Marriage & Divorce - 26 November 2007

2007-11-26 23:59:11 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

i understand that people need to make a living but I ran into an ex-Catholic who said his parents were married for 14 years with kids and they had to give a bunch of money to get the marriage annuled, then the Catholic church said the marriage never existed, even though they were married in a Catholic church? Do they use these stats in saying that more Catholics stay married, because they annul them and it "doesnt count".

2007-11-26 23:40:10 · 14 answers · asked by snowi 2

Okay, so there is like these women in my group that are spanked by their husband for rolling their eyes or talking back and they are over 55! I'm only 20 myself but I think at that age women should know not to do that to their husbands but also I think that maybe there are other ways to punish older women because I'm thinking they would bruise easier and things. I know man is the head of the house and I guess he can do what he wants, but don't you think that is too old? I'm just curious to know what others think. Thanks!

2007-11-26 22:25:16 · 19 answers · asked by Little Angel 1

i am muslim with 2 kids living in middel east (not terrorist)any way my husband nearly a year ago had an affair with filippino woman older than him by 10 years.we are getting divorce i filled it.he lately made her come to live with his mom,she left her kids and even turned to muslim for his sake ,they are married now.at first he was not spending any money for the kids,but lately he has and he told me a very strange thing that she came to (our country)to get a re-entry visa to america,then she will send for him as she will find him a job in america,HE EVEN ONCE TOLD ME THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE THE LOVING HEART .he now tells me he was never in love with her and he sees her as a step for the greencard??never once did he tell me he is still in love with me he wants me to wait for him as he is in debt and need to go and work in america (he got his MBA from usa)what do u think?what are the chances of his working?his salary?do u think he will ever come back.

2007-11-26 22:13:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I married a man who totally has my heart but I feel like it's fading. our love life sucks. He just doesn't get it. I have done everything from buying books to going to bed nude. He thinks a touch here and there is all it should take. He acts like a child. I bluntly asked him last night to make love and he says I didn't get a nap today. That totally pissed me off. We were trying to have a baby but he insisted on a condom. I am finished. I don't know what else to do. I don't want men answering this question that think they can talk to me about sex. I am married. But I need some womanly advice. There is no end. He watches TV and ....uHHHHHHH! he hurts me so much inside that I sometimes cry becasue there is no love making. It's always just sex. Lat night I just satisfied him and went to bed. I really think I am done. There is no passion or the feeling that he really needs me or wants me. I work, make dinner, try to clean the house ( Keep it neat) but I guess that is

2007-11-26 22:12:18 · 11 answers · asked by southern comfort 2

Yes this guy who has a long history of winning me over then avoiding me, (5 yrs worth). 5 yrs ago i said he had a small penis, but apologized. he seemed to understand. we have been talkign every day and even exchanged "ilove you" a few times. He wound up getting drunk, wacking on cam, and then avoiding me for a week. he came back on but sounde cold and rude. so i sent him a song of me singing to show him i did something embarassing too to maek him feel better. i still have not heard ANYTHIGN

2007-11-26 22:06:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now. Things have been fine up to now but recently I have been unhappy with the relationship. We were moving towards buying a house and getting engaged, but it just didn't feel right.

We've been on holiday together, moved in together (due to my home being flooded out) and have spent a lot of time together.

Last night I made the decision to finish the relationship and she was so upset. She wants more time to see if we can make a go of it. I however don't feel that way. Perhaps some time on my own will help me?

I think I know in my heart of hearts I've made the right decision but I have to remain strong and not go backwards.

Breaking up is so difficult. I feel so awful but also relieved at the same time.

2007-11-26 20:39:37 · 22 answers · asked by nickyboyzuk 1

my husband left me and now i feel that only if i did what he told me to do things would of been better. where did i go wrong. i dont know where i went wrong.

2007-11-26 17:58:54 · 26 answers · asked by shelly 1

I want to give him some space. I have learned if I step back a little his wife and he will grow apart. He will miss me and look at her faults more. I'm trying to learn the game he's unhappy but I can't push. I just need some pointers from you guys thanks.

2007-11-26 17:23:59 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am not so beautiful and am quite flabby with large tummy and buttocks. I want to have a baby and so need to attract my man and turn him on. We have sex once in few months or so. But I want to have more. How do I turn him on? What should I do such that he instantly gets into the mood for sex?

2007-11-26 17:21:11 · 16 answers · asked by antaliarodricks91 2

I have been going through a 3 year nasty divorce. It's finally over today! No more custody battle, divoce, bickering over support. DONE! Will life change for me and my kids now?

2007-11-26 17:21:10 · 5 answers · asked by Cindy 1

I am married for 7 Years (10 years of relationship). We went to India for 4 months to Visit his Parents 1st time. I went to live at my relatives because I was very uncomfortable with his family (they always mibehaved with me but I still spent 2 weeks there somehow)...Suddenly our life went haywire. I found out from my Cousins roommate that my husband has been seeing my cousin at her place& spent nights there and that they even went out to hill station for a week. She gave me thier boarding pass as a proof. I only took my cousin along with me once to introduce my husband. And I never knew when they exchanged thier phone no. I had stayed with my cousin for a week and she took me to all the Pubs where we drank and smoked bcos I dont get to do all this with my husband so I wanted to enjoy the week. I told her its secret between us. She told him everything to get closer to him. I am very heart broken and we are playing blame games. He says i hide things from me,I say u slept with my cousin.

2007-11-26 17:15:48 · 10 answers · asked by Lilsasha 2

2007-11-26 17:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

The kids would love to be with him...but you know they'll end up with me (which is what I want, but maybe not them)...I don't make enough to keep my house....I'll probably end up selleing it after I paid his cousins about 25 thousand dollars to fix it up, not including the other 30 thousand I spent on material...now his house is vacent and he's announced he's moving into it....I sold my other house and used the $$ to fix this one....I hate him and I don't even know what my question is...but I just want him gone asap!!! Because he makes me feel like crap and I need to move on...........

2007-11-26 16:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by 123..WAIT! 5

i caught my marine husband cheatin and i want to get him in big trouble on base..and i want to know wat rank should i go to in his company or battalion??? Please let me know the good stuff, he's tryin to get out of paying me alimony!!!!!

2007-11-26 16:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by DA-MRS 2

2007-11-26 16:42:52 · 31 answers · asked by jra60411 3

I have been acting like im 20 lately...getting drunk, not doing what i'm supposed to do...i even have a FWB type thing going on which is not like me. I'm nervous. I have a good job, i'm in grad school, I have big new responsibilities at work. I was married once before, that was over by 25...i just cant seem to get myself to grow up....i feel like i want to move away from everything and everyone. I have gone to therapy before. I dont know if i'm depressed...i'm just afriad my life will be like this forever. Everyone i know is getting married and having kids.

2007-11-26 16:37:18 · 27 answers · asked by Lilly d 1

2007-11-26 16:32:32 · 13 answers · asked by hoosiergirl 2

Ex-wife now thinks she's pregnant and an old girlfriend who he was with after the ex-wife just dropped a baby last week, and there is no doubt that the baby is his; the problem is I'm new and all of this at once is hitting me like a ton of bricks. We love each other very much, and he says he will be devastated if I leave him, he said he should have kept everything to himself. I'm just wondering if I should stick it out, be supportive ...HELP??????

2007-11-26 16:30:18 · 32 answers · asked by Jus2Sexy 1

Please help! For the past couple (3) years my husband has only made love to me 6 times. I am not just saying that, it's the truth. I keep myself up and clean as a woman I feel like that's a must at all times, but that doesn't matter to him. He won't touch me. He tells me there is no one else and he still loves me. He's not empadent yet still won't touch me, tonight when he got home I had everything perfect for him, I done my hair the way he likes it had my make up on and the whole house lit with candels. I came to him and told him I need him to want me, his response was I do. Then just walked away, I tried to get him just to hold me or kiss me, nothing! I AM SO LONELY AND EMPTY INSIDE. I have told him this many times and we have talked about it but still nothing. Im so lonely and tired of crying myself to sleep most every night, can anybody out there help me? Tired of crying

2007-11-26 16:23:21 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm in my mid-forties I am 5'4" weighed 126 pounds (57 kilos) before two kids now I weigh135 (61 kilos) and my husband is not happy with that.

I got down to 129 pounds a couple of years ago, through a lot of effort, but he barely acknowledged my efforts. I don't think my husband will ever be happy with me. He's an elite-ist and yes he stays in shape by running.

A snowboarder hit my knees hard three years ago so I can't jog any more without causing a lot of pain. I walk 2.5 miles 5 days/week.

He has repeated told me I'm fat and occasionally mentions divorce. He doesn't refer to my fattyness (out loud anyways) as much as he used to, but I can tell that he doesn't love me. He does not treat me with respect.

This has hurt me so deeply over all these years. I don't think I'll ever be thin enough for him. I can't stand him so much that I wouldn't want to lose the weight for him. I want to lose weight so I can fit in my clothes.

Am I kidding myself?

2007-11-26 16:00:37 · 15 answers · asked by cashew 3

2007-11-26 15:57:43 · 8 answers · asked by kicks139 1

we had a fight. i slapped him. he slapped my right cheek. then my left cheek. and i felt something warm all over my mouth. blood was all over my mouth. and then blood was all over the floor. i cannot understand what i am feeling right now

2007-11-26 15:48:46 · 53 answers · asked by ~Amor~ 3

2007-11-26 15:39:22 · 20 answers · asked by Supadan 2

both coworkers are married and it's been discovered that they are having an affair. They work in different departments.

2007-11-26 15:11:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

1 child 3 years old. married 5 years. I want custody, my car, and the house.

2007-11-26 15:06:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has a problem with porn... we're trying to work on it.. he did well for a while after a few sessions of therapy... but he's back at it again and trying to erase everything so I don't know what he's doing.
Even though he erases the history I always know what places he visits... should I tell him... how should I approach it?
I'm about to tell him to just do whatever he wants and start going out dancing at least once a week with my best friend... he doesn't like me going out like that... but then again I don't like him watching porn... so... what do you think?

2007-11-26 15:06:25 · 19 answers · asked by BitterSweet 6

Is this for real? First she wants a Divorce and now she doesn't. What in the world is going on? Is she trying to keep the attention away from her son? Confused...!

2007-11-26 14:56:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

The children have been living in the new state for 5 years and the father has broken the original agreement many times?

2007-11-26 14:54:27 · 3 answers · asked by Confusedintaxland? 2

So I found porn on my computer...Yes its mine not his!!!So thats even more dis respectful right??Any way weve had more than too many fights about this whole porn thing it makes me feel unwanted and yes I've shared my feelings about that trust me...Well now he is in bed ignoring me like I'm the bad guy!What the hell is that about !?Should I just keep letting this go and give into him or what?I feel like this may tear our marrage apart,and thats not really an option being as though we have 2 kids and a third on the way!!!

2007-11-26 14:51:16 · 21 answers · asked by webins1 2