But don't.
How do you explain all the previous sex partners most woman have if they are supposedly "saving it" for marriage?
2007-11-18 19:01:38 · 15 answers · asked by male.confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honey, if I did that, I'd still be waiting...
I mean, it's not like putting money in the bank - you don't earn interest for saving it, you know
2007-11-19 03:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never told anyone to wait until marriage. I would say wait until your sure..About if your ready,or if you really love the person I do feel that both of these things are important and not sure what you mean by woman having "all these previous sex partners" I was 24 my first time and can still use the fingers on one hand to count my relationships, I have been proposed to 4 times but only two of these were intimate relationships so again like i said love and being ready are important marriage is just a piece of paper and a ring. Also when I say love I mean the real thing not lust you will know the difference trust me when the right guy came along and I was ready I knew.
2007-11-18 19:11:02 · answer #2 · answered by uansad77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tell you to save sex til marriage because they feel it is the right thing to do. Anyone has the right to change their mind and change their lifestyle at anytime. People often get pressured into having sex earlier because of being afraid to lose the person since it seems that everyone does it before marriage. They also have little willpower. Every relationship is a new one and with each one, you hope it will be the ONE.
2007-11-18 19:08:22 · answer #3 · answered by dallas 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
persist with your beliefs. He shouldn't make you regulate your suggestions about it. See, my boyfriend and that i are waiting until eventually we are married previously we've sex, because we trust that we ought to continually lose our virginity to the only we adore and be with continuously. If he needs to do it now and also you do not then he ought to attend. If he breaks up with you in basic terms because of this, properly then we may be able to tell that he wasn't extremely a impressive guy regardless of each and every thing. a good boyfriend might want to attend and appreciate your beliefs.
2016-10-24 11:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you mean sex AFTER marriage. I think it stems from the whole having a baby out of wedlock is a sin and abstinece is the best prevetion. Blah blah blah.
Most women don't buy into that anymore....and personally I'd like to see if a guy is good in bed BEFORE I commit to a life with him. :)
2007-11-18 19:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by Helen Scott 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that means they are lying, which is much, much worse than having premarital sex. Choosing to have sex is a choice, but your choice shouldn't be preached as if you are better than anyone else. I think people should just respect everyone else's opinions and privacy.
2007-11-18 19:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by airforcewolf 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"saving it" makes sense until you're fully mature, but it's not like putting money in the bank, "it" doesn't accrue interest, in fact it's worth less as time goes on. In the end, people are animals just like any other creature......
2007-11-18 19:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by doovinator 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Birth control AND condom-S, there is no such a thing as SAFE sex, but safer sex or realllly safe sex is real
2007-11-18 19:06:09 · answer #8 · answered by S--slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you wait until you get married, then you do not have anything to explain to your spouse.
That and the fact that God made the suggestion.
2007-11-18 19:05:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"save"? no one in the USA saves anything. I have many a sexual affair on credit
2007-11-18 19:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋