Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2007

2007-11-19 12:58:49 · 13 answers · asked by corrineperry2004 1

2007-11-19 12:53:57 · 33 answers · asked by SC male1958 1

My wife and I have been married since June of this year. Our marriage has been anything but smooth. I don't put all of the blame on her because I have made some bad planning. Our reason for getting married was largely based on us having a baby. We argue almost every day, and we have nothing in common. We come from totally diffrent backgrounds. I am from the big northeastern city, she grew up in a small town in the south. I', 26 and shes 19, Her parents have been married for 30 yrs, mine are divorced., and not to mention I have a meddling mother-in-law. I dont't know what todo.

2007-11-19 12:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a fantasy of my wife making love with another guy. I am not very well endowed, so the thought of her being with a hot studly guy is a big turn on for me, should I tell her about it

2007-11-19 12:48:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 12:45:19 · 19 answers · asked by Susan29 2

she said i made her feel invisible i dont know how i did that

2007-11-19 12:42:48 · 49 answers · asked by Tyler R 1

My Sister in law had an 7 month affair that was exposed to everyone who known these people.
The divorce was my bother (1/2) who has challenged the NOFAULT RULE in Ca., stating the affair was the primary cause of divorce and asked the JUDGE for a CAUSE OF ACTION with detail so as to sue his wife for custody, and majority potion of the community property!

HE GOT IT on all counts and got 90% of the community property as well as physical custody of the children because he proved that his wife started to CO- habituate with individual who she was having the AFFAIR WITH and did not want his kids around the man!

Now let me say this I think the whole think STINKS to high HEAVEN, and both party's need to grow up, that said I can't fathom how this woman had the affair, how the LAWS of NO FAULT could be side stepped like this.
I practice Financial Meadion so I'm out of element on subject .

HAS ANYONE HERE HEARD OF THIS BEING APPIED TO DIVORCE LAWS?

2007-11-19 12:40:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I beed together 7 years. When he goes partying with his friends he somtimes goes to strip clubs. He lets me know when ever he goes and I dont get bothered by it. I even go with him every now and then. My friends say that I am crazy and I should not let him out. I dont care what she really thinks as long as my fiance keeps me happy thats all I care about

2007-11-19 12:36:24 · 79 answers · asked by Lili 1

Any suggestions?

2007-11-19 12:34:08 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

that you don't know what you would tolerate unless you were in a given situation?? Has anyone (relationship wise) ever tested your limits and you tolerated it? What was the outcome?

2007-11-19 12:29:15 · 11 answers · asked by *~Cam's Mommy ~* 4

2007-11-19 12:18:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-girlfriend has been acting strange. We were together for almost 3 years. However, she ended the relationship, but yet hasnt let go. She calls me or texts me everday. She even invites me out to lunch where she'll pay sometimes, so she's not using me for money. She says we won't be getting back together, but to me her actions are so different. How many ex-girlfriends break up with the guy, and yet they are the one that does all the contacting, also when were out she tries to be extremely flirty with me and only me. All my friends think she's holding onto something that she's just trying to see me put forth some effort when it comes to us. Yet she adamently says no we wont be dating again. Shes also pretty touchy with me when were out. Everyone but her says they think we'll get back together if its what I want, thats how confident they are she'll come back to me. She says I really hurt her, but for someone that was so hurt it doesnt make sense for her to keep coming around. Lost?

2007-11-19 12:13:41 · 12 answers · asked by Advice 4

I want a change in my life. I've been in a redundancy marriage for sixteen years. I know, I had to have a 'reason' to have stayed. If I want to ask her to share the wealth with a different person, and let me spend the next 16 yrs doing something less complicated, am I wrong?

2007-11-19 12:11:53 · 5 answers · asked by john_r 2

Would that make you treasure and value her morelet's say if you weren't be as romantic as you were in the beginning.

2007-11-19 12:11:36 · 13 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1

My wife and I have been married for 15 years. I love her and I know she loves me. We never fight, never hit each other, we're both hard workers, but here's the problem... since about the first year after we married, she cut our sex life by half, the following 2 years, by half again, and by the 4th year, I was the only one interested in making love! She would make love to me after me asking her after a month or two, but was realy never inot it as I'd like her to be. The following years were worst! The last 8 years, if I tried to kiss her she'd turn her head, if I touched her body or caressed her sexually, she would push my hand away, and tell me to leave her alone, if I talked about making love, she'd ignore me or do something else, or tell me to be quiet if she was watching TV, etc. I have even left her alone for weeks to see if she would try herself, but she didn't even try once! I even left her twice wanting to divorce because of this. She asked me to come back and I did!

2007-11-19 12:10:43 · 11 answers · asked by Camelot 1

I have screwed up numerous times but never slept with another guy. But pissed him off numerous times. He says he is getting tired of me but I love him more than anything and I want to start a fresh new year and make him happy and not be so upset with me...Any advice??? I'm considering couples counseling thinking maybe that will help some.

2007-11-19 12:10:24 · 7 answers · asked by brooke_grey 1

when was the last time someone said " well done " and gave you a pat on the back ?

2007-11-19 12:05:53 · 20 answers · asked by ♥BEX♥ 7

I was wondering how many close friends married people have about 10 years + of marriage. Do you network with your friends? Other then on-line?

2007-11-19 12:04:59 · 6 answers · asked by ensoman 5

Ok, I am in LOVE with a girl that is mormon, she lives in utah. I live in Florida, I know in the long run she wants me to convert and i LOVE this girl to death but dont respect the religion. my family is against me moving out to be with her cause they feel like i will be gone forever. I LOVE this girl and have been home for 3 months and our relationship has come down to me move out there for the holidays or its OVER. sooo idk what to do, my family is SOOO important to me, my father was killed around this time 2 years ago so the holidays is sad for my family and my moms my best friend, shes not making it easy on me and neither is my girl friend. I have never been so confused in my life and feel like im in the depths of despair. PLEASE HELP ME SOMEBODY, i need some advice from anyone

2007-11-19 11:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by jake 1

periods stopped suddenly 3 months ago,had hot flashes only about 3 or 4 weeks but am feeling very anxious and distrusting of my husband seem to be questioning him alot and am having fearful feelings that he is going to leave me. He says he loves me and we will get through these feelings. Is this normal menapausal feelings and will they eventually go away?

2007-11-19 11:54:34 · 6 answers · asked by dapdap7 1

Been dating my fiance for 5 years. We started discussing how to split up the holidays when we are married. He works for the railroad and isn't home on the actual holiday unless he takes it off. He can't take off all holidays because he can get in trouble for this at his job. Also, he gets paid more than double by working them. He could probably lay off one holiday but not both. He's pretty much an only child, since his parents don't see his other brothers hardly ever. So he says if he doesn't go to his parents they won't celebrate holidays at all, which I think is more their problem than his. I have 2 little brothers still at home, so it's important to my family to have the holidays on the actual day; his parents have them whenever he's home. So, basically he wants to spend all holidays with his parents, and said if he took off the actual day and spent it with my family, he would feel guilty for spending it with my family and not his.

2007-11-19 11:39:29 · 6 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2

I have been married to my husband for about 4 months now and he is a bit emotionally unstable. when we married he was a virgin and our honeymoon we freaked out and didnt want to have sex and said he be fine if i have sex with another man and get pregnant cause he will take care of that child, but now since i am beginning to show he decided to file for divorce and also decided he wouldnt care for the child he is saying that i had an affair, but he said it was ok to have sex with another man on our honey and he is now turning the tables what can i do? i dont want to lose?

*need more answers*

2007-11-19 11:26:49 · 16 answers · asked by Hi T 1

'didn't' like it...Have u ever said u did?...Why? and How do we get you to speak the truth!?

2007-11-19 11:01:58 · 4 answers · asked by Susie2 4

have their boyfriends spend the night and what not. i mean....how does the subject even come up....or worse the moms who let their teenage daughters boyfriend actually move in their house and stuff. why does this happen so much??

are there any mothers here who actually let this go on, if so what do u feel on the subject can u please explain? or anyone else who has some comments on this issue...

thanks

2007-11-19 10:14:45 · 83 answers · asked by Anonymous

I make her spend her $5000 allowance each month. If she doesn't I make her roll it over to the next month and then have to spend it plus the other month's allowance. She says she simply can't spend it all each month and she's getting tired of trying? Does this sound cruel to you?????

2007-11-19 10:01:25 · 51 answers · asked by zp055att 6

I just found out that my husband gave a key to OUR house to his ex wife. They have a son together and that is why but he never told me. I am upset because I dont want HER to have access to our house when we aren't home. In his defense, he tells me HIS SON has a key... not her. Well, he is 8 years old. Am I wrong?

2007-11-19 09:51:19 · 24 answers · asked by blah 3

i have been married to my husband for about 4 months now and he is a bit emotionally unstable. when we married he was a virgin and our honeymoon we freaked out and didnt want to have sex and said he be fine if i have sex with another man and get pregnant cause he will take care of that child, but now since i am beginning to show he decided to file for divorce and also decided he wouldnt care for the child he is saying that i had an affair, but he said it was ok to have sex with another man on our honey and he is now turning the tables what can i do? i dont want to lose?

2007-11-19 09:50:58 · 62 answers · asked by Hi T 1

I want so badly to adopt my step-daughter. My husband gained full custody of her 4 years ago due to abuse. She doesn't call and hasn't seen her in a year next month. She hasn't paid child support since Nov. 04. My daughter wants me to be her mommy and doesn't want her other mom. My husband and I both want her to be mine officially but his ex wont sign the papers. We even told her that we would forgive all owed child support if she signed the papers. Is there anything I can I do? I am going to contact an attorney as soon as we can afford to go through such a legal battle.

2007-11-19 09:50:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm involved with a married woman. Have been for 9 months now. She was married for 4 months before we started talking. She says she's never cheated on anyone before. If she gets a divorce... do you think she'll cheat on me too ? Is it true... once a cheater... always a cheater ?

2007-11-19 09:38:32 · 44 answers · asked by Ozzie S 1

I have taken all I can and today was the last straw. What is the procedure for getting a divorce and how much does it cost?

2007-11-19 09:34:00 · 7 answers · asked by smudge 3