Marriage & Divorce - 22 November 2007

My wife is 55 years and she say no sex at this age. But I want to sex with her. Where I should go when my wife does not allow me to sex with her ?

2007-11-22 23:40:14 · 29 answers · asked by ashok k 1

After being with a guy for two years we broke up. He said he was having up n down feelings.but when he first said he didn't have the same feelings for me as before. We had been living together for 6months at his parents place. Things were differnt and some what awkward at stages but i didn't care cos i loved him and would do anything to be with him. Then one day outa the blue he told me he didn't have the same feelings this was a complete shock to me as i didn't see it coming at all??so i moved out, then we had somewhat a small break and that week killed me we caught up and he told me how much of a d' head he was,and said he was really sorry and wanted to do whatever it took to make things right. I said well you hurt me, and dont know how to trust you. Then we got back together cos i believed he was sorry and wanted to make it right, and it was fine again. After 2months he then after me saying you don't make enough effort in our r'ship he said im sick of this & broke up. is he confused

2007-11-22 23:28:08 · 11 answers · asked by questionable 1

ok me and my husband are married for 6 almost 7 years, and its his birthday on dec, 3. so he reserved a hotel for us. a really nice one, and i got something nice to wear, but now i feel weird. because this is our first time out alone. the outfit fix perfectly and i have a fit body for a mother, but he never seen me in something sexy. what should i do.. i want him to see me beautiful, not slutty..

2007-11-22 23:15:21 · 29 answers · asked by nandy 4

You were born of their union, of their love.
If they stop loving one another, you better get out of the way. They will secretly hate you.
Your old self dies and you're born again. With no parents....
that's my exact real experience.

2007-11-22 23:06:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm tired of all these people getting bent out of shape because they decided for a little variety during marriage.

Why not take the "cheat" out of the equation.

Erase that word and have an open marriage.

Honestly....does one more sex partner make that much of a difference when you've had so many during your single years?

If you're worried about you getting jelous becasue you can't handle your spouse being with somebody else....guess what...most people already were with somebody else.

So why does one more make any bit of difference?

Does it cause you that much mental anguish to know that you weren't the only one they were hot and sweaty with?

2007-11-22 22:59:53 · 16 answers · asked by male.confused 2

today i found out that my husband (for 9 months) doesn't know my cell number, he lost all his phone book and he couldn't call me because he didn't know my number!!! I got very upset about it and he couldn't understand what's the big fuzz!!!
how he can remember other numbers but he can't remember mine? and what if one day he will lose again his cell and he will need to call me from another phone. I'm so mad about this, do u think i'm right?

2007-11-22 22:55:11 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 22:46:36 · 33 answers · asked by Rave 2

He has cheated on me twice already, but the first time was a week after my dad passed away and with someone much older than me. He knew my dad ment everything to me, but still he had to go out and enjoy himself. The second one was with his sister's friend. I want him to feel the pain, anger, humiliation etc that I've felt. So, should I cheat on him now?

2007-11-22 22:31:15 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-22 22:29:07 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm divorced and in my 40's. I have 3 children so I don't need any more. Since my divorce several years ago, I've dated women who were pre-menopausal and menopausal...and they often went so far off the deep end on me, it was truly scarey. I'm talking like picking up a hammer and trying to bash your head in because they found one saucer in the sink after you spotlessly cleaned the rest of your shared living space.

I've not been so shallow as to start chasing much younger women. And even if I did and got serious with them, they might want children or eventually go through menopause themselves and I'm not sure I want to deal with that again.

I'm not making more out of menopause than I should and I do know that for some women, the change of life does not bring on a deluge of behavioral changes. I've just seen it now in about 3 different relationships and if I have a choice, I want to avoid it.

So do women who have been through it just make better mates for the 2nd half of life?

2007-11-22 21:14:13 · 13 answers · asked by John S. 5

we have been together for 3 years lived together for 2. I made it clear from the start that i want to get married... since we have been together i have lost 15kg but still need to lose more.
he says that he loves me and treats me well... i love his company and him we get an very well together and have a happy home.
on the times when i have bought up marriage he says that he loves me enjoys me and wants to be with me but does not feel comfortable being with me at this weight (he has never been with a big girl before).
he has been married before and has 3 children, next year two of his children are coming to live with us they are teenagers. and i feel that, i am not to fat to act like a mother to his children or a wife to him but am to fat to marry.
I am worried that i will end up hating him.
also he is 50 and i am 29 ... the age gap has never been an issue with me.

Thanks for listening

2007-11-22 21:11:44 · 46 answers · asked by miawa88 1

been with my man for 3 yrs and i love him alot and i have no plans on leaving him.we decided to have a kid in the first week by the end of the month i was pregnant,now our daughter will b 2 soon and im one month pregnant.im very happy with him.it doesnt bother me that hes married i dont worry when he is not with me.i dont care or think about his wife.he takes very good care of me and he loves his daughter so much,he has all boys with the wife.when we are together we are very happy.i have no copliants when hes gone home,we talk about living together but i dont care when it happens.i didnt plan on wrecking anyones home but i fell in love.i dont care or worry about the wife.y is it that i dont care that he is married.am i horrible person

2007-11-22 20:42:06 · 22 answers · asked by millss77 1

actually i have been loving for three years but he did not had any feeling for me.afterward he began to be trouble with his n come to that his wife did not love loved him and she married him only to compromise with her family.now he is in love with me and says he is badly trap and will marry me after one year .he always respect me and we have not sex.

2007-11-22 20:39:46 · 17 answers · asked by dreamlata 1

2007-11-22 20:13:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like ice skating and I pleaded with my husband to build an ice skating rink for me and Jessica in the backyard but he said no because they have an ice skating rink in the city but I told him they don't allow pets and I think animals on ice are soo cute!! My puppy loves snow as well. I have been so good this year I think and I cooked Thanksgiving dinner but my husband still said no and if I kept asking him he wouldn't let me go shopping today :(

2007-11-22 19:47:48 · 8 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

you wake up and saw your partner feeling hot, touching ownsef in the clothings, legs open wide..........................
what will you do?

2007-11-22 19:22:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why does he not like me anymore, he is no longer attracted to me. Please help I am an English lady in distress

2007-11-22 19:04:52 · 57 answers · asked by blondie 1

2007-11-22 18:59:57 · 12 answers · asked by ariel 1

Can wivies also be business partners like a PA or would you think that work and pleasure be separated? One of the better known historial relationships like this would be Hitler and Eva Braun, for them to spend more time together (because he was very busy) he made her his PA. (PS: This is only an example I am expressing regarding a relationship btw a very busy man and a woman that chose to be with him, it is NOT a political question, thank you.)

2007-11-22 18:50:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am in a triangle love. Married with kids and now i wish to break up with this gal to return to my wife n kids.

How to do so peacfully and so to resolve this easily.

2007-11-22 18:49:20 · 16 answers · asked by ninjutsu77 1

My husband and I have been married nine months, together for thirteen. We were married early because I got pregnant. Our son is now six weeks old. I realize, that being barely 19 as he is, it has to be hard to be mature and grown up. But I'm handling it fine and I'm 18..maybe girls are just more mature. Anyways, he's been texting his ex of four years non stop lately, been home late from everything, and got a text from her last night that said "goodnight my sweet xo prince" (that's the only one i read b/c it hurt). he denies anything is going on. i don't know how to deal with me or him. i am on the couch right now b/c i didn't wanna sleep in the same bed and he didn't even try to get me to come back in. he didn't even say sorry for me being hurt by finding that text today. i feel like it's my fault somehow, but it can't be. is he making me feel like it's my fault? how do i switch that around because i haven't done ANYTHING to hurt him. am i thinking right or am i overlooking something?

2007-11-22 18:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ever regret meeting a married woman and her family. and husband and truley regreted meeting her all the time comming on to me when she could when her kids. man. was gone wanting to act like a young woman at. her age in her.40.s well i truley wished i hadnt meet this trailer park trash she was always calling . and like before caught her family. gone and well it finaly happened. sex in her own home and those streach marks was sicking. she i never had respect for. but where i hated her. man as well her as well is why i did her and right in her own home and almost got caught by her man good his car was loud. or we would got caught. i truley wished i never meet that trailer park trask i ws only.19. at that time a w.va whore is what she was really has any meet one that sicking and regreted it later in life knowing she was divorced over me. regret it not on my part she was nothing to start with but a tramp at her age..

2007-11-22 18:44:06 · 3 answers · asked by matthew v 3

my new wife has in the past abandoned her own children twice but since the death of her husband now has custody of them.Can my ex use any of this info to limit my visits with my son?My son dislikes me & refuses to spend time with me my ex told me to leave it up to him he doesnt like my wife or her kids.My ex said shell help him not go if thats what he wants.I have a few things that could go against me &this thing with my wife.I want to make him spend time with us can I?I have blacked my daughters(shes 16) eye before,hit &kicked her but her mom doesnt stop me & my ex knows all of this.I just want my son to know who I am Im afraid hell forget me & that his mom will let him grow up to be a pansey she lets the boy play with dolls hes 6yrs old & needs to stop that! Why cant my ex just let me &my wife build our family w/o making it so hard? Spending time w/ my wifes son would be a good way to toughen up the boy so wont turn out like my exs other boys all smart & geeky

2007-11-22 18:34:09 · 4 answers · asked by William Cornelius 1

Ok ladies, this is a question that 90% of all men would love to know the answer too.

My wife and I have been married for 13 yrs and she is not very interested in sex. She doesn't like oral sex (give or receive). She will not try anything new when I ask here to. I have tried toys, candles, diamonds, etc., but nothing works.

She tells me that all her friends are the same way.

What's up with married women?

2007-11-22 18:24:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

why is getting married so important to do before you have a baby? I don't understand the importance. i'm not trying to be rude i just dont get it. for example, my mom ALWAYS says never to have a baby until i am married - and if i get pregnant and am with someone i love, to get married before the baby comes. why why why why ? ?

2007-11-22 18:14:45 · 12 answers · asked by jenn a 1

I got married last year July,because I got pregnant. We were planning to get married the end of the year, so I did marry for love. My child is now 1 year old and his beautiful. I love my family very much, but I feel I have like a midlife crisis. I suddenly miss being young and going out. Is this normal? I am a housewife and 28 years old.

2007-11-22 18:13:40 · 10 answers · asked by 007butterfly 2

Trying to narrow the best way to have a girl do exactly what feels the best for me, in a manner that is not rude but efficient.

2007-11-22 18:00:47 · 5 answers · asked by Mike 1

My girlfriend says she needs a break, and time for herself to be independent. She swears up and down she doesn't have anyone else, and she doesn't want anyone else. She loves me more than ever, and she wants to be with me in the end. However, we just can't be together right now. What does all this mean?!

2007-11-22 17:33:54 · 19 answers · asked by Shawn M 1

No major incidents just small arguements here and there

2007-11-22 17:13:19 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly 1

I just got married to a young, handsome man. We were engaged for a year or so. Ever since we got married, he has been demanding more and more. He wants to have sex with me before he goes to work, when he comes home from work, and do it again before we go to bed. I sometimes enjoy it but I feel like I'm being used. I feel like this is my body and he should respect that. I have talked to him about this but he says he is tired and wants some fun. I don't even know if I'm suppose to enjoy having sex anymore. But one thing has suprised me. I am still not pregant not saying I'm trying to avoid it or get it. What should i do?

2007-11-22 17:07:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous