Marriage & Divorce - 18 November 2007

I am asking because I am 30, not married, have no boyfriend, and I am worried that it is probably too late for me now.

2007-11-18 16:17:52 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today my husband told me that he doesn't want to live me now. Its always happen after every 2-3 months since 6 yrs of our marriage life. Its our love marriage. I bear 70% expenses of my home and my kid. he pay only electricity bill, water bill and ration and other expenses i bear. But always he says electricity bill I pay so you are not suppose to watch tv. he hurted me all the time. If I say him that All fruits and vegitables I bought so you are no right to eat that would be wrong na. I am women na so that I cant say that wording. Always man try to hurt women why, In six year of marriage life he got extra marritial affiar with other also. but I forget that and exact him. now he starts to chat with some other girl. what can I do I dont know. I love him so much but now Its passes. always he disturbed to my parents also, every time he told them I cant live with your daughter, they are also very distrubed with my husband my mother is heart patient I am very afraid about her health.

2007-11-18 16:17:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 16:16:53 · 13 answers · asked by Cookie 3

2007-11-18 16:15:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

what's something that i can do for my husband that's spontaneous and doesn't come from a chick flick.
in other words -what would you want a woman to do for you that's out of the ordinary of your daily routine?
oh and doesn't involve sex.. trust me we don't need help there.

2007-11-18 16:13:43 · 16 answers · asked by Lili 3

Would u get married again? I know many people are happily married...my parents included. But they both say if they could do it over they would have waited longer (they married after 3 MONTHS of dating!!!). Their 25th anniv is in March. So many couples around me are crumbling and divvying up assets, posessions, KIDS, etc. So....would u get married again?

2007-11-18 16:13:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

mothers are usually the ones who get to spend the time with their kids, I understand that. but for a wife to say to the husband, "we (the wife and the kid) are going for a walk without you because you don't do what I say," it seems a little extreme, perhaps somewhat illegal. and of course this was not an isolated case of this kind. I believe the parents should be able to discuss the real matter without using the kids.

but when the wife keeps using the kids to defend her self in one way or another, is there any legal action the father can take? is this considered some kind of parental alienation?

2007-11-18 16:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by little concerned 2

I am 18 almost 19 and I am dating a Russian man he is 27 years old and I knew hima nd was really good friends with him before we started dating and we have been talking about marriage but my sister keeps saying its not a good idea because of the age difference she thinks its too much wdyt

2007-11-18 16:11:04 · 28 answers · asked by Jessica M 1

My daughter asked me to post this:She's a christian woman who's been together with her husband for 6years. They have a son and custody of another boy at stake in their relationship. She feels torn because she doesn't feel her husband responds to her as a wife and lover. She feels trapped as a caretaker of two children and a live-in friend that's only there to pay the bills. Recently he accused her of cheating on him because she picked up a few friends to talk to that ARE men about the situation. This in mind, she has found another person that she cares alot about and now is thinking about leaving her marriage for this "other" person. She feels torn because she KNOWS it's wrong and sinful to feel this way but at the same time she doesn't feel her husband treats her as a wife. Communication is a key but talking to her husband has only made him more suspicious and not understand her even more. The friend she talks to alot says he cares for her alot but we all know how that can play out. She is really confused about the whole situations that are present and can't really think about much anymore....she goes through life and through the motions but her heart is not there and she feels like a failure.

2007-11-18 16:05:39 · 11 answers · asked by country_girl 5

If he had messed with your child but had treated you good for years and still wants you back.??Why or why not??

2007-11-18 16:04:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do you know when you are ready to tie the knot? I'm pregnant with our first child and me and the father are engaged, but I'm not sure if I should make it a long engagement or get married sooner. How do you know when you are really ready?

2007-11-18 16:00:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm usually one to answer anything my friend asks me, but I truly couldn't answer how to know if someone is the one. What makes it increasingly more confusing is the fact that I thought this one guy was my soulmate and I was completely wrong. Then I had this other friend who felt so connected to a guy that she knew when he was nearby and yet he stopped seeing her and is now married to another woman. Feelings and signs can be so misleading to the human soul. How would you really know? Tell me if you've experienced or witnessed the possibility of one really knowing and being right about it?

2007-11-18 15:58:44 · 6 answers · asked by Story Unknown 5

She had to move in with me, she is in a bad mood everyday. She argues with me, my kid and my wife. She lives for free, I gave her a car to drive, she has it pretty easy. Growing up I lived with my dad because she was a pretty bad mother and I still took her in when I had to. The point to my question is, it is getting to the point where she is causing trouble in my household, I have talked to her about it and she will not stop complaining about everything and just being mean to everyone. My wife will not even be home if I am not there because my mother just nags none stop. The question is should I kick my mother out because all of the problems she is causing, or do I let my wife be unhappy in her own home just to take care of my mother.

2007-11-18 15:52:56 · 23 answers · asked by All Knowing 4

long story short the wife moved out with our children in to his house i have know about the affair for a month and i was letting her know that i knew but she denied it when i noticed about 1 month ago but when she could not hide it no more
me being up set me and her had our anger battle u know saying things u dont mean i told her to leave which she did
but now that she is gone i miss her more than ever and have done everything to let her know that from letters and phone calls but she tells me this guy is all the things iam not and she tells me that iam not romaticly attracted to you buy she says i love u but when he is around she is one way and when i see her she acts another which confusses me she says that she will move back but when he came home from a trip she changed her mind and told me that she did not mean it what is up with that and other times she says just let me fall on my own
cause some times he acts in a way that does not suit her
what should i do to get her home

2007-11-18 15:52:23 · 25 answers · asked by djames6611 1

2007-11-18 15:51:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-18 15:35:47 · 11 answers · asked by wendy h 1

A J.W. and a Christian. Please tell me also what could be done to make it work.

2007-11-18 15:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by Hi 1

and now that he has remarried you try to do anything you can to stay in the middle of his life "because of the kids". (being sarcastic) I would love to hear honest answers from honest exes....tell me - I would love to know. Why do you cause so much grief in the midst of his new life and try to break up his new marriage.

2007-11-18 15:31:08 · 12 answers · asked by Ali C 2

One of my friend is loving a boy who is still studying and the boy wanted to marry after study completion. But they lived together all is over. But Their the boys parents will agree for marriage or nor i don;t know. He require 3 yrs to complete his study, but the girl is come to his homehouse. We are afried in these days all can change their talks. The girl parents have no other way.So Just I want to give justice to the girl what step can we take. Plz give suggestion.

2007-11-18 15:28:18 · 7 answers · asked by she s 1

My husband and I have been hanging out with another couple just about every weekend for a little over a year now. We're all really good friends. In fact, my husband and him have been best friends for about 10 years. We go places together. Our kids play together. All should be great! The problem is that I think my husband is sleeping with his best friends wife. Any time we're together, they always sit beside each other. They play around with each other. They're really touchy, feely with each other. I catch them staring at each other a lot and they act like they're sharing a private joke sometimes. Also, they always seem to find some reason to be alone together. Sometimes she has to ride with him to the store. Or he has to take something to her house "for his friend". It all seems a little suspicious to me. I've never seen anything really inappropriate happen between them. I just have a gut feeling there's more there than should be. How do I find out for sure? Help!

2007-11-18 15:17:54 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I took my daughter to get a pair of glasses. The man that was fitting her glasses was very attractive and was flirting with me The next day he called me from my customer info and said he wanted to get to know me and go out.

2007-11-18 15:07:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm known for giving unusual gifts. They have everything they need and I would like to give them something fun.

2007-11-18 15:05:32 · 4 answers · asked by mrs.lee 1

I met my girl friend who is 25 years old (I am 32) over a month ago, she mention her previous boy friend was quite large. Last week was the first time we made love, I am not small about 8" but I was surprised as if there was nobody home. She too was disapointed, would it be true once a woman had quite an endowed man before would still desire what she had experienced before?

2007-11-18 15:02:52 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

which is my son step-father . We decide to separate whats going to happen to my sons monthly S.S.I. check? I have two other children with my husband he is going to pay child support for his two kids he wanted me to stay home with are kids so I have been a stay at home mom for the last nine years
I already started looking for a job but i'm scared it might take a while since i havent work in nine years . My friend told me that the state might stop my son S.S.I. payments, that in the state of ILL you are not allow to receive child support and S.S.I. payments.If any one lives in ILL and receive child support payments and S.S.I. could you please let me how this would effect my son check?

2007-11-18 14:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by Debbie 4

I am 34 and I have more women hit on me and look at me now that I am married than i did when i was 24 and a bachelor. What gives?

2007-11-18 14:58:26 · 11 answers · asked by polar bear 1

I was married to a successful physician for 14 years. I never worked, I stayed home for 10 years to care for our children never once pursuing my own dreams & desires. I moved all over the country for the pursuit of his career. When we divorced, we split a substantial amount of money and he agreed to pay me alimony. I did not press the issue but he makes so much money it was a drop in the bucket. Why should I feel guilty for taking what was rightfully mine for 14 years of marriage, baring and raising his two children? I get tired of people faulting me for receiving what's rightfully mine. Why do so many women/men disagree with me?

2007-11-18 14:57:28 · 15 answers · asked by ooolala 2

hey do men really perfer a certain boob size or is that not true what size do you men like

2007-11-18 14:50:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Its basically every year I ask "whattcha ya want hon?" and its the standard "nothing,worry about the kids", Well the kids are older now and its time to think about the little woman this year. She's a giver and always puts herself first. Any suggestions?

2007-11-18 14:48:52 · 20 answers · asked by MikeyintheOC 5

1. Be with a man who loves you more then you love him?

2. or be with someone i love.

3. or equal love

My mom told me to follow number 1.

What you think is best, what is a lasting one?

2007-11-18 14:42:05 · 37 answers · asked by frenchi 6

I can't stop thinking about him. I still want him... even though he has moved on. I know I should be enough of a person on my own.. but what are some simple things I can do to keep busy or keep my mind occupied?

2007-11-18 14:39:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous