Marriage & Divorce - 16 November 2007

i am pretty and i know that, and he keeps repeating that to me. i know i am pretty, but not the prettiest, but i do kind of expect that my boyfriend would think of me like that. because i do think of him like that. and i know if we split up, i'd be looking for a similar looking guy. not because i love him, but because he's sexy. what does it mean, that he doesn't love me anymore ( coz he said i'm the sexiest in the world in the beggining of our relationship), or his love isn't "blind" anymore, or i am simply childish, which i can be sometimes. i just like to be the no1 ( you know like Monica from friend) :)

2007-11-16 23:24:33 · 11 answers · asked by Giedre V 1

How did you feel aftterwards? I've been married 12 yrs, 2 children, and I'm terrified to do it. Too many issues to name, but the bottom line is he's selfish (with his time AND money), and just takes advantage of me, then acts like he pays for everything when I work too. He sets a bad example for the kids in MANY ways including disrespecting me (and them). So, tell me, were you relieved when u walked out??? Were the kids okay with it?

2007-11-16 21:38:23 · 11 answers · asked by mom of 2 3

Would it be wrong to ask my BF to see his divorce papers. I do trust him but I just want proof. Is that contradictory? If I could see then my mind would be at ease.

2007-11-16 21:20:49 · 12 answers · asked by Santi 1

If you could shrink anybody down in the world and stomp them like a bug who would it be and why???

2007-11-16 21:15:22 · 12 answers · asked by ripstang3000 3

a 15 minute non-stop one way conservation about how things are cheaper in one store versus another. like i give f==k. so i drift off into space about, how would fergie be in bed or how high should the rope be from chair while im standing on it. am i a candidate for the straight jacket, if this continues for another year.

2007-11-16 21:06:06 · 5 answers · asked by just hanging around 5

what is the best gift for the wife on 1st night

2007-11-16 20:46:03 · 17 answers · asked by ABID A 1

2007-11-16 20:27:04 · 17 answers · asked by Praful P 1

Is this a win/win situation?

2007-11-16 19:38:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm married and my wife has gone AWOL after a row the last 24 hours.
If I travel abroad and leave my 2 yr old kid that she left with me with my mum is that legal or is it considered kidnapping? the main reason is that I can't work and take care of my daughter on my own.
We haven't divroced yet - I'm british and she's only got indefinite leave we'r both originally from Egypt.
Any serious help would be appreciated.

2007-11-16 19:10:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-16 18:52:23 · 10 answers · asked by whiskey0924 1

have you experience infidelity by your husband/boyfriend and forgave him???

how has it been trying to move forward with them after their betrayal?

have they proven trustworthy?

2007-11-16 18:18:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Recently I have been feeling overly sensitive over major situations as well as trivial ones as well. My husband took on a new position about a year ago and it has basically comsumed him. IT occupies his time at the office (of course) and at home as well. If he isn't doing something work-related, he is occupying his time with other things that certainly do not involve us (myself and my two small children) I try to be understanding and make sure everything is going accordingly. I tend to hold it all in and then myself crying hysterically, and whats worse is that he doesn't comfort me. He says he wants us to be friends again (we have been together 8 years since we were 17) yet, he doesn't treat me like a friend. I have even been extremely upset and have practically had to beg him just to give me a hug (reassurance I suppose) so that I know he still has a sypathetic bone in his body for me. He just seems more focused on his career and I'm wondering if I should just let him go?? :(

2007-11-16 18:00:59 · 12 answers · asked by LeSeul529 1

2007-11-16 17:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by SUSHIL K 1

my husband and i have been married for almost 10 yrs.we separated for a while . 3 yrs ago we got back together.it was great falling in love all over again ,latley he has been very distant and harsh toward me and im not sure how to take this.we have been in a rut latley and struggling financialy.what can i do to lift his spirits and encourage him?i cant stand seeing him so down and discontent

2007-11-16 17:54:03 · 5 answers · asked by Jeng 3

Okay I really need some advice.
Okay there is the guy name Steven.
I'm 18 years old(I just had my Birthday on Sept.18th), Steven is 17 years old and his birthday is on July 24th.
He and I have known each other for 3 years and we been going out Now here is the thing.
He and I are planing on living togeter when he turns 18 years old.
But I'm not sure if it is right or not? Like should we get married first and live togeter. Or should we live togeter and wait intill the right day we want to marry??? Please Help this is a Big Dession!

2007-11-16 17:45:39 · 37 answers · asked by Kitty 2

Step daughters husband is a DRUNK,drup abuser, and just won't work!!! They left town 6 months ago, w/10K, went broke, sold most of their stuff, and now think they're moving back home w/her MOM &I. We are finacilly broke, barley making ends meets, I can't stand this bum, I've never seen him sober, won't work more than 2 weeks, he's 30yrs old, I've had enough, I could give you details, but won't, enough is enough!! This may cost me a marriage, complete fincial ruins, I'm too old for this crap. AM I WRONG?!?!?!?

2007-11-16 17:39:07 · 11 answers · asked by happywjc 7

What would you do if you were with someone for two years and you just kinda always had a mutual agreement that you would get married someday soon, and the day comes when you pick a date, and start planning..

and your family voices their opinion that they think that you should wait a little longer?

My fiancee and I have only been together for two years, and are getting married in April '08. My Grandparents think it's WONDERFUL, and so does my mom and dad..

We have never argued about anything, communication is our secret. To this day we confide in each other and love each other more than anything in the world..

but my Aunt and Uncle have recently voiced their opinion tonight that they think that we need to wait. For something, I'm not sure what.

What would you do? Our relationship is as perfect as love can be, and we are very ready to get married.. How to you handle unsupportive relatives?

(P.s. my fiance is a great guy, with a great job and a great heart.)

2007-11-16 17:38:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my ex-wife for 4 1/2 years and she left me about 3 months ago for another man. Well, since then, all she has done is berate me and tell me that all the things she said when we were together (how she loved me, how sexy I was, etc.) were all lies. All she can do is push me away and try to hurt me but when something in her life goes wrong she calls me because she knows that I'm her shoulder to cry on. I will say all the things she wants to hear because thats just how I am with her. I miss her deeply and have recently learned that she expressed that she wanted me back to a mutual friend of ours but everytime I talk to her, she wants nothing to do with me.

Am I crazy to want her back?
Am I crazy for thinking that she will and things will go back to the way they were?

Am I crazy?

2007-11-16 17:28:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you ever had the perfect girl and you took her for granted...you ended the relationship but you thought she would be calling and being all upset about it and so on and so on..but instead she never did anything..and then you start to feel like you really messed up!?
If so what did you do to win her back? Or did you even try.?

I wrote her but she never wrote back..what does that mean?

2007-11-16 17:08:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife has 2 sisters. Both divorced. Her mom wears the pants in the house. 3 sisters live in other countries and they talk to their mom all the time but rarely talk to the poor father. I say poor because he has lost his 2 kidneys. He is really sick but they all talk to their mom all the time… Their dad was a money making machine for them.

My wife always tried to control me. I asked her more than a year to go to a counselor together. Finally we went to 2 different counselors but she did not show up the second time because she says: I am smart and educated and I know what is right!

Both of sisters got divorced because they love the way their mom is acting,. No man can handle it but their Dad! I want you to share your experience with me… My wife never thinks she may make a mistake and when you tell her about her mistakes she gets angry. She threatens, she screams…

She has filed a divorce as another threatening tool to control me. She thought after seeing the divorce papers I will say: O.K, I will be your slave and will do whatever you want but I am not going to do that.

Here are some of her controlling issues: She gets mad if I go to the gym, or play tennis with my friends (I was an athlete my whole life)…whenever we go somewhere she says: whey do you behave like this? Whey did you talk to her? What were you telling to her?? It is so insulting. I believe when I got married I am committed to only one woman and she is my wife. I never think I will be with somebody else… but she just does not understand. I lived with her for a year and a half and every day was like hell…

Do you think my wife can change? Just stop asking why and start enjoying life?
Oh, she is 34 years old by the way. She is beautiful and I am a handsome guy. I always trust her but I think she is very insecure seeing I get a lot of attention.

2007-11-16 17:01:00 · 13 answers · asked by mazyar m 1

As a western woman, i don't understand this process, nor do i understand the concept. It is giving me major distress, not to mention huge amounts of stress. He has made it clear that we will still be together. Please enlighten me on why people go throught this process. Is it engrained in them from a young age? Is it family coersion? Please help me to understand.

2007-11-16 16:48:44 · 12 answers · asked by jen 7

He's not actually dating someone...but the phone calls and emails...and the lies. We have only been married for three months and he dated her while we were on a break for about a year. We've been together for 6 years though. How do I confront him? He always seems to have good excuses!!!

2007-11-16 16:43:27 · 30 answers · asked by KimberlyG 3

We have a seven year old son. He spends most of his time playing video games and goes to strip clubs on the weekend? I know it sounds like I should just up and leave but because we have a son its hard. Help!

2007-11-16 16:35:26 · 16 answers · asked by sexyangelkiss26 1

My husbond works night and seem like it doent bother me or meybe couse i go to sleep so i dont think about.He works in a nite clubs..anyway the last phone he got he put a pin nr on his text msg...so i wont read them ..well i had read them before and was not happy with what i saw but he said its just flirting..i need guy opinion on this...i dont feel like he's up to something couse he's with me all day buy when i think about it its bothering me..

2007-11-16 16:28:39 · 10 answers · asked by MJ1977 2

Just curious. There is usually one in the relationship that loves the other more than the other loves them.

2007-11-16 16:24:40 · 10 answers · asked by Lorrie W 5

What agenda are you folks pushing. Theres a 50% divorce rate so that means half of them fail and the other half are miserable.

What is soooo goood about that huh ladies?

I think marriage is just a way to control people...to keep them in a caje of debt and responsibility and boredom.

2007-11-16 16:22:41 · 16 answers · asked by male.confused 2

2007-11-16 16:20:33 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2

have such poor hygiene?
dont even get me started with divorcees.

it's foul ladies..you can do better..
thanks

2007-11-16 16:15:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My partner and i have been together for nearly 10 years and were only 14yrs old and 16 yrs old when we met. 10 years later and we have two beautiful children together aged 2 1/2 and 6 months. I am trying to find some ideas and how to make us feel closer together. Having two children under three can be stressful especially on the relationship and i feel some times i dont have enough time in the day to share with him so i am trying to find some things for us to do together. Also what are some romantic things to do for a male.

2007-11-16 16:10:17 · 11 answers · asked by billy s 1

i was on vacation with hubby. and met a couple we h ung with for the 2 weeks we were here. we hung out alot. the couple would argue alot.. about anything and everything, her husband was negative just about on everything or he was just bored he would say to her. nothing made him happy and it made his wife uncomfortable and bitchy. twards him that is. accordong to them they were married 15 yrs. i got talking to his wife alone and asked why go on vacation when you dont get along. she said to me , at home he is nice to her , but when he has to be alone with her he says he is bored. tome he seemed controlling. after asking others, i guess couples do fight alot on vacations? is this true with any of yous? my hubby and i had a few diffrences but we werent haters lol. i did like the couple we called them the bundys lol

2007-11-16 15:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by flowerlegz 3