I love my husband so much I certainly know that..I am happy with him.. But..when I do make love with him I do not ***.Yes...and why if he kiss me I dont feel the tingle feeling I used to feel with my exbf before? Its like I dont like to kiss him on the lips..He is bad breath though..Why is that?
2006-11-01 22:06:16 · 13 answers · asked by mean z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
love/marriage is not all about sex and making love. enough said.
2006-11-01 22:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by chasing rainbow 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You guys need to talk. He needs to brush his teeth and if he has been doing a great deal of work in his life, his body will emit odors. These odors can be tempered from time to time with toothpaste and mouthwash and bodywash, but if your husband eats healthy food and works physically hard he will smell. You smell too. Best to keep that smell down from time to time. But don't concentrate on smells down all the time....if you do too much chemicals to reduce it, you could be killing good bacteria. Some people in soft jobs dont smell as much. If you can find your husband a soft job, maybe that is the answer too...or else he has poor hygiene. Talk it out! If you can't, you need professional help or else you both were not mature enough to have been married in the first place. You can get this "tingling" from feeling close to him. You can get close by communication. Try it.
2006-11-02 06:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not abnormal what you're saying. You were probably sexually very attracted to your ex bf, maybe even more than your husband but there are other, and more, things that attracted you to your husband and made you marry him.
A bad breath can be a turnoff of course, so that could also be a reason. It can be caused by a problem in the stomach, gums or teeth.
2006-11-02 06:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by rinah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arousal is based on things we feel attracted to and bad breath wont 'do it' for anyone despite any desire to make love to your husband,,he may have many things but start small and work up,,does he brush his teeth? floss? could it be what he is eating affecting his breath?get him to a dentist,,he may have gum disease,you never know,,as for the lack of interest, if you know you are repulsed by the smell of his breath even before you start making love you know you really dont want to so your body isnt going to awaken so to speak to his foreplay or touches,,you have to want to be aroused mentally for the bodies need to follow and if you dont get him to do something about it you may just end up switching off all together.
2006-11-02 06:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not so perfect either. I'm quite certain your breath is just as bad, only he hasn't come on-line to talk about your breath like you have of him.
Sorry, but you're too critical of him to even imagine your marriage lasting any longer than it has
You asked for my opinion
2006-11-02 06:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is not your soulmate.......if he was you soulmate, you would have accepted him with all his good and bad points........so what , the world is full of married couples who are just married partners and are living together though they know he or she is not his or her soulmate.....now it is your decision, either love him as you are loving or go in search of your soulmate, which I don't know if you will ever find...........
2006-11-02 06:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, talk to him and make things right...stop being a prude and give the marriage your attention !!!
2006-11-02 06:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you kiss him,go buy your self a gas mask.You don't gonna have same problem again
2006-11-02 06:15:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get the lowdown here.
2006-11-04 04:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are being petty. you are trying to find excuses to get out of your marriage i think.
2006-11-02 06:24:53 · answer #10 · answered by kelsey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋