Marriage & Divorce - 18 November 2007

regrets cause us many costly effects. Alcoholism, drug abuse, marital affairs....
your comments?

2007-11-18 22:58:26 · 9 answers · asked by Fugitive Peices 5

2007-11-18 22:56:59 · 7 answers · asked by La Dee Da 3

2007-11-18 22:55:35 · 17 answers · asked by SHIVA 7

She diserted almost four years ago, took my kids and assets with her. Now she brokes and asked me to accept her as my wife again. I love the kids and I do love my girlfriend too...I already forgive her, but impossible to accept her as my wife again since her moral characters is very low.
I just prepare to divorce her after my wedding, but somebody told her about my plan to get married and suddenly she came to me....
I'm muslim indian man and right now I really need some advices.

2007-11-18 22:48:52 · 4 answers · asked by lifeshort 1

I feel bad because a guy I met and dont fancy has contacted me again to go out. I explained that I would be happy to remain friends and meet every now and then as we are both single but nothing more. When we met up he looked at me so adoringly and I think he is hoping for more. Should I just not see him for fear of hurting this very sweet guy or let him decide not to see me if it will hurt him. I dont want to be unfair.

2007-11-18 22:45:38 · 4 answers · asked by Sarah 3

I have known my brother in law (husband’s bro) for ages. There has always been a cozy, cuddlyfeeling between us; recently for reasons it would be too long to explain, I have fallen in love with him and, I believe, him with me (al-though we have never discussed with, so let’s assume it is just a one-sided thing).
I have tried to hide my feelings for ages now; I know I am not very good at it but I try my best whenever we are together (with our spouses and rest of family).
Now I learn we will spend Xmas together with the rest of the family; spending 2/3 days with BIL sleeping in the next room (alone, because things with his wife are not good) and me sleeping with my husband.
I don’t think I can do this and I am freaking out already.
I know it will be disaster . The pain of knowing he is in the next room at night, wanting each other and having to bottle it all up for whole 3 days …
have thought of telling my husband to go alone, but spending xmas alone and without my kids ???

2007-11-18 22:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been cheating on me for along time. I would like to end our marriage!
Though im in a professional workfield, Im still afraid of not being able to support my two daughters after a divorce.

2007-11-18 21:50:09 · 15 answers · asked by mell k 1

and get back to doing the housework

2007-11-18 21:09:05 · 40 answers · asked by Mr Cheese 3

On an emotional stand point, the decision to divorce my ex-husband to me, was the right thing to do. I wasn't in-love with him any more, he abused our relationship by using drugs, wasting money, he didn't take care of the home, he left us in debt, he courted other women, he would go against me, manipulate and he rode on the coat tails of his parents and I.

I stopped going to college when we got pregnant with our first daughter, I sold the condo I owned before we got married in Miami Beach after we bought our house to avoid paying two taxes and worked hard to invest in our future.

Now that I am alone, with 2 young daughters, working full time, paying a ridiculously high rent ( I live in Ft.Lauderdale) Doing everything, taking out the garbage, going to the It seems that I should have just bit my tongue and deal with it.

Now I wake up in the morning scared of what the future will bring, scared that I won't make enough money to support me and the girls, scared I'll be alone.

2007-11-18 21:06:51 · 22 answers · asked by thinking outside the box 2

WORDS WOMEN USE

FINE

this is the word women use to end an argument when they are right and you need to shut up.

FIVE MINUTES

If she is getting dressed, this is half an hour. Five minutes is only five minutes if you have just been given 5 more minutes to watch the game before helping around the house.

NOTHING

This is the calm before the storm. This means "something," and you should be on your toes. Arguments that begin with 'Nothing' usually end in "Fine"

GO AHEAD

This is a dare, not permission. Don't do it.

LOUD SIGH

This is not actually a word, but is a non-verbal statement often misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and arguing with you
over "Nothing"

THAT'S OKAY

This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a
man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before deciding how and when you will pay for your mistake.

2007-11-18 20:58:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u believe when you give , you get?Not necessary from the same person but your help will be return .

2007-11-18 20:51:32 · 17 answers · asked by k_syofyan 1

2007-11-18 20:40:44 · 6 answers · asked by elvis28hunt4 1

i'm often upset due to problems at work. my husband,who can be a little bit controlling, is talking about HIM going in to speak to my boss to see if there is anything they can to do ease the pressure. personally i think this is intrusive. it is MY job, MY boss, and MY responsibility to do something about it. should a husband be behaving like this.he says i'm his wife, therefore he is responsible for supporting me in any way he can

2007-11-18 20:35:15 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why are such relationships always frawned upon? These have been perhaps as old as the institution of marriage

2007-11-18 20:29:52 · 9 answers · asked by Gulab 6

Do you think it morally wrong to have sex before marriage? What do you think of people that do or don't have sex before marriage?

2007-11-18 20:28:01 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a sex fantasy about sleeping with a women but my husband would not understand would it be wrong to try it once and never do it again just to have the experience and settle the urge

2007-11-18 20:25:44 · 19 answers · asked by chancireese 2

They are having problems with my Dad and she shared them with me, so i know what she is going through. She had signs of stroke a while ago and i'm worried the stress she has now might bring it back again and even make it worse.

How do i help her to get thorugh this?

To summarise the problem, it has to do with Infidelity and lack of communication from my Dad. Even when caught he still denies and also he doesnt share some of the bank balances and accounts information with Mum. Its hurting her, and i'm hurting as well.

They have been married for 33years, they started from scratch together and now they have they ever dreamed of and more, the problem is with what Dad is doing now.

2007-11-18 20:19:42 · 8 answers · asked by Phenomenal woman 2

okay well my husbend drive a semi an he is out 6 weeks at a time an he is doing this owner operator thing. so taxes dont come out he has to pay them out of his own pocket. we are paying for a washer n dryer an a fridge an cable an phone / internet an rent an all that good stuff well i pay all the bills an hardly have anything left b/c he has a 600.00 truck payment . so he says not to pay all the bills an let stuff go back so he can pay taxes so he dont go to jail . but cant he take a loss an with claming me because i dont work an our son he should be okay. so im not gonna let our fridge go an washer n dryer because we need those . but cable n phone n internet is fine to go thats an extra . but how can he expect me to let the others go . all i do is pay bill with very little money to grocery shop. he says its up to me as what to do becuase i take care of the bills he is out there working. he has cussed me an everything if i lose the fridge whata re we gonna eat .

2007-11-18 19:43:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Having sex with someone other than your spouse and he/she doesn't know about it?

OR

Having sex with somebody other than your spouse and he/she agrees to it?

And is this moral or imorral the same way having sex with mutiple partneres when single is either moral or imorral?

2007-11-18 19:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by male.confused 2

some men are usually immature anyway so i don't know?

2007-11-18 19:14:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wife and i always clash and we had a problem that made us lose interests about each other (as a result we lost communication). i married her last year. i need some tips about starting a conversation (SPECIALLY FROM LADIES) also, i believe in change i think some day she will change her behaviour with me to the better.

-my problem with her is that she do not accept my views and ideas about our house and future plans. she sees that her mentality is better than mine.

-she is not interested in sex. but i do and i do not want to commit adultry(I WANT TO CONVOY THIS MESSAGE INDIRECTLY TO HER AND I NEED LADIES HELP).

-sometimes she insults and belittles me. this make me mad but i always forgive her and i ask her not to do it again gentily

-i like her attitude with little kids so i think she will be a good mother and she always take care of me when it comes to lunch and dinner. she always ask me to dress in good shape(that is someting i like in a woman)in spite
i need communicat

2007-11-18 19:13:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

When answering, please give your first and second reaction. My husband and I haven't had sex for 2 months...(First reaction answer here...) He works 2 full time jobs. 1st and 3rd shift and he works everyday of the week...EVERYday. He goes in on Sunday at 7pm gets off at 7:30am goes to 2nd job 8am gets off at 2pm comes home goes to bed and gets up at 8 to be at work by 9 Tues-Fri. Mind you, I work 8-5 M-F so by the time I get home he's already asleep. Now, just recently, he's been listening to any and everybody (but me) and they are saying that if you haven't had sex then SOMEbody is cheating. So now I'm being accused of cheating. Since we got married a little over a year ago, my husband doesn't touch me, kiss me or anything until he wants to have sex. He doesn't tell me he loves me and certainly doesn't show it. It's hard for me to even get in the mood when i'm steadily bein accused of cheating. I love him with all my heart, but I can't take this anymore. Con't

2007-11-18 19:08:58 · 8 answers · asked by Morlo 1

I'm now 25yrs of age.

2007-11-18 19:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by myaami_b 1

Does this mean they aren't really "christians"?

2007-11-18 19:03:17 · 16 answers · asked by male.confused 2

But don't.

How do you explain all the previous sex partners most woman have if they are supposedly "saving it" for marriage?

2007-11-18 19:01:38 · 15 answers · asked by male.confused 2

2007-11-18 18:42:28 · 12 answers · asked by mehrnosh d 1

im age 20...im looking for a "good" guy... who could be my husband... who can help me in everything... are u the 1?

2007-11-18 18:12:27 · 5 answers · asked by kaycee 1

you respect a person, you like a person, you appreciate who she is, you become considerate etc but How do you give that your love for that person to accept it that you have love for her? Most folks just say I love for the sake...... just that person to here but in most cases that is only a word unless accompanied by action.

2007-11-18 18:07:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 17:59:59 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just found out that my brother is cheating on his wife. I am not in real good terms with his wife, but this really sucks. I don't know whether to confront my brother or to just mind my business.

2007-11-18 17:50:31 · 27 answers · asked by Loli 2