i met pakistani man online over 14month ago,we fell in love ,and want to meet,he is married, his wife left him almost 3 yrs ago.and returned to her family.he applied for passport to visit me ,she found out he was coming uk ,he said to visit friends and relatives ,she thinks hes going to look for work here and probably send for her so she decided to return to his home.he has a good job in pakistan ,and after visit will return there to it .we love each other very much and want to marry . i would be a 2nd wife , he can provide for us both .would we be able to marry either here legally , or if i went to pakistan ,could i marry him there and bring him here as my husband,he is muslim and can take 2nd wife, i have converted to islam and now regard myself muslim. please help
2006-11-01 21:10:30 · 8 answers · asked by jean d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi jean d , plz when u got an email from lubz_001 tell her that i'm in a similar situation and i need an advice forward this to her ; i read your answer to jean d and i'm interesting to know about your experience. i'm a muslim girl from middle east and in love with pakistani man for a year , he is married , his wife knew about our relationship now . she tried to call me but he always ask me to deny and to say i have engaged and i'm not interesting in him. we are planning to marry but after i talked to her i'm worry she think that i'm bad girl and chatting with many men , what should i do ? i met him 4 times and really we love each other and i asked him to leave me if he want he said that this will never happen , he is muslim also and he wanna me as his wife , we did a big mistake , i lost my virginity with him , so our marriage is a must . i wanna be his 2nd wife but i dont know what is waiting me , plz help me , i need your advice ,thank u
2006-11-02 00:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by honeylol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 03:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well:
You are brave sister to want to be a second wife-I would never want my man to be with another .Anyways,English laws and the west considers a marriage between two couples not three or four! You cannot marry him legally in UK only if he gets a divorce!
Let him divorce her if you want him in UK but if he cannot divorce her then you must move to Pakistian and marry him there, then you can be his second wife!Its your choice and your life and you have to chose your path!
Goodluck and hope you too stay inlove forever!
Love SANAM
2006-11-01 21:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jean D, keep away from him, cos my uncle's mate had said da same fing ova da internet 2 some lass, who he actually went and met ( hes a Pakistani) and the only reason im telling u 2 keep away is for ur own safety okay
not dat i want u 2 break up wiv him or owt, its jus cos once u get in wiv a Pakistani guy, his wife's family tends 2 come after u and his kids tryin 2 kill
belive im talking from personal experience e.g. when my dad did a legger wiv a lass, her side of the family were on us like a swarm of flies
im warning 2 seriously keep away
okay it wasnt my uncle's mate, it was my own husband, an di got on fine wiv him
please take my advice okay, im speaking from a Pakistani point of viewplease
NOT BEING RACIST OR OWT, BUT PAKISTAN AND ENGLAND ARE MILES APART FROM HOW THEY ACT, AND BY GOING 2 THIS MAN UR PUTTING URSELF IN DANGER, PLEASE DONT
ENGLISH WONT UNDERSTAND WOT IM SAYING
ILL EXPLAIN FULLY IN EMAIL
BUT JUS PLEASE DONT PUT URSELF IN DANGER FOR D SAKE OF THIS PAKISTANI GUY OKAY
2006-11-01 21:36:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To you and honeylol. If you are brought up in the west forget about being a second wife. You will be miserable. Run as fast as you can. Marriage is not a must even if you lost your virginity.
2006-11-02 03:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by teplitz39 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are in a very complicated situation. Move to Pakistan and be his second wife if that is what you want.
2006-11-01 21:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've heard that marriage laws are very strict in PAK. so study it well before stepping ur foot over there. congrats for ur international love affair.
2006-11-01 21:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know.
2015-10-21 02:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by sabrina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋