Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2007

2007-11-19 15:22:01 · 24 answers · asked by jessica r 1

we have a 18 month old little girl and I do not wan to break up her home. I am diabetic and I have adhd that Im not taking medicine for right now. help

2007-11-19 15:17:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 15:07:02 · 22 answers · asked by bnut227 1

is it a entitlement for one spouse to receive portions of a inheirtence in a marriage. a parent of a spouse leaves their child money after death, does the inheritor bound by law that these funds is community property of the marriage?

2007-11-19 15:06:29 · 7 answers · asked by donald b 1

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months..
he's 23 and I'm 20
We recently started to make love
but last saturday night he wanted me to talk bad during sex.
I didnt know what to say so I asked him to start..

he said really loud right off the bat..
"'IM GONNA RIP YOU IN HALF BIT'CH"
"YOU LIKE THAT..YOU DIRTY GIRL"


He said he was going to rip me half..I jumped up and turned the lights on and ran to the bathroom , put my clothes on and went back home.

That is some scary stuff.
Why would someone who says he loves you want to split me half?

weird and scary

I havent talked to him since.
He's been calling every hour.

this man needs help.

2007-11-19 14:43:36 · 65 answers · asked by stefaniekents 1

2007-11-19 14:43:15 · 15 answers · asked by Deflin-Girl 1

what to do if your wife wont sign a prenup. the prenup states the following: any spouse (me or her) who cheats loses 85% of marital assests, both partners need to contribute if one doesnt they do not receieve anything from the marital assests. in case of divorce neither spouse gets any assests of the other spouse that were obtained prior to marriage.

why wont she sign a prenup that has that? i dont understand

2007-11-19 14:42:12 · 20 answers · asked by Hi T 1

I have a three year old with my ex-husband. My husband is in the Marines. He is getting stationed in another state and my ex says he'll take to court and take custody of my son if I try to go. I have legal physical custody of him. His father has visitaion. He never comes and sees him anyways. Maybe once a month. can he do that? Will I be able to talk to the judge and tell him the situation and be able to take him with me?

2007-11-19 14:38:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 14:34:44 · 16 answers · asked by Darcy 1

2007-11-19 14:30:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here is the situation. My wife is going to file for divorce soon. We have been married almost 2 years (Dec 30,2007 is 2 years)..

She says that she doesn't want to even try to rebuild our marriage because she doesn't think she can ever be happy with our marriage. She still cares about me and wants to remain close friends.

We are here because of some lies by me last month about paying bills and also because of a small (4-5 times a month) drug problem of mine (i'm in full rehab now under my own choice)...

My question is

Do you think she is not wiling to try fix our marriage because she is in shock? everything happened all at once in a 2 month timeframe.

Do you think that with time (the day i proposed is Dec 24 and our anniversary is Dec 30) she will realize how important being in each other's lives is and become ready and willing to give me a chance to rebuild our marriage?

2007-11-19 14:28:01 · 9 answers · asked by amgraccord 1

Ok, I just moved into my girlfriends home. I also moved all my sons stuff. Now I did go thru alot of his toys and gave them to good will. He does not live with me, but comes to stay with me alot. Her daughter does not play with like him and never goes in her room. He loves to be in his room and play with his toys. Now my girlfriend just blow up on me saying I need to get ready of more toys since I asked for her daughter to get rid of some toys a month or so ago since she doesnt play with them. Am I wrong for keeping what he plays with? How would hand this? It got so bad my girlfriend said I will just leave when your son is in town...

2007-11-19 14:24:59 · 21 answers · asked by duh..... 1

hey I am 18 (almost 19) and Im dating a 27yr old Russian man we were friends before we started dating and weve been dating for a year and I know for a fact he is 100% legal here hes been here for almost 9 years my questions is is it too much of an age difference because we have been talking about getting marriedsometime in the future after Im out of college I have one more year after this semester BUT my sister is saying that I should wait since the age difference and all so whats your opinion do you think it would be okay to be serious with him like the marriage talk and all.

where would be too far to go with him

2007-11-19 14:22:50 · 9 answers · asked by Mae 2

2007-11-19 14:17:08 · 13 answers · asked by dave w 2

It seems so easy to divorce these days. I do not think everyone takes into consideration their marriage vows said before God. Why do you think this is or is not? Thank you!

2007-11-19 14:17:07 · 15 answers · asked by Marie 7

This has never caused problems for us. Any one else been able to do this without causing harm to their relationship? Any nightmare situations caused because of it?

2007-11-19 13:58:26 · 18 answers · asked by dave w 2

when we were married we faught all the time but now we are devorced we get along better
i want to get him something extra special
for christmas any ideas

2007-11-19 13:55:49 · 14 answers · asked by docsdreamlover 2

2007-11-19 13:45:40 · 15 answers · asked by jeff b 4

I told my mom that I wanted to get a piercing and she said no, I said I was going to do it myself and she took my liscense and grounded me, and I didnt even do it yet!

So we came to the agreement that I can get a fake one for 6 months, then a real one.

And she still wont give it back!

2007-11-19 13:40:15 · 10 answers · asked by kylethekiddd9 2

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2007-11-19 13:35:33 · 23 answers · asked by Shannon G 1

I mean on the nervers quit smoking four weeks ago and he is so much mean and nasty that I'm ready to divorce him in a minute. If anyone could give me advice on what I need to do please do. Thanks

2007-11-19 13:33:08 · 7 answers · asked by PJH 2

2007-11-19 13:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by awayandout 2

I've been married since April. My husband before we were married had been known to make out with other girls while we were together I found out about it later but he promised that since we were married that would no longer happen because he believes in the commitment of marriage. To my knowledge he obided by that until recently. I found out this past Friday that a week before that he made out with someone else and not just anyone else but his best friend A MAN!!! As the woman he's with I consider this a complete discrase and embarressment. Not to mention that he did this knowing that I'm pregnant and hard at work to support his jobless butt. He's dated men before (never had sex with them but done other sexual things) and the man he kisses he used to date. But he's been swearing to me for almost a year that he's straight!! When I confronted him about it he claimed that it was because of the alchohol. But I know for a fact that alchohol only brings out your desires not changes them.

2007-11-19 13:25:02 · 22 answers · asked by M@K U BL33D 1

My husband's cell phone has text messages stating that he loves this person forever, times to meet and days, it says on there have a nice day, places to meet. He denies he is cheating. How can he not be when he is the only one who uses that cell phone? He must think I'm totally stupid. The proof is right there.

2007-11-19 13:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by missyblondness35 1

while under the influence and with the boys, he sleeps with a stranger. It is the only time he has ever cheated and he confesses immediately to his wife. Should he be forgiven?

2007-11-19 13:19:18 · 19 answers · asked by jeff b 4

My mom said that any older woman will tell me that all men will cheat when they reach 40 years of age . She said she will hold my hand through the tough time Im to face in 10 years so I can learn forgiveness . Is she right ? Do all men get a "40year-itch"?

2007-11-19 13:17:54 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 13:10:29 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I try to keep my wife happy, I'm not rich and we can't go out everyday of the week , but we do things together, except that it's just about always what she likes only, movies, restaurants, tv shows, etc. Even if we leave to see a movie I want to see, we end up seing something she likes! She tells me she loves me but won't make love to me, she lets me after a while, but it seems as if I was with a rubber doll! She barely moves and get "hot" she just wants to get me off and then turns around and keeps watching TV or do whatever else. If I kiss her she wipes her lips after and says it's annoying to hve her lips wet, or even turns her head sideways so I miss her lips. When asking to have sex, she makes me wait for her shows or anything else she can think off, like playing with pets, then after midnight, tells me it's too late and goes to sleep! This is going on for years. I do my best to keep her happy and even ask her if she'd like sometihing different, she doesn't even respond!

2007-11-19 13:05:54 · 7 answers · asked by Camelot 1

It was always something else in my life: getting a job, getting to ne a pro, getting money, getting to know the world, the normal things you want until you reach that age that you start needing a partner for more than a week. I had a week of bloody dating with a man who had a 3 year old daugther and it was hell. Though the child stayed with her mom and there was no issued with parenting or of the sort, instead of dating with me, we were dating all three together. He tried to force his daughter on me before even starting to know me and see if there is any "the 2 of us" before going on the "the 3 of us" part. Pretty hell. Off the guy, because of the guy and not the child of course, though I was left with so much pain seeing what will happen to her for having a father like that. My question is, though I always felt a child is only an option, not a cumpulsory thing in life and though I am comfortable with the idea that I may never have my own, I might like a man who has a child of his own.

2007-11-19 13:05:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 13:03:28 · 26 answers · asked by Little Angel 1