I am 34 and I have more women hit on me and look at me now that I am married than i did when i was 24 and a bachelor. What gives?
2007-11-18 14:58:26 · 11 answers · asked by polar bear 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you probably have your **** together now! a stable job, home, car, and you are probably more mature.
2007-11-18 15:03:10 · answer #1 · answered by just bored 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It has to do with math. Most women like to date men who are a bit older, or maybe the same age, but not usually younger. So when you were 24, you had to compete with guys who were 24, 25, 26...34. And you could not even out the numbers by dating someone 10 years younger because they would have been 14! But now the math works to your advantage. You can date women your age, or a little younger, or much younger.. The balance of power will continue to shift as you get older. :-)
And being older gives you more advantages than just that mathmatical explanation. Compared to your younger competition, you likely have more education, more established career, ect, than a guy who is considerably younger than you. A 34 year old guy probably owns a house. A 24 year old guy probably doesnt. Guess which one chicks are more impressed by.
2007-11-18 23:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some do some don't.
Women on the other hand, I find most of them don't age gracefully and that's probably why they're nuts with the cosmetic surgery.
Maybe in your case the women get more desperate or more horney. I have the same thing going on.
I just go with it. I tackle drunk cougars with my tool.
SNOOCH.
2007-11-18 23:03:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you are attractive because you are a stable male with a steady income.
The real question is.. are you trying to attract women other than your own spouse? Married men should not allow women who are nOT their spouse to "hit on them".
2007-11-18 23:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by BelieverinGod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I imagine that maturity level and confidence is a factor. And aIso... the way I see older men is that their experience in the bedroom would probably be fab... So ya... sexier 4 sure.
2007-11-18 23:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have seen gorgous young men who did not age well.
I have seen younger men who were not very handsome .. but got older - and were very handsome.
What is different about you at 34 .. than when you were 24 ?
Maybe you are more charming? .. or flirting more? .. or just plain handsome & totally irresistable.
2007-11-18 23:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More matured..the way you carry yourself, compared to a boyish one. Probably girls always look for a more manly, " older brother", "father" image. However, you should not take advantage of those girls who seems like you for you to be amore attractive by being a gentleman to them & honest to your wife.
2007-11-18 23:37:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are more mature and sucessful now. Women can pick up on those things.
2007-11-18 23:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by littleme836 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got the Kavorka.
2007-11-18 23:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by So Cal Johnny 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sure do pal male here . as well
2007-11-18 23:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋