i have to present this topic in my college
please justify this statement
2006-11-01 22:08:43 · 20 answers · asked by kapil g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
so they can achieve...
1. economical stability
2. mature character
3. experience in relationships
before they get into the whole marriage commitment thing
also if someone gets married young especially women may miss out in their education or career opportunities due to pregnancy etc.
by the way i disagree with the topic so that is the best i can do :)))
2006-11-01 22:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by irini d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some People who marry before the age of 30 think life is passing them by and they have the urges to procreate nest etc. Marrying early in life has disadvantages where financial security enters into the marriage equation! Financial security usually isn't obtained until 30 or after even people in their 50's who are struggling to keep afloat with financial security have a hard time.
I strongly believe the institution called marriage is a very antiquated belief and marriage shouldn't be such a focus on your mental well being- People rush into marriage every day and never really know the person that they're committing to live the rest of their living days with.
2006-11-02 06:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people by the age of 30 done made their major life mistakes..However, how can we know what we do want, until we have had something we know we don't? This really could be a valid topic, since maturity comes into play in a serious relationship. Also, while young we can enjoy so many things. Having a family does tie a person down..Then of course, the almighty dollar..The more saved, will just make life easier, when really settling down to have a family. Wow, I wished i had waited, maybe I would not be divorced?? This makes sense, even to me!!!
2006-11-02 06:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by janet r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I suppose you could argue about money or maturity but, like someone else said, you must have got the short straw!
I think a better argument would be no one should have children before 30 especially if a woman plans to be a stay at home mom without an education or a career. What a waste of a life!
2006-11-02 06:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i kinda think the statement is bs i mean my partents got married at 19 and 18 and they have been married for 30 years but if you go to justify it i got married at 17 and I am 19 now and going through a divorce I guess when your that young you havent lived life enough to know what really is good for you and besides whats the rush to get married any way why not live together and if things go good get married.....
2006-11-02 06:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by SunShineBabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right, nobody should marry before the age of 30, because, we grow physically more sooner than mentally, we are big but not matured and that is why we take wrong decisions and spent rest of our life either adjusting our marriage or breaking it and falling into painful circumstance and problems...which effect not only you, but also your partner and children, Maturity comes slowly with experiences and patience, Age between 18 and 30 is when person is very young and full of excitement, and in his over confidence, he always takes wrong decision,
This does not mean that marriages after 30 will not have any problems..but I think these problems will be solved more thoughtfully with maturity and patience
2006-11-02 06:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
quite a controversial topic since a lot of couples marry before they reach 30.
anyway, to justify that topic, the age of 30 (and above) is stereotyped to be the peak age of your financial success as well as your mental growth. it's said to be ideal to marry at the age of 30 because you'll be able to use any insurance or pension, if any, to provide for your family-to-be, as well as plan for any contingencies in case something happens. future plans are more atainable such as a future college degree for your child or children, and probably a nice house and lot plan.
and of course, at the age of 30 or so, both parents are more emotionally prepared for the responsibilities of parenthood.
2006-11-02 06:17:37 · answer #7 · answered by Ricky the Kid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE will come at the right time...we just don't know when will be the right time! if it happened before the age of 30, we should not let the feeling go...or else it'll be a lifetime regret!!! we cannot say that i want to get married at the age of 31, what if your in love at the age of 25?! are you going to let that feeling go, hoping that you will find one at the age of 31... i believe in destiny!!!
2006-11-02 06:14:14 · answer #8 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Good luck with that one. I'm 35 and have been happily married for 12 years, so I don't agree with what you have to argue......BUT, maybe you could say something about how people should learn to be financially responsible (and established in a career) in their twenties and THEN marry -- would make for a happier marriage if both people don't have money to argue about, AND if there is a divorce both should be okay as far as making a living.
2006-11-02 06:12:15 · answer #9 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT IS NOT A FAST RULE BUT WHAT THEY MEAN THAT IS MALES SHOULD STRUGGLE FROM THE AGE OF 25 WHEN THEY WILL BE FINISHING THEIR PROFFESION AND JOINED TO WORK. FOR 5 MORE YRS THEY HAVE TO SETTLE IN THE JOB AND START EARNING MONEY TO TAKE CARE OF THE FAMILY.
MORE OVER , CHILDRENS BORN TO THE PARENTS OF AGE MORE THAN 30 R CONSIDERED INTELLIGENT AS PER THE EXPERIMENTS.
2006-11-02 07:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋