Can someone please share experience. What is life of women in India after divorce with one child? Do they remarry? what is life like in Indian society? Is it better to stay single or remarry?
2006-11-01 22:54:38 · 11 answers · asked by hi123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how and where do you stay? alone with child or join family or hometown with relatives around...
Why are you worry about Society.. Scty will never give anything to you except comments on your good or bad life.. do you think if you remarry scty will treat you differently? or you stay alone with child and grew to a certain level (good), will they appreciate you? or will they have doubt on you that how could this lady do this?( dont feel bad on me, its usual comments from scty.)
Think your divorce as why it happend and how to make sure to not to happen again (all the best to not to happen if any)
thanks.
2006-11-01 23:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Friend for all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The life of a women who is divorced is not bad as reported by many of our society people... it all depends on the outlook wht u and ur family members have... If they are supportive then u don have to look back or bother about society. Getting remarried is again a debatable question because u really need to understand that u have a kid whose to take care of, also u must make sure that the kid is ok with having a new father(in case he understands the situation) as far as society is concerned they talk today and forget the next day what they spoke... so nobody needs to bother about irrelevant prople...
2006-11-02 07:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce is an ugly word and with a child along . no i don't approve. There are adjustments in life everywhere. So in a second chance will it be perfect?
Yes in indian society they do remarry . Staying single or remarrying is one's individual choice. But before a divorce think think n think not for yourself only but mainly for the CHILD who will be the innocent sufferer.
2006-11-02 07:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Indian culture is mainly related to the devine goddess i.e. Indians are giving important to the women. But now a days effect of western is far front & this makes difficult to indian women to live .When a women got divorced nobody will go to ask y she got divorced, they will only blaim her .she have to suffer a lot from the society. And without a help from a man a women cant live ,ok exceptions are there ,but the living conditions of indian girl in her family do not teach her how to live alone to .Indian womens are not yet achieve the self sufficiency
So as an Indian i reccomands to my friends to have a family and live along with it it makes u more secure
When the women got divorced with her and if she forced to live with her child ,it creates a lot of problem both of the women and child .It will affect the future of the child also
2006-11-02 08:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think think think and think; Do not just jump into divorce, there is always a way out to discuss things with your spouse. Since you have a child too, there are more reasons to be together with your spouse. Atleast think for the child who will miss his birth father. My opinion is no second guy can take place for first father. When the child grows he will come to know that his father is actually a step father. He will surely ask about his real father at that time!.
As for remarriage, its not that easy either. Its personal preference, but with a child - surely no remarriage.
If you have been married for 7-8 years, then perhaps you might have judged your spouse well, and you can decide about divorce. But if its less than 5 years for your marriage, think again on your decisions. Couples take time for adjustment and knowing each other feelings - and this is universal. Try to understand your spouse better - thats the key, and happiness will come your way. Make your child as a bond for attachment between yourself and your spouse. I am sure you, child, spouse, your parents, inlaws, et. all will be happy.
Also read this http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Apay3h1K1zXHzjAXLioeJu7zy6IX?qid=20061102123355AAjA7ou
Good luck!
2006-11-02 14:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her fate for not adjusting with her husband and it is very difficult to remain single with a child in this society , they can remarry but what will be the situation of the child , he /she may become depressed . So it is better to live with husband rather than staying alone.
2006-11-02 07:08:59 · answer #6 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every one need a partnet to live the live . One may marry or may not marry it depends upon the person .
One may not require a life partner in early stage of life . But after a certain age a lonliness will ..........
So it is better to remarry .
2006-11-02 07:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by yash_jan74 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am separated and trying to go through a divorce. I dont think I would ever remarry as it is too much hassle
2006-11-02 07:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Debbie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better first you tell me region in which you will be staying after your said divorce! There are regions in India where you alone with your kid can survive. On the other hand there are more places where you will be in trouble.
Hope I have put my intention clearly. Take your own time to decide! All the best
2006-11-02 07:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by abjwul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be bold enough to face the world, u should not fear for any thing, it is nothing wrong to take divorce with a child, since I am also facing the same problem, hurdles come front of your feet, u should have courage to face the same. Regarding re marriage- u should think of ur child first before taking any decision. Ur child is ur main aim, whoever it is he should be willing to take full care of ur child then only accept for the marriage, kindly dont neglect ur child at any instance of life.
2006-11-02 07:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋