Marriage & Divorce - 19 November 2007

at me he doesnt come over to my house were he usually stays. he gets drunk and hes a total different person.he yells at me like i were a child getting scolded.i get very afraid of him when hes like this he makes me very nervous.what should i do?

2007-11-19 04:32:51 · 15 answers · asked by sandie c 1

ok these are rubber band type rings (a rubber band might actually work) that are worn on the base. sometimes they are used by men with ED. they help keep blood from escaping and help maintain an erection. I have no problem with ED as I'm young and healthy but I noticed when using one, I do get noticeably fuller. Just curious if any women have been with a man that used one and if you noticed a difference or noticed it feeling fuller. thanks.

2007-11-19 04:31:00 · 3 answers · asked by JM D 1

ok these are rubber band type rings (a rubber band might actually work) that are worn on the base. sometimes they are used by men with ED. they help keep blood from escaping and help maintain an erection. I have no problem with ED as I'm young and healthy but I noticed when using one, I do get noticeably fuller. Just curious if any women have been with a man that used one and if you noticed a difference or noticed it filling fuller. thanks.

2007-11-19 04:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by JM D 1

I have been married about 4.5 yrs the marriage on a whole has been very emotionally rocky for me. I am going to be turning 26 yrs old soon and my husband is 39 yrs old we have a daughter(adopted)who is 3.5 yrs old after i could not concieve even though i had no medical issue.My hubby has a son from his first marriage so he did not care.Looking back i think i was more infatuated with the gifts he was giving me,i liked being shown off and all the attention.It felt like love but my feelings started diminishing shorty after we got married because i was so lonley.My husband travels 4-5 months out of the year he will let me buy whater i want but is cold and ignores me 90% of the time.He is very controling expecting a copy of my schedule for him to aprove so he can call to check in as much as he likes.Emotionally cruel i suspect an affair and physically has shoved/pinned 5x and 2 days ago slapped then shoved i fell into a glass cabinent(i needed stiches).I signed a pre-nup and have never..

2007-11-19 04:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex is an extrememly hateful person. I have never dated someone so terrible in my life. We have a 7 month old baby together. We have been split up for about 6 months and he already has a live in gf who has 2 kids. He does not pay support, he lies to me, refuses to pay support, and knowing the back stabbing 2 faced person he is I am scared of what he might do next. I have a fear that he is going to try and get custody just to avoid paying support. I dont really think he can accomplish winning, but he is a snake and nothing he does suprises me. I dont know his new gf but I know him and I know both of them have called the police on my telling lies to try and get me arrested. I hate those people and would like to know how I can find out what they are up to without doing it illegally.

2007-11-19 04:27:56 · 9 answers · asked by fantasy gal 5

2007-11-19 04:24:29 · 13 answers · asked by Paulus 6

We have an argument in car two days ago....I got mad and didn't talk with him. I still prepared the dinner, the lunch and everything just didn't want to talk. But...he seems normal...watch TV..papers...yard work..etc. After two days...we didn't talk still. I don't want to be the first one to start the talk. I'm confused...angry...and upset. What should I do?

2007-11-19 04:18:10 · 18 answers · asked by bighug 1

i live with my boyfriend for almost 7 years, but i can't let him continue to play the games he plays. He is always hanging out with other females. He oftentimes comes home after work 5 or more hours after he gets off. I find telephone numbers all of the time in his pockets, most of whom I know but don't necessarily care for, he never takes me out anywhere except for breakfast or dinner (not fancy ever) and doesn't take me with him when he goes out @ about. We argue all of the time and I try telling him that it is not accptable to have female friends that I have never even met. And I don't believe that it is alright to have to hang out with them on a daily basis, especially when I am at home waiting for him. When he takes off, he says that he'll be right back, but doesn't usually come back for hours. He has called me to say that he'd be home soon and didn't for two or three days. No phone call, no reason whatsoever. And then has the nerve to question me why I get so pissed off.

2007-11-19 04:15:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so your man quit his job for semi right reasons at the very wrong time- works side jobs since then a year and a half! Ladies how long would you put up with this?

2007-11-19 04:14:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been almost 2 months since her broke it off with me and still care for him the same like if we were still together. I know that, that relationship is dead. Even if he were to ask me one day to get back with him i would not be able to do it. We were only together for like three months but I don't understand what happend to me. I completly feel over hills for him. It's funny but when i go out with another male so i can forget him i end up getting worse because i wish he would be the one across table. Is it still normal for me to feel this way?

2007-11-19 04:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

a married man with a small child leaving his wife for someone younger?
does that really happen? i mean i know you hear lots about it but can a man really "stop" loving the women he married and had a child with? and if they do why do they do it?

tell me what you think.

2007-11-19 04:11:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know , it's in the Arab world . any other place ?

2007-11-19 04:09:07 · 10 answers · asked by citizen high 6

I've been seeing a married man for about 2 years - His wife found out about us and has moved on and out of their house. Would you go in and sleep on their bed? :-?

2007-11-19 04:09:07 · 14 answers · asked by twirler 2

a married man with a small child leaving his wife for someone younger?
does that really happen? i mean i know you hear lots about it but can a man really "stop" loving the women he married and had a child with? and if they do why do they do it?

tell me what you think.

2007-11-19 04:09:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-19 04:08:06 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1

To fantasize about someone you have known for a long time but you will never have them for various reasons and you know he is fantasizing about you and he knows he can never have you for the same reasons. Yet you sit across the busy room from each other in separate circles and pretend the other one isn't even there, but you can feel his eyes on you from time to time and I am sure he can feel the same. What can you do to forget this person? The attraction is extremely hot and no matter how hard I try I can't seem to get away not even when I sleep. BUT ITS WRONG!!!!! Help??

2007-11-19 03:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 5

I think you should. Especially if you have children who were born before hers. She is after all taking money away from your kids. So why shouldn't you take it away from her. I think it is totally unfair that the woman in an affair gets rewarded while the man has to pay out the nose. Thoughts or opinions?

2007-11-19 03:30:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been married 4 years as of October. I want to know your opinion. There is no 'right' or 'wrong' answer, I just want to vent. My husband works all day as I stay at home. I cook, clean, vaccuum, everything except for the cat litter. I'm scared to ask him for any help, because he gets angry easily. What do you think of this marriage? I try to do the litter, but it makes me sick to my stomach. I know that 2 of our 3 cats are mine, but I just can't do it! I've tried to do it, but after each time, I throw up or dry heave. The thing is, I'm scared to ask for ANY help! What do you think of this?

2007-11-19 03:26:28 · 23 answers · asked by Tiger Jae 2

Okay so long and short of it. My husband was an idiot and cheated on me, in my house, in MY bed. FYI_ he and I are working things out with counsling. But this inconsiderate woman has posted pictures she took of the two of them together, her in my bed, anniversary gifts my husband gave to me, her in my car (which she had no permission to drive), I have VERY NICELY asked her to remove them. Do I have any legal recourse (don't wanna sue her, just want those pictures down) with my husband and I's involvement in the church and him working for a a family run family values company this is not only painful for me to see, but could potentially get him in trouble. Would this fall under privacy rights or defamation of character?

2007-11-19 03:26:16 · 19 answers · asked by shanamave 2

im really curious why do you women say that prenups are bad things?

2007-11-19 03:13:03 · 2 answers · asked by Peter P 1

no, really... if ex's name was screamed out during the intimate moments, we'd be all very mad, but so why God? what does God has anything to do with it? why do i always hear 'OH GOD!!!!!'? i mean, last time i checked, my name isn't God or anything...

2007-11-19 03:08:07 · 32 answers · asked by KJ 6

2007-11-19 03:01:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Live for the moment or save for the future?
Some people i have known in my life have worried about saving for the future,pensions etc.
Invested alot of money for later years.
Only to find they dont live that long to enjoy it!
Or their health prevents them from enjoying it!
Is it really worth it?
Should we enjoy our money now..while we can?
and worry about later years..if..and when we get there?

2007-11-19 02:59:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

is it a right decision to be a house wife now in these times though the girls is having a professional degree?

2007-11-19 02:57:15 · 28 answers · asked by inquisitiveno.1 1

I split with this girl six months ago and all has been going well and then the holidays come around and I cant stop thinking of her. I dont want to contact her in any way and I dont want her! Any advice???

2007-11-19 02:55:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found out that my parents were getting a divorce from accidentaly reading a txt message on my moms phone, so i thought i should invesigate, I found out my moms email password and looked through her emails and it turns out my parents have been planning a divorce since 2004, but havent told me and my siblings. My dad has been cheating on my mom since then too. She knows, but I had no clue. I am worried and sad they didn't tell me, .they are only together for financal reasons. My parents dont know that i know.

I want to know more about this. How do i get my mom to tell me about the divorce without explaining that i read her email?

2007-11-19 02:47:10 · 13 answers · asked by нσℓℓуωσσ∂ ηєνєя ℓσσкє∂ тнιѕ gσσ∂ 5

My fiance and I have been together for over 3 years. We have two daughters (2 and 7 months old) together. We've just gotten engaged about 3 weeks ago. Well I'm ready to set a date, have the wedding and get on with our married lives. Him on the other hand. Well that's a long story. He says he just wants the committment and is not ready to set a date and doesn't foresee a future date that he'll be ready. He got mad because I told my mom, my 3 sisters and his little cuzin. Everybody is extremely excited and happy for us and they want to know if we've set a date. I'm trying to be respectful of him and his feelings because I know that this is a huge step but at the same time I feel like he has a case of the "WHY BUY THE COW WHEN I'VE ALREADY HAD THE MILK" syndrome. And that he's using this engagement to say see I love you and I'll marry u eventually but just not anytime in the next couple of years. And I'm worth more than that. I'm ready to leave him, I didnt get a ring. So what u think?

2007-11-19 02:46:25 · 9 answers · asked by *~*Jon-Jon's Mommy!!*~* 5

My husband and I have been married 20+ years, and its a good marriage except for the fact that he thinks he has to initiate all sex or affection. He gets turned off if it is my idea. When I start to be affectionate with him, he says I'm too needy or clingy. It kinda hurts my feelings when he pushes me away. Of course in the beginning of our marriage, I had to fight him off. I still look as good as I did then, haven't gained weight or let myself go. Any advise?

2007-11-19 02:40:12 · 8 answers · asked by casey308 2

We have known each other for 24yrs now, she knows my own relationship(of 24yrs) with her sister is deteriorating and 2 affairs her sister had while with me. I have been pure & truthful to my SIL and we have done a lot together. I have been there now and seen 3 long-term relationships end of hers. I can go on and on. We are very much alike in many ways and interests.

We also confide in each other, mostly me doing the talking. But she has come out and said I look good, and we would look fine as a couple and finally, she loves me.

Strange part is family peer pressure from others including our own children my son 14yrs and her daughter 18yrs. My own wife says, “its your second wife on the phone” the other SIL says “ oh we know you two are close”. The MIL says I do things other men didn't do with her. (flowers on mothers day when she was single, assisting her to move many time etc.

But now I honestly do love her.

Sooo, has anyone herd of a successful SIL or BIL relationship?

2007-11-19 02:35:06 · 4 answers · asked by cyclone 1

I already spent my first Thanksgiving and Christmas without my ex-husband and his relatives last year. But I'm hearing Christmas songs on the radio today at work and I'm feeling this overwhelming sadness. I miss my ex-husband (he left me) and his parents and siblings - we had such fun traditions for 5 years and then all of a sudden it was over. All of my friends are married and some have kids so they all have their own families to go back and forth to on holidays. I love my own family, but it is not the same hustle and bustle that it used to be. Help!

2007-11-19 02:34:13 · 8 answers · asked by alyanna99 3