To fantasize about someone you have known for a long time but you will never have them for various reasons and you know he is fantasizing about you and he knows he can never have you for the same reasons. Yet you sit across the busy room from each other in separate circles and pretend the other one isn't even there, but you can feel his eyes on you from time to time and I am sure he can feel the same. What can you do to forget this person? The attraction is extremely hot and no matter how hard I try I can't seem to get away not even when I sleep. BUT ITS WRONG!!!!! Help??
2007-11-19 03:36:41 · 14 answers · asked by Maria 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing is wrong....it happens all the time. Enjoy the fantasies because you may find that one day you are over your infatuation and the fantasies disappear as well.
2007-11-19 03:40:25 · answer #1 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
"I Honestly Love You" by Olivia Newton-John. Fantasy is normal. It's just fantasy. Give it time and it will get dull and fade out to a new one. You probably do love this person, always will, but that's how life is. You certainly must love whoever you are with more. I know this is no help, I really don't think there is any. I've fantasized about a guy for years, and he died not too long ago. Now I don't anymore.
2007-11-19 03:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl P 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It isn't wrong to think these things...only to act on them. All you will end up doing is repressing these thoughts and they will come back to haunt you in a worse way later. Go ahead and have all of the fantasies that you want, but try to not act on them. Relax, you are just human.
2007-11-19 03:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by No one 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The more you resist...more the thoughts will persist!...I would really consider physical distance, then find something else to occupy your mind...This will only succeed if you are happy in your current relationship,,otherwise..bite the forbidden fruit and pay the price!...don't forget nothing is permanent in this life..not even HOT feelings....good luck...wish you all the best!
2007-11-19 03:51:42 · answer #4 · answered by prtpjs 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What can you do to forget this person?
Uh...take yourself OUT of the situation woudl be a GREAT start. Fantasize all you want in the privacy of your own home...continuing to be around this person is asking for trouble and showing less than innocent intentions and fantasies.
2007-11-19 03:41:11 · answer #5 · answered by laura1977 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It's called animal instinct and we all have it. I do not know exactly what makes your situation wrong. However, I do know that it is only natural to be attracted to someone whether it is your spouse or not. What makes us unique is our ability to control our urges. Personally, if you are considering cheating on your husband for this other guy, then I would talk to your husband. Not so much to tell him of your attraction toward another man, but more to give him the chance to make up for anything he has done to point your attraction another way.
2007-11-19 03:49:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
enjoy the fanstasy but never act on it as I am sure the section this question is in means your married and I am guessing so is he?? Take it as a compliment that you are still desirable and that is it.
2007-11-19 03:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by ღKrissyღ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wellll, that happened to me and...i never made a move and he finally moved on after a month and I had no choice but to get over him.
2007-11-19 03:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Mim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with fantasies they are very healty, enjoy.however acting on them can be trouble but sometimes worth it...be careful
2007-11-19 03:47:35 · answer #9 · answered by freakinjokers_serious 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If both of you are single what are you waiting for?
But if both of you are married, then hands off.
2007-11-19 03:55:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋