2006-11-01 20:09:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a big problem. If you are not having sex at all, that's very bad and something that the 2 of you need to discuss openly. Sex is an integral part of any healthy marriage. Now, if you are having sex, just not as much as you like, that's different. If you and your wife just have a different sexual appetite, then you need to talk with her and work it out. Be prepared to compromise.
2006-11-01 20:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Jake S 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Are you romantic or do you just want to have sex? BBBIIIGGGG difference. If you are however truly romantic, have you talked to her, or rather listened to her? Talk to her and maybe she can tell you what to do to peak her sexual interest in you a little more. I don't think anyone else could answer the question of why she doesn't want to have sex with you better than she can.
2006-11-02 04:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by j. 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Guys tend to have a different definition of romance than women do. It's not romance to bring her flowers or chocolates. Thats something that's nice but it's not romantic.
If she doesn't want sex, there's an underlying cause. Whether it's physical or mental is the question. But you need to talk to your wife and a doctor if need be.
2006-11-02 04:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What you think is romantic maybe is not what she does. After years of marriage, sometimes foreplay is you doing the dishes, you vacuuming - if she knows you are caring enough to lighten her load, she may feel more comfortable.
2006-11-02 06:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
menopause? Some women going through "midlife crisis" will sometimes not want sex but they love their husbands very much. if she is in mid life which "can" begin in the 30's and it takes 5 to 15 yrs to complete.then most of them return to normal!......hence the proper name for midlife crisis is "MEN- O-PAUSE
It's not their fault.it's not something they can control. It is a hormone problem!
2006-11-02 04:14:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cool she is giving you the go head to search for another person to have sex but pls wait her other side should be still good try that may be it will rekindle her.
2006-11-02 04:14:38 · answer #6 · answered by Loviingly_Yours 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should try to not BE romantic, She may be bored with it right now. try being a LITTLE rough.
2006-11-02 04:12:11 · answer #7 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Get another in tow, what she does not know will not hurt her, and justify it this way, she drove you into the bed of another...there are thousands of women waiting to fill the gap (and you to fill theirs) go for it .do not waste this life........
2006-11-02 04:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Depends upon how many yrs u've been married.
2006-11-02 04:26:10 · answer #9 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
maybe shes not feeling good or is having her period, try talking to her, communication works wonders.
2006-11-02 04:19:13 · answer #10 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋