperate to have.
2006-11-01 21:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him kicked out the country before he gets his green card, tell them he tricked you into marriage and show them evidence that he is talking to this other woman. Then he will have to leave and you can marry someone else who loves you for being you, not for your address or geographical location.
2006-11-01 21:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-28 10:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-01 20:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to know what I'm thinking. You're a dumb A S S! for thinking he married you because he loved you. Sure he married you to come over her and when he gets a chance he's going to dump your dumb A S S > Go figure. You already know this.
2006-11-01 20:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It took a decision from you to marry him, and now maybe it will take a decision from you to get a divorce. Try counseling, if he will go, and if not, I don't believe anyone should live with, or be married to someone who is obviously verbally abusive.
2006-11-01 20:22:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you waiting for? You know all this and you're still with him? Leave him. Filing papers for someone of another country will have you financially responsible for them from now on. Is that what you want? I hope not.
2006-11-01 21:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says these things to you, He is not worth having. Move on with your life. There is somebody special out there just waiting to meet you!
2006-11-01 20:20:24 · answer #8 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i understand what ur saying and i think you should devorce him. marrage is suppose to be when 2 people love each other. him even talking about loving someone else should have given u a reason to devorce him.
2006-11-01 20:20:39 · answer #9 · answered by George 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look lady, you can't even get your thoughts sorted out. So many ideas running back to back to back.
Get them sorted out then come back and get some advice.... Crap American with bad english... I guess I learnt something new today.
2006-11-01 20:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Hang Tough 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋