Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2007

Hi. My husband and I are currently moved officially because of job. But it is true that we moved because of husband's ex.
She made guys call her PRINCESS. She two-timed with my husband's best friend. She left both of them in 1 month(almost 6 years ago) because they couldn't afford to buy her an apartment.
Boys say PRINCESS didn't even care about them at all.
But ever since I started going out with my husband 1 year ago, PRINCESS started showing up in front of my husband everywhere he goes. One day, my husband noticed PRINCESS was behind him without saying anything on the train. But when my husband is with me, she never shows up.
(At first, I doubted my husband met her by chance. We both cried and our marriage was in danger.)
She just wants boys' attention again because my husband's friend's friend told her about me. But what she does is really creepy.

Although I am away from her now, I am still nervous and sometimes have her nightmare.

I would like your advice to forget her.

2007-11-16 04:45:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have lived together 6 months, been seeing each a year. I’m 25, he’s 36. I just found he was still emailing his ex until she broke it off about 4 months ago. She lives in his home city & he saw her when he went home for Christmas last year & apparently at that time were still talking about them getting back together. He gave her card that they would be growing old together. We had a fight and broke up back in March, I moved out & he called her and told her she had always been the one, the love of his love ... well we made up, I moved back in but he was still emailing her, looking at her pictures. The crystal heart that says love that is on top of our tv is from her and he kept it as a "reminder of her". I found a letter she sent him & what shocked me was she said she didn’t understand why when she asked him, he only said he loved me, not he was in love with me.. He says it's over, do u think he still loves her? It bothers me that she cut if off not him, still wanted her in his life.

2007-11-16 04:40:20 · 14 answers · asked by Alyssa M 1

Recently i answered the following question on Yahoo Answers. Then i received an e-mail saying that this answer violated our Community Guidelines. Read what the person asked and how i answered.

Question: What is procec of court merrig by ligely ans only whom get love merrig onlyby court or by ligel advisor only?

Question Details: What is procec of court merrig by ligely ans only whom get love merrig onlyby court or by ligel advisor only? i love a girl n she is my cousin i whant to get merry with her in court only she is just 17 now n i 29 plz sugess me so i can merry with her

Deleted Answer: u cann't marry ur cousin because it incest and it is illegal. they will arrest u or something like that. that's all i can understand. i don't understand what u r asking. go learn some english before asking this question. u need english more than a solution to ur problem.

my Question is Is is rude to tell someone it it illegal and a taboo to marry ur cousin (sister)?

2007-11-16 04:38:48 · 28 answers · asked by spongebob 5

and then one thing led to another and we started attending the classes after mass as well. We are really into this, we feel really happy. We have been together for 21 years now and the lady who gives us the class asked us if we would like to get married. Now that we have been learning more about he church we realized that we should and we want to.

Now, i wanted a small wedding but in the bottom of my heart i have always dreamed about a big wedding...what should i do? Some people tell me it is a waste of money to go on a big trip or something, but for some reason i dream of that big day that i never had no matter the cost and my family and kids all in the wedding. What should I do?

By the way, if i do have a wedding should i put my mother and father as the god parents of the wedding? Is it okay?

2007-11-16 04:38:29 · 27 answers · asked by Trying to help 2

clean and the usual. My husband gets upset anytime I do anything outside of our routine. How do you get around this without causing alot of war? I am bored out of my mind!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-16 04:35:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Every man or woman has got the limitation, and we maintain the safe distance between partners. Do you know what is the distance or space , you maintain with your partner. What about your partner with you,

2007-11-16 04:31:14 · 15 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

my fiancee is having trouble finding his ex wife n we r planning on getting married but he needs his divorce who do we contact to help in his situation. he's been sep for 8 years

2007-11-16 04:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by deviant d 1

Me and husband have been together 4 years. He asked me to marry him days after us finisihing high school. We set a date and was off to planing and such. Well Katrina came messed our hall up so we had to post pon the wedding. Then we got pregnant. Now have a 16month old. But we fight. not always and I know its not as bad as some. But I think couple cousler would do us good. So why does everything think this is insane?? I grew up with fighting all the time. And husbnad never did but he grew up with getting beat by his grandfather who raised him all the time. I want something different for my son. My husband says he'll go to couple counsler if I can find one cheap or that insurance will pay. BUt am I insane to see counsler now before things get bad like I use to deal with?

2007-11-16 04:28:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband, and my daughter, which is 15 are not getting along. the last episode, was 2 days ago he reminded her that she was not locking the door when she left for school in the mornings. She left the door open again the next day, and I said something to her (not a lot). Then this morning when she left for school she left the door not only unlocked, but he said it was open. He is convinced she did it on purpose to prove she does what she wants. (now granted due to the thick tension between the two he has backed up from her) Now, would you say he is right, should I get behind him and discipline her. He unplugged her cable in her bedroom. Should I chill out and let her bear her punishment? (I know what is right I guess I just want some feed on it)

2007-11-16 04:24:29 · 18 answers · asked by Tamm 4

Me & my husband, Are Seperatedm But Good Friends, & we See each Other Every Few Months, & make Love/ Eat/ But Then, We Fight More, see i have Anxiety Disorder, He cant Cope With It, He Has a Bad Back, I feel So sorry for him, Hes Low Income, I still feel sorry For him.Im so Confused its Not funny. Hes 8 Years Younger Than Me, We Both Claim To Love Each Other, but we get Along Much Better Being apart, Any Suggestions? whos Experienced? or Can Give Good Advice? Last time I seen Him, He Broke a Chair Into Pieces, Cus Of My Mood Swings With Anxiety, sometimes Its Hard To Keep on Living, Whats The Best For Us? im living with a Friend, 2 Hours away & i take a Train to Visit Him Every Few months, We do Good the First Night, Then It seems, Back To Fighting Again, Im helpless/ Worthless/ & running out of Ideas, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP !!!

2007-11-16 04:20:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is deployed right now and we talk on the phone everyday or every other day. We have two children, 3 year old and 6 month old. Anyways, our phone conversations have been great up until the last 3 or so. Before, we would always talk about him coming home. About how much we missed each other. He would ask about the kids. Really satisfying conversations. Even on his days off, we would chat online for a couple of hours. So about three phone calls ago we go into an argument about the money and how I am handling it here. He said the bills look fine, but I am spending too much money it seems in other places. He told me to reevaluate my spending habits. So that was fine, we argued and there was some tension there when we hung up. The next conversation was not good either because my toddler stayed up half the night and I lost alot of sleep. When his phone call came around, I ended up releasing lots of frustrations out for almost and hour.

2007-11-16 04:17:53 · 15 answers · asked by Lovin' Life 1

What are some quality time activities to do with your spouse or one your are dating? (please, sex is not an answer here).

2007-11-16 04:14:52 · 14 answers · asked by Chateau Man 2

2007-11-16 04:11:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok My husband and i have been split up for one month. At first he wanted to get back but i didn't because of all the pain that he has caused me. He made me go thru so much he was very irresponsible, on and of jobs for one year. Would not come home to sleep cause he was at the casino ( adiction). I was always pulling him out of the holes he was in. I knew back then that it was not gonna work out with him, cause i'm the opposite of him. So now I'm heartbroken because i love him so much and i want to get back with him. But he does not want to. Why? He tells me he still loves me though. Do you guys think that he will change his mind one day, That he'll call me back? to work things out with me? If not what can i do to move on? I'm always tempted to calling him and begging him to come back with me. I want to stop but i can't. I love him

2007-11-16 04:11:06 · 14 answers · asked by Me 2

I heard about a website that is like eharmony or match.com but it's for married people that want to cheat. Is it just me or is our society very warped and doesn't value marriage anymore? I'm far from a prude but I do value monogomous relationships and trust my husband more than anyone. When I heard about this website, it was really disturbing that someone would create such a place to make it ok for cheaters to find others to cheat with. It's making loyalty a thing of the past. I'm divorced but even at the worst points in that relationship, I never considered cheating. I just wanted to find out other's opinions on this site. If you are pro-cheating, please state why, I'm not judging anyone, I just don't get it and I'd like to see it from another point of view.

2007-11-16 03:47:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I read all these questions most of then are foolist. They ask about a remote control. read the instuctions ,the answers there.Another one about shoes? what is up?

2007-11-16 03:40:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am going through a divorce and am trying to be nice and he is not just going with it and why I have no clue as he is bound to loose so much more then our "marraige" even though we have been apart he still is stuck on I am his wife????
I am done being nice I hate him I will no longer be put in the hospital blah blah blah.
This is turning into a feeling unlike I have ever had before

2007-11-16 03:39:18 · 6 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5

I have looked at and studied relationships for years and have come to a conclusion I want to peoples opinion on. Here it is...

The vast majority of people who have married did not marry because they truely "in love with someone", but rather because they are afraid of the pain of loosing the one they are with. Do you agree with this statement? Meaning, did you marry not because you were truely in love with your partner, but rather because you would have been devastated by loosing them? Please be honest...

2007-11-16 03:35:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

first off, before i begin, i am posting this question here b/c i need mature, serious answers...i made the mistake of putting it first on singles/dating and only got one reponse and i would a little more opinions please, so here i go. So i ask, what does it mean when a guy tell you that "we have great chemistry together"? This is how it started, i signed up on an obnline dating site and he was first to mail me. We started talking to one another and everything was great! The conversations we had and still have on the phone, through mails and texts brighten my day and he makes me feel so comfortable talking to him, like i have known him all my life. i have been in serious relationships before, but the way this guy makes me feel can not compare to the way i felt for the ones in the past, it's pretty ironic. The problem lies here, he lives in southern alabama and i live in southern louisiana, so what is dividing us is roughly a lil over 100miles. He tells me time and time again that the

2007-11-16 03:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole H 2

Your sister!!!!

2007-11-16 03:24:36 · 15 answers · asked by SnoopY G 2

I have been seperated for a year and divorced for 4 months now. My marriage ended to due the discovery of a second affair with a different co-worker. I'm not bitter, I'm actually happy our marriage is over. He was no longer the man I married and loved. He is still with the girl whom he refers to as his "friend". He has continued to beg me to give him another chance and has even harrassed me. I don't encourage his come ons and have told him repeatedly that it's over. He has finally stopped calling at home, on my cell & at work ( I think his girl may have found out).. He still does some strange things but I ignore it for the most part. Here's where I need help.. Last night I accidentally open a letter addressed to him from a church.. It talks about him setting up a meeting for him and his girl to go over possible wedding dates.. It looks like he purposely mailed the letter to my home address.. Why would he do this? What normal person does this?

2007-11-16 03:23:56 · 42 answers · asked by Caligirl 2

I always see women answer that husbands should do ______(fill in the bank). Why do the men always have to be the ones to plan something romantic? Yes we can but how about the wives suprise US men with romantic things.You want equal rights well then you should have to show your love as equally as we do when it comes to planning activities. movies, dinner, romantic weekend etc......

2007-11-16 03:12:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I are getting a divorce weither he likes it or not and he is so damn wishy washy I am about to pull my hair out!!
One day he doesn't want to ever see our son again the next he does grr then so I meet with him last night to go over the divorce papers which I have been very fair in!!!!
So he says I am not going to sign them! Why is he being so ignorant?
This is what I put in the divorce visits every other weekend I would provide transportation no property to divide up and the courts will figure out the child support.
Here is more of the story I have a restraining order in another state against him he has 2 felonies for beating me in front of the kids and a no contact order so if I wanted to I could really take his son away but I am being nice
Not to mention he never allowed me to work and I am not seeking spousal support. I find myself hating him so much and getting to the point that I want it done so it is about to turn nasty how is this I used to love him so much???

2007-11-16 03:03:57 · 21 answers · asked by ღKrissyღ 5

Became really cool friends with a classmate (college) We decided no relationship, but had love for each other. We did have a sexual relationship that benefited both of us and we always had fun. We managed to keep our private relationship from our friendship which was even better. Well we got into a really bad argument bc he asked me to pick him up from wk, and after i dropped everything i was doing, when i got there, he had already found another ride. Keep in mind I was clear across town. That started a huge argument bc this wasn't the first time that happened, he did little things like this often. Now he ignores my calls and text messages, continues to sit next to me in class, and won't even look at me. Two weeks later i go to his house, and he tells me the reason was bc when i get angry it's bad, and I don't let things go. He was supposed to be my best male friend, and he took our friendship away without discussing it with me first. It literally broke my heart I don't get it

2007-11-16 02:49:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I realize that this is America, and that in yahoo Q and A you feel you have the right to answer any question you want. And that's great. God bless America! But that also gives ME the right to complain! So here goes.....

Why do people with absolutely no experience on a subject, answer questions? When you ask a question about a cheating spouse or lazy husbands, why do twenty something people who've never been married think they have the answer? I always crack up at the one line answers to serious questions that read "leave and find somebody better." As if that's a solution to ANY marital problem! And this doesn't apply to just marriage/divorce, but to ANY question.

So I guess my point is that if somebody wants your OPINION then give it to them. But if you really don't have any actual experience on the subject, then maybe you should shut up and move on! The world might be a better place if we all stopped talking out of our arses! Sound good?

2007-11-16 02:46:17 · 35 answers · asked by ? 5

Hello everyone. Thanks for taking the time to read my post. My boyfriend of almost 2 years - he's a very great guy. He's sweet and caring - but sometimes I really worry because I catch myself dealing with a boy. He has been in and out of jobs since 06 and that always made me feel iffy because I am one to work... I had to grow up fast because I had a son at a young age. I have so many goals and dreams that really do look realistic and some I am fulfilling. I guess I can say I have reached a point in my life where I have discovered myself and catch myself not caring about the things that I used to care about so much. I feel like my day lags because he doesn't work. He lives in my home. He helps with my son. I know he loves me, but to be quite frank, he's lazy and isn't proactive with the things you'd expect from a 23 year old. He just seems out of focus and it's really wearing me out, but I am such a patient and loving gal and have faith and belief. But I'm slowly running low

2007-11-16 02:42:05 · 24 answers · asked by Natalia 1

He won't stop calling and harassing her. Any ideas on how to get him to stop? They have a 3 year old daughter which my girlfriend has sole custody. He will call late at night when he knows the daughter is in bed and want to speak with her and if he can't he then picks a fight with my girlfriend. He won't move on and won't stop calling. Any ideas?

2007-11-16 02:38:01 · 34 answers · asked by Liam 2

We are both 43 - She had cancer and finished treatment, but it sent her into menopause. She can't get hormone replacement therapy, and basically told me "sorry, too bad, we are at a different phase of our life and get used to it." We have two young children and divorce is really not an option.

2007-11-16 02:37:17 · 21 answers · asked by mykidzdad 1

Does any one else live like this and how do they cope? I dont work and have a 6 month old baby, I do everything in the house, cook, clean, look after the baby, iron, wash I mean EVERYTHING. My husband works 7 till 7 in a high powered job pays all the bills and I get whatever I want. The only thing is I am so unhappy. I am exhausted and when my husband comes home the baby is ready for bed so all he does is put him into his cot. I am so tired and think I might be despressed, my husband doesnt understand at all and I cant talk to him. He doesnt notice anything I do, and always seem to be complaining about something

2007-11-16 02:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by nursie_000 3

ive been married almost 18 months,seperated 6 months of that,i want to divorce her but she doesnt want it,she filed a divorce against me(thinking i would not sign),i agreed to the petition and the particulars(even though it was horrible malicious nonesence)but i signed anyway as i wanted the divorce,trouble is she retracted the petition and wont carry on with it,out of spite i guess,just game playing if you ask me,i want closure on this disasterous marriage but i just cant afford to put a petition in myself,and even if i did raise the funds for it she still would not sign the papers anyway so i would have waisted my money,so the question is,,,,,,,,,,,how long do i wait before we become automatically divorced and/or what other ways are there for me to get the divorce?.....some people say its 2 years some say 5 years but then what would i need to do then,,,,,so confused and desperate to get this woman out of my life for good.please help.

2007-11-16 02:30:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous