Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2007

he says he didnt but a month ago he cheated with his ex but he says his is done and he just proposed after a moth of dating but weve known each other for 6 months soo i dont know if he even wants to be with me or he has feeling for his ex teresa

2007-11-19 23:57:18 · 12 answers · asked by sarahboszor17 1

I found out Saturday that my ex has a friend living with her now. This friend is a drug addict and an alcoholic and has been on the wagon many many times. They also are Bipolar and I don't know if they take their medication but they weren't on it the last time I saw them and they were very manic. She threw this person out after being with them for only a week because this person drove her crazy. I doubt this person has changed in three months. Do you think this will last with them living together or will my ex eventually get tired of this person and throw them out again? It didn't work the first time. I'm just worried about her. She seems to be desperate around the Holidays and she needs someone there to do for her, yard work etc. so I'm guessing that's why they are there. I can't talk to her because she's pissed at me so we aren't speaking. When this person leaves I'm sure she'll start talking to me again. It's the case of I have my friend I don't need you kind of thing.

2007-11-19 23:51:10 · 11 answers · asked by Patrick 1

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year. I KNOW that he is the one for me and vise versa. I can really be myself with him. Yes we have our fights but we both are trying to make things work! We are talking about getting married sometime next year. I'm 24 and he is 26. We are both grown and old enough to make our own decisions. His family loves me! I love them to! I feel so comfy around them. They treat me like part of the family. My family can't seem to warm up to my boyfriend. He has made some mistakes in the past but he has turned his life around 360 degrees. My family never liked any of my boyfriends. Especially my mom. Should I get married to this man knowing how my family feels about him? HELP!

2007-11-19 23:47:41 · 13 answers · asked by sweetone_08 1

They have asked me and the kids to have Thanksgiving with them. Yes, their mother will be there with her boyfriend as well. She has not seen the kids in over 3 months, She has made some pretty bad choices since she hooked up with this guy. Because of those choices, I have full custody of the kids and she only gets supervised visits.

I do get along well with her side of the family. They do help me out a little. Sometimes, they will ask if they can have the kids over so they can spend time with the kids.

Could it just be me not wanting to see her? I don't want the kids around the boyfriend. He has been in jail several times for drug charges. Now, my ex-wife has also been arrested and found guilty of drug possession too.

I would love to go to her families home I have a good time around them and the kids do too. Should I just suck it up and go for the kids sake or do as my instints tell me "Don't go."

Tricky situation! Thanks for your help.

2007-11-19 23:43:57 · 18 answers · asked by Bones 5

I saw him at Target and he was electronic and was moving his head back and forth and I was brushing his hair!!! Sooo cute!!

2007-11-19 23:36:03 · 10 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

I asked a question before with regards to a gift for my brother-in-law.

Ive just ordered him engraved photo cufflinks they have a photo on one of his wife on her hen-night, very funny with cowgirl hat and veil dancing, and on the other her in her wedding dress on her wedding day looking gorgeous again.

Is this a nice gift? They got married last year so are still newlyweds....

2007-11-19 23:28:12 · 11 answers · asked by Hannah 4

2007-11-19 23:19:35 · 19 answers · asked by sue w 1

2007-11-19 23:06:49 · 15 answers · asked by sue w 1

You are going to Law School, he's working as a cable installer...never went or plans to go to college. Each person's family has $ yet his might have a little more.

He say's...If I buy a house when we are married and then we break up I'll give you what *I* feel is FAIR.I feel if you want to sign a Prenup on what you had b4 the marriage then that'd be fine but when getting stuff together during the marriage I feel both of us should get 1/2 if we were to split.

Any tips?What do you feel?Yes,why? No,why?

I'll sign his because I love him and I don't see us breaking up but you never know now days.

2007-11-19 22:49:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand it's not always possible but if you are in the same city... is it not a good idea to stay together

2007-11-19 22:27:40 · 11 answers · asked by Gulab 6

My partner on purpose waited years played harmless games tested me before he said he was in love & proposed marriage to me later when he wanted to do it earlier.He says he knew all along he was in love & wanted to make me his wife.We just made out not consumated our relationship.He played games tested me.Should i wait till marriage hold out he wants to make love have kids now.Since waited years to hear he loves & proposal of marriage.Hes single in 30s powerful successful professional im in 20s professional.

Not played games tested in return here i want kids he knew it.He truly deeply loves me wants to make me his wife why wait years to say & propose marriage on purpose.He says hes late should have done it earlier not later.He wants to make love have kids now we are committed.He said he knew all along he loved me wanted to make me his wife.This doesnt involve any girl or other guy we love each other committed to marriage.Serious answers.Breaking up or therapy not options.

2007-11-19 21:46:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just want to know .... what do u say to a girl, if u like her?

2007-11-19 21:44:31 · 10 answers · asked by DeanMartin_KL 1

Husband doesn't know that i know he's been going with his friends. I am not trying to offend strip club business and I think it's great for single guys. I just can't get over husband with wife willing to try different things in the bedroom still going out to strip clubs. Entertainments? I view it as re-enactment of bedroom foreplay with other people. So does that mean I can't turn on my husband anymore? He has to get turn on by other people and come home to have to me finish him off. It's too sad for me to think what I am to him. Room mate with a vagina...
I only have my intimate session with the man I vow to love and cherish forever. But i guess my husband think it's open to public. Only sex or penetration is exclusive to the marriage. Then is it cheating if wife have intimate sessions with other men, merely for entertainment? Maybe it's because he is my first boyfriend, first and only lover?

2007-11-19 21:26:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so last night my hubbie was coughing his guts out and I was so angry at him that he didn't nip it in the bud and go to the doctors weeks ago before it got this bad, but last night when his mummy dearest suggested going to the doctors he was like "oh yes mummy you're right, please make one for me". Not only that, but when I offered to make him a concoction of homemade remedies to try and ease his cough he was having none of it but as soon as his mother offered to do the same thing, again he was like "yes mummy please make it for me". This pissed me off. Then she came into MY bedroom while I was there and watched over her son to make sure he was changing into warm clothes, she also tried to tell me what medicines I should give him even though I told her nothing worked cos i've tried them all but she told me I was wrong, like I didn't even know my own husband.
What really pissed me off was when she said "mummy's only next door just knock on the wall if you need anything" even

2007-11-19 21:13:37 · 18 answers · asked by Scampi 3

2007-11-19 21:13:14 · 17 answers · asked by BABU L 1

we been talking hrus and hours confessing our love to each other and most recently he wacked off on his web cam. should i write an annnymous letter and tell the wife ? what do u think the result would be?

2007-11-19 20:50:25 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out my wife was having an affair for 2 years with someone who thought she was divorced. She lived two lives and is now with him for good. I havent been single for alot of years and now it's time for me. Where do I start? Never did much but work, but realize it's time to live a little.

2007-11-19 20:43:14 · 4 answers · asked by Dennis T 1

theres this guy basically hes my soul mate and he has told me that im his too. He says he loves me. we tlak and talk a long time. he has moved his bedroom into the basement and calls his wife's part of the houes "hell" ( example: I need a glass of water but i dont want to go into hell ). He said he wants to spend more time w/ me but she is "like a nazi" and spies on him etc.. he has no room to breathe. He has said that "we will see what happens" when i ask him if he wnats to be with me. hes concerned with the consequences of a divorce ( custody, financies, the house) ETC.. should i waste my time is he seroius? He says i understand him in a way his wife never does and he can " talk to me " but he cant talk to her or somethin.

2007-11-19 20:17:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 20:02:01 · 18 answers · asked by First L 1

My husband had affair 2 yrs ago. Things stopped when I found out about it. Since then, he has been attentive and loving to me again. But I can't seem to erase the pain and memory of it. I just can't forgive him,. What can I do?

2007-11-19 19:59:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

We are Engaged and in love with a lil family im not as slender as i use to be but im a face model with a high sex drive!
Im so in love and i wouldn ever be able to handle being cheated on!

2007-11-19 19:38:08 · 17 answers · asked by Ashes 1

my husband is not like men who always take woman without her will,sometimes i wish he be a bit persuasive even if i am not in mood,it really turns me on but if ever he sees i am not in mood he never demands and is ok.is it normal i heard men are persuasive and selfish about sex but my husband is not . he can manage without it, i think , forever.

2007-11-19 19:37:14 · 2 answers · asked by nazia m 3

For both husbands and wives ..

How would you feel to catch your husband in action with another women in your bed? (for wives) What would you do?

How would you feel to catch your wife in action with another man in your bed? (for husbands) What would you do?

PS- Its ok if you answer only your part.

2007-11-19 19:35:37 · 11 answers · asked by ryan.rookwood 1

Its been awhile since my last post. My question is my marriage I leave for iraq Jan 3rd for 1 year, my wife and I fight all the time about stupid crap, I cant stand the ways she talks,eats, bites her nails. I cant have sex with her anymore not interested. I cant afford divorce as of yet and all she wants to do is sit around the house no cleaning no talking only words I get from here is yelling or telling me to get her something. I lost my love for her. And the other part is I have found another girl she is on the fireteam with me she is also a EMT. We have been seeing eachother for about 1 month, I would like to be with her when I come home. My wife has her bf now and it doesnt bother me anymore its pointless to try right? Its stupid to get a apartment cause I leave so soon. What can I do to stop her from taking all I got when I do leave? Yes she knows about this other girl also.

2007-11-19 19:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 19:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by Twilight 6

But here it is my husband will give me I'll just call it a "LIVATION" without my even asking or expection it from him.
The thing is up till I married this man I've always been "DRY" down there but ever scense we got married ( 12 yrs ago) my husband just seems to get me "WATERFALL" wet to the point that I have past out during an ORGASUM.

He will go out of the way to give me this "livation", in fact he gave me one this morning as a wake up call ( loved it too) and allowed me to wake up with a smile on my face thats been their all day long!

So let me ask the women here this 1st, Do you find yourself craving your husband more then you did when you got married?
>I do and find my sex drive through the roof<
Do anyone here have these enjoyable problems I have?

Do you find yourself on FIRE when your husband touches decade later?

Sex was never my seen even after 2 marriage failed but now with my husband I can't get enough do you think it's how he works for our marriage?

2007-11-19 19:01:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 18:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 18:41:03 · 7 answers · asked by Kalai 1

i want to spice up our relationship but i am not sure what i should do...

2007-11-19 18:36:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My parents recently divorced, and a couple of weeks later, it was parents evening at my school. I took my mum with me, and all was well until she met my Graphics teacher.
Anyway, skip the lovey dovey part, he's now MOVING IN with us and they are GETTING MARRIED in 2008.
Why oh why did it have to be my graphics teacher?
I really need some tips on how to cope with a teacher living with us, for what seems permanent...

2007-11-19 18:36:15 · 5 answers · asked by 1992Girl 2