My husband's cell phone has text messages stating that he loves this person forever, times to meet and days, it says on there have a nice day, places to meet. He denies he is cheating. How can he not be when he is the only one who uses that cell phone? He must think I'm totally stupid. The proof is right there.
2007-11-19 13:19:24 · 23 answers · asked by missyblondness35 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He really MUST think you are stupid. Trail his A** . Get a photo shot and tell him your eyes don't lie.
2007-11-19 13:26:14 · answer #1 · answered by plastic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he offered any explanation as to what the text messages were or who they were to/from?
In the end - the bottom line is that you don't trust him. If you did trust him, you wouldn't have gone through his phone at all. Now it seems you might have been right not to trust him.
There are decisions to make - do you two work it out and rebuild the trust or is it time to go your separate ways. A relationship without trust has no future. You two need to sit down and talk openly and honestly and decide if you're stayig together and, if so, what will be needed to rebuild the trust.
This is a decision only the two of you can make. Whether you stay together or not - good luck!
2007-11-19 21:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by rose1077 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's pretty obvious that he is cheating and now he is lying about it. If you want, you could always try to confront the girl. Take his cell phone and send a text to meet somewhere, or just get her number and call.
2007-11-19 21:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your right, the proof is there... so the question is, what are you going to do about this? You have to take action. You need to stop playing fool, get up and out, and show him who is boss.
If he's "SO IN LOVE" with this woman, tell him to get out and go to her place. Be done with the man... Honestly, life is way too short to be getting hurt and cheated on. Don't waste your time on such a sucker.
2007-11-19 21:25:28 · answer #4 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should act on your suspicions. Women have good intuition and they are usually correct.
When my ex first met the work colleague he cheated with last year, I could sense he had feelings for her. But I thought I was safe because she was engaged back then. I knew they have been emailing and calling each other, but he insisted that it was all for work.
He was there talking to her on the phone for hours when she was jilted by her fiance.
Little that I know, during one of those weak moments they got together. He jilted me for her 3 months ago!
So, trust your partner, but dont be oblivious when the signs are right in front of you!
2007-11-19 21:26:58 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Face 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take his phone when he's not around and start up a text chat with his lover. After a few minutes you will have the proof that you don't want to believe.
2007-11-19 21:25:57 · answer #6 · answered by jeff b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with murrayc, have someone go to one of the meetings that are planned and bring a camera to get the evidence that you are looking for. Just by the texts I would say, yes, that he is cheating and you need to leave his butt.
2007-11-19 21:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by orphan annie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the proof in front of you why are you asking here? Im sure that you already know the truth. Now you have to decide what your going to do... DO whats right for you and forget about how it will effect him. good luck
2007-11-19 22:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry that u have to go through what u r going through and i know how u feel and i would never tell u to leave ur husband but u do what is right for u to do. but u know just as well as i know that ur husband is doing something that he is not suppose to but hey it's all up to u. the Lord gives us women something called intuition and all of us have it now use it. u know whats up u did not need toask us. i want u to pray about ur situation and sleep on it. but i think that u should talk to ur husband and have a serious heart to heart and let him know how u feel.
2007-11-20 18:49:21 · answer #9 · answered by naughtygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the phone has the place and times to meet him. go to one of his favorite meeting place and watch him. take a camera and get pictures. take them and throw them in his face. but save a copies so just in case you need them in any type of legal problems as to show Prof. I am sorry' this has happen to you. but you deserve better.
2007-11-20 00:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, your husband is cheating. Most husband won't admit when caught red handed, like in bed together, they still have an excuse. Yes, he is cheating now what are you going to do?
2007-11-19 21:28:26 · answer #11 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋