My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. It has not been easy. He is always upset, stressed or angry, or is on the verge of being any of those things. He says he hates his life. I'm not the best housekeeper, but I try. That's his biggest complaint about me. He hates how cluttered the house is. A lot of it is his work things. Tons of manuals, uniforms, maps etc. We also have a toddler, so all of his things are thrown into the mess. I admit, I can't keep on top of normal housework, picking up after him and our toddler. However, the things he says are just hateful and I don't understand it. He tells our friends our house looks like a dumpster and I let our son walk around in filth. He calls me lazy, a horrible mother and wife. He's called me a ***** on more than one occasion. He's even made comments in front of people that he doubts the paternity of the baby I'm pregnant with now. He says he was joking, but it was embarrassing and hurtful. I've asked for help around the
2007-11-24
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